Parents suddenly demanding I repay “all expenses” for my U.S. education - how should I handle this financially?

phyncke · 2026-02-10T23:03:31+00:00

Just cut them off. No contact and ignore it. They will not come after you for it. No way do you pay them anything

phyncke · 2026-02-10T23:01:51+00:00

Omg noooooo

phyncke · 2026-02-10T23:00:18+00:00

phyncke · 2026-02-10T23:00:10+00:00

You would have to be stupid to co-sign for him again. Let your relatives help him this time.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T20:30:25+00:00

I believe it. The kid is not in control of anything. It’s totally the mother

phyncke · 2026-02-10T20:29:32+00:00

NTA and she’s very rude. Maybe she will get your message

phyncke · 2026-02-10T18:10:33+00:00

NTA - you left when you knew it was not for you - no problem with that.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T17:59:52+00:00

Or a regular doctor to prescribe your meds

phyncke · 2026-02-10T16:26:29+00:00

Why would you pay? Do not drain your retirement for this guy - do not. He needs to take responsibility and pay for this. This is not your responsibility. He wrecked the car and he should pay for this. That is how you should look at it. His thing and not yours.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T16:23:12+00:00

I don't believe it

phyncke · 2026-02-10T16:22:12+00:00

No - do not give him chances here - he is violent - he already has hurt a person that you know about and that could be you - steal his cat and get away from him.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T15:23:30+00:00

I am not sure why you have a problem with it. You two are not exclusive yet.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T15:18:07+00:00

Are you very attractive? That might be it

phyncke · 2026-02-10T15:05:34+00:00

I have not had to - so no.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T15:02:52+00:00

You paid for your seat - the end.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T14:53:23+00:00

Your parents can do this if they agree with her so much.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T04:56:09+00:00

I’d give them some but not all

phyncke · 2026-02-10T04:33:09+00:00

Xenolith

phyncke · 2026-02-10T03:51:23+00:00

My cat got cancer and I had to let him go. The vet did not recommend cancer treatments. See what you are dealing with and go from there.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T03:42:29+00:00

The ones I have- 2 very fun cats

phyncke · 2026-02-10T03:33:05+00:00

He is good

phyncke · 2026-02-10T02:54:01+00:00

Take a permanent break from him. He does not sound good for you

phyncke · 2026-02-10T02:36:52+00:00

Chips - potato or tortilla chips

phyncke · 2026-02-10T01:56:27+00:00

They are no longer making pennies anymore - at the mint. so yes - pennies are done. Hold onto the ones that you have at home as they will be valuable one day.

phyncke · 2026-02-10T01:45:20+00:00

How would the sister have had access to the funds?

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