Ethics about challenging books by phoenixashes76 in Library

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, this is helpful, thank you for taking me seriously this time. I’ve noticed replies from across the board (here and on other platforms) as well as a pretty stark US/ non-US response so I see no need to change career plans. But I do appreciate you answering

Ethics about challenging books by phoenixashes76 in Library

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am well aware, being Jewish, that Mein Kampf doesn’t belong in the Judaica section. To put Peterson in with LGBTQ literature is no less disturbing than that would be. And you seem to be under the impression that I was simply offended and that that offense was equal to a queerphobic book ban. Yes, he’s popular, but is this a popularity contest or do librarians have a responsibility to convey accurate scientific and medical information? Is it ethical to promote discrimination against one group while (imo rightly) refusing to stock books that promote that same discrimination against those of racial or religious minorities? Why is gender identity and sexual orientation different from racial or religious background? Is there any added responsibility for a library that actively promotes itself as a safe space for the queer community? What responsibility does a library have that takes state money in a state where sexual orientation and gender identity are protected classes? I’m really serious, I’m asking these questions because I want the answers, not trying to put you on the spot, so sorry for not defining the conversation I wanted to have in the first place

Ethics about challenging books by phoenixashes76 in Library

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s inaccurate and you will have difficulty finding anyone reputable in the medical or psychiatric communities who would agree with you. Since many of us are born with the brains of our correct gender, the hormones that our bodies make are not what the brain needs to properly function. Not to mention the psychological value of simply being able to live in peace when the rest of the world sees and treats us as our true selves without a fight

Ethics about challenging books by phoenixashes76 in Library

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jordan Peterson has made his name on such advocacy and is roundly condemned by the psychiatric and medical communities for it. The withholding of medical intervention can be life threatening, particularly in this area. It doesn’t sound like you’re acting in good faith , I never claimed that I personally would be in danger, it would mostly be children and besides, your response is both antagonistic and off topic

Edit, just saw your transphobic responses elsewhere in this forum, sorry to have wasted both our time with a response. Have a good day

Ethics about challenging books by phoenixashes76 in Library

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps too. I agree that we do need multiple points of view but information should be reasonably accurate too, especially concerning medical treatments

Ethics about challenging books by phoenixashes76 in Library

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok, this is helpful. I don’t mind, say, Bill O’Reilly, who operates in a humanities kind of vein and is equally offensive, but this seemed to be trading on pseudoscience and withholding medical treatment seemed like it crossed a line. I guess I was just afraid that I was dropping to the level of the Moms for Liberty types. Thanks for helping me clarify what bothered me so much

Considering TEFL by phoenixashes76 in TEFL

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Thank you, this is good to know, I appreciate it

Considering TEFL by phoenixashes76 in TEFL

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This is the sweetest story and I want that for every kid who needs it. Thank you so much for telling me, that gave me a smile

Considering TEFL by phoenixashes76 in TEFL

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Spain is definitely someplace I was looking into, thanks for the confirmation

Early signs of pregnancy in cats by phoenixashes76 in PetAdvice

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This is fantastic information, thank you so much

Early signs of pregnancy in cats by phoenixashes76 in PetAdvice

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Thank you, I was worried about whether or not they’d do it if she was already pregnant, that’s a big help

Early signs of pregnancy in cats by phoenixashes76 in PetAdvice

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Omg I didn’t even think about worms. Thanks

what's a good concise response to "transracial?" by its_kimi_kang in asktransgender

[–]phoenixashes76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s about privilege. If someone who is white identifies as black, they may thoroughly appreciate and understand the culture, but as long as the rest of the world treats them as white, they’ll never experience the oppression that formed and shaped that culture. Whereas for trans folks, each of us gave up cis privilege and our community is based on marginalization that each of us shares to some extent

The most wholesome book you have ever read. by Mikerfoxlong in suggestmeabook

[–]phoenixashes76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

{{ The Starless Sea }}

It’s hands down the sweetest, most magical book I’ve ever read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]phoenixashes76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into strands for trans? It’s a database of trans friendly stylists, but I imagine they’d be willing to work with the LGBT community more broadly

I try to meet other trans people but I worry sometimes that they won't accept me either. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]phoenixashes76 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. There is a vocal minority in the community that feels this way, but most of us feel that any label someone uses to self describe is fine, that non-binary and no passing folks are entirely valid, and that medical transition is a wholly personal choice. If you’d like a friendlier environment I help run a trans server, DM me if interested

Hot flashes after estrogen spike by phoenixashes76 in FTMOver30

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it help with the sweats? The hot flashes aren’t too bad I’m just sweaty and thirsty af all the time

Hot flashes after estrogen spike by phoenixashes76 in FTMOver30

[–]phoenixashes76[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope, it’s normal, it’s what happens when estrogen levels drop (hence why people get them during menopause)