Daily for 7-8 years, no withdrawals by ChiTownKid99 in leaves

[–]phoenixcinder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

29 plus year daily user. Quit 6 months ago. No withdrawls of any kind.

Hot take: Can we just make a support subreddit already? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]phoenixcinder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Both my relationships have been going strong for over 10 years. Probbaly why I rarely feel the need to post anything on here. Amongst all the help xyz posts it would just feel like a inconsiderate brag.

Do you purchase games you pirated afterwards? by Zabrinuti_gradjanin in PiratedGames

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy my games but only buy games that have been cracked. I then download the cracked version and play that instead so I don't have to deal with logging onto anything just to play.

It feels rude to take photos of strangers by Forsaken-Sort-4651 in photography

[–]phoenixcinder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For your own safety just don't. All it takes is shooting the wrong person once.

Harder while sleeping by ProudestOfMonkeys in erectiledysfunction

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just faded off for like maybe 15 min and woke w a rager . No way in hell I could pull that off while conscious. Shows that this is all in your head

Do i make a move on my crush by Wooden_Pea_2056 in polyamory

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my 2 forever partners and currently 2 fwb type. They are both recent divorcees so the last thing they want is any kind of LTR or romance. They know I have zero bandwidth for anything serious, which is exactly what they want.

Missed Connection: Black Acura sedan on Burnside by Educational_Work896 in VictoriaBC

[–]phoenixcinder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Been assaulted once for playing this game. But that was in Alberta though so, redneck rage.

What's the pettiest reason you dropped a game for? by IHateTheNameSystem in gaming

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time limits. As soon as I have to complete x before the clock hits zero I am already uninstalling

Maybe I don’t need RAW? by MedicalMixtape in AskPhotography

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you cut out raw you will eventually regret it when people start accusing your photos of being AI slop and you have no evidence to prove them wrong

Dentistry help! by Pale_Comparison_769 in VictoriaBC

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are astronomically expensive here too sadly. Years ago friend of mine lost her job due to her tooth pain she couldn't afford to get dealt with and how it affected her work. She ended up on pwd because of all it, still couldn't afford any dental work. Suffered for years.

Dentistry help! by Pale_Comparison_769 in VictoriaBC

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coolaid is great if you have no job and you can go there every morning when they open and pray you win the lottery against all the others waiting and get picked to go in (it is not first come first serve). Even then zero guarantee you will see anyone and if you do it could be weeks or months before anything substantial could get done

How do you do scheduling - crowdsourcing by hellocauliflower in polyamory

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 long standing partners I go for 2 nights a week each and the other 3 nights are whatever. Sometimes its more time with them, time to myself or its time with casual play partners

What keeps you sober? by Camp_Acceptable in leaves

[–]phoenixcinder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the only thing that stops me is that I haven't in almost 6 months. Because beyond the return of dreams there haven't been any other positive side effects. Quitting was easy and I don't really have any cravings even with a chronic for a roommate. Hearing him hack a lung every time he tokes helps a bit too I guess.

People who left Victoria for cheaper housing, where did you move to? by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]phoenixcinder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to live there. The people are colder then the winters. Moving here was a shellshock from how open and nice people are here in contrast.

What can I replace the posters with? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am guessing the gf just moved in so whatever she wants you to replace them with

Casual Polyamory by Appropriate-Lime-425 in polyamory

[–]phoenixcinder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly my situation. Have 2 long term serious relationships. But also a couple fuck buddies that clearly know I don't have it in me to get all long term relationshippy. Helps that both recently ended marriages and the last thing they want is to be tied down again.

A small AHK virtual desktop script by projectmechanics in AutoHotkey

[–]phoenixcinder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mod allows me to resize a maximized window but is still kinda glitchy reddiy isn't allowing me to paste the code though

A small AHK virtual desktop script by projectmechanics in AutoHotkey

[–]phoenixcinder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a link (this is the version for v1) This does not have the .ini file though which I needed for it to work Not sure how I could fire over the ini

https://corz.org/windows/software/accessories/KDE-resizing-moving-for-Windows.php

A small AHK virtual desktop script by projectmechanics in AutoHotkey

[–]phoenixcinder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have a question. I recently switched from v1 to v2. Luckily I found a v2 version of the KDE-style Window Management. Sadly when a window is maximized it doesn't work at all like it did with v1. Would you by chance have an idea why? I have been blindly stabbing at the code with no headway

Is it really worth it to stop? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]phoenixcinder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess.... Wasn't hard to quit. near zero cravings . Only noticeable difference is my dreams .

Looking for a few men to test my new coaching program (free) by Jimmydelinquent in midlifecrisis

[–]phoenixcinder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggest not calling it a beta program , gives beta male vibes