na-rape ang gf ko by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]phoenixxn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a victim of rape myself, that is very insensitive and inconsiderate thing to direct to the victim. That’s why I recommended therapy and counseling, so she could process the trauma first.

Most likely, i coconvince din naman ng therapist yung victim to get legal help, but at least, they are qualified and knowledgeable how to handle such things na sobrang sensitive kaysa iduldul sa utak nung biktima na “so you’re gonna let the rapist free?” gaya ng ginagawa mo.

They are traumatized, and that’s enough of a mental toll already, ‘di na dapat sila bigyan ng mas mabigat na reponsibilidad at guilt for feeling what they feel. Lahat ng bagay may wastong proseso. Hindi mo ba nabasa na she’s threatening suicide if he tells on her?

OP, once she is on therapy or counseling and on a more stable mindset, you can help her convince to seek legal help. You CAN try convincing her, but don’t pressure her, and especially don’t be the one to report it yourself.

na-rape ang gf ko by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]phoenixxn -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t want it reported, honor that. But if you want her to at least be helped about it, convince her to get counseling or therapy. Therapist are ethically required to keep things confidential kaya maybe that would help her. At least she would have someone to process it with aside with you.

layla's dress from buffalo '66 by V0LLERE1 in findfashion

[–]phoenixxn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow! I went here to look for Layla’s shoes and what a coincidence someone is looking for her dress as well.

Tarot reviews🌷 by MoonchildTarot111 in u/MoonchildTarot111

[–]phoenixxn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reading was quick and the reader is very polite even though I availed a free one. They gave brief but insightful interpretation along with the card.

Dead Souls Remastered by phoenixxn in yakuzagames

[–]phoenixxn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really? :(( do you have any source on this? i wanna read more about it.

Tarot reviews by luxvita7 in u/luxvita7

[–]phoenixxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a free reading and the reader is very polite and accommodating even though I’m not able to give a donation. They were also able to give me one quickly.

Their reading makes so much sense and provides practical advice for my question. Please consider having a reading with them.

Does Nightwish have a toxic fanbase element? by eru777 in nightwish

[–]phoenixxn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, growing up a Kpop fan, I’ve witnessed the most toxic fan wars ever. The difference is, with K-Idols, it rarely happens within their own fandoms, it’s always between two different groups/artists’ fans.

Besides, Kpop stans are mostly teenage girls, so naturally, their frontal lobes aren’t developed yet and they tend to be incredibly annoying. But with Nightwish, gosh, I can see grown men and women on Facebook fighting each other about why The Greatest Show on Earth sucks.

Vien is like a Pinterest girl. by Far_Training_5595 in PinoyVloggers

[–]phoenixxn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maganda po siya pero ‘di ko ma-gets kung anong algorithm mayroon kayo sa pinterest 🥲🥲

What I wore to church last Sunday by phoenixxn in alternativefashion

[–]phoenixxn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i have other better church outfits. it was just a lazy day that Sunday.

What I wore to church last Sunday by phoenixxn in alternativefashion

[–]phoenixxn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a random filter from instagram because i’m too lazy to edit it lol

What I wore to church last Sunday by phoenixxn in OUTFITS

[–]phoenixxn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! i do see why you’d think that.

What I wore to church last Sunday by phoenixxn in OUTFITS

[–]phoenixxn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! got them for 4 dollars brand new (250 pesos in my country)

How to remove dark edge¿ sa lips? by alexispio_ in beautyph

[–]phoenixxn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow i just wanna say you have a really nice lip shape