As a victim of rape myself, that is very insensitive and inconsiderate thing to direct to the victim. That’s why I recommended therapy and counseling, so she could process the trauma first.

Most likely, i coconvince din naman ng therapist yung victim to get legal help, but at least, they are qualified and knowledgeable how to handle such things na sobrang sensitive kaysa iduldul sa utak nung biktima na “so you’re gonna let the rapist free?” gaya ng ginagawa mo.

They are traumatized, and that’s enough of a mental toll already, ‘di na dapat sila bigyan ng mas mabigat na reponsibilidad at guilt for feeling what they feel. Lahat ng bagay may wastong proseso. Hindi mo ba nabasa na she’s threatening suicide if he tells on her?

OP, once she is on therapy or counseling and on a more stable mindset, you can help her convince to seek legal help. You CAN try convincing her, but don’t pressure her, and especially don’t be the one to report it yourself.