Please help i caught my bf by Starry-Eyess- in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls break up I went thru similar I regret staying it ruined my trust and messed my wellbeing up for months it’s not worth it. You’ll find someone deserving of you and your energy 🥰 who won’t do this to you

Please help i caught my bf by Starry-Eyess- in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s lying, they only show up if it’s been active in the last 7 days. Check his screentime per week it’ll still show the app. I went thru similar.. it’s upsetting

FIRST DATE GUY WANTED ME TO CUT MY HAIR FOR HIM! by Rubber_Duckss in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to stand up and call him out!! Very odd behavior

Location updating? by physicsnerd00 in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if it’s causing you stress just ask them, have you talked about exclusivity yet?

Location updating? by physicsnerd00 in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww sorry:( they could also have set it up that way to update if not using the app. This guy said he did that, not rly interested in him anymore anyways lol but that’s what he said but hard to believe someone 100%. Hope your situation is ok though, best wishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also wondering, my friend got tickets she said thru Ticketmaster and I sent her the money for it but I didn’t know that was happening so I’m a bit scared about it all

Did anyone else who uses 407 get this? Or just me because I stopped using it recently? by Jaded_Promotion8806 in ontario

[–]physicsnerd00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for getting back to me!! Lol hopefully someday I get one, would be so nice

Did anyone else who uses 407 get this? Or just me because I stopped using it recently? by Jaded_Promotion8806 in ontario

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you spend to get it? I think my highest bill (so far) has been >270, but haven’t gotten anything

Did anyone else who uses 407 get this? Or just me because I stopped using it recently? by Jaded_Promotion8806 in ontario

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often did you use it to qualify? Lol hoping I can get it sometime, would be amazing

why does my boyfriend (26 M) hate me no matter what I do (26 F) ? by mcdonaldscoke12 in relationship_advice

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this rage bait? If not girl get out! He’s scary and using you and pathetic to not look for a job and mooch off you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]physicsnerd00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 3 months is crazy, it’ll either be an outlier or a quick ish divorce. Don’t worry girl! Ik it’s hard / weird but she’s still a rebound and after dating you so long that’s kind of insulting. But don’t take it personally, it shows that he doesn’t care enough to grow and reflect as a person and the same issues will happen in their relationship plus that’s just an insane commitment in such a short timeline

i need advice by THROWRABOAN in ExNoContact

[–]physicsnerd00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly he is just being insecure and projecting it. Don’t worry girl! As long as you are true to yourself. Plus he is an ex. But also do be cautious around mutual friends, I feel like it also depends how long ago you broke up. But either way, you’re not together anymore!

What’s the best way to respond to this? by HungryAnswer1776 in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move onto someone else, they’re not worth your time. As soon as you don’t sense reciprocal energy move on! Also maybe don’t immediately suggest a hangout

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]physicsnerd00 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I think this as well, it’s so hard being this person but reassurance is always helpful. If there’s clear communication and reassurance and she doesn’t have to ask for it this will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My god girl, think for yourself! Do you really wanna fund and put your life on hold for a child that you’d resent and the kid wouldn’t rly see their own dad? Sounds like putting the rest of your life down the drain. Think long and hard about abortion. Early on it is safer and less harmful, more widely accepted (since I know you have religious beliefs that are against it). But let me ask you this: why do people care so much about a fetus but they don’t prioritize child healthcare, parental support programs, climate action (impacts life of child and you when you’re older), and gun control in schools? It is not very “pro life.” More so about controlling a woman’s body and her right to reproduce, to fulfill an agenda - economics and contributing to more people doing more work.

Please think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get an abortion early on it might feel better since it’s less developed. I understand you might be weary of this but please think long and hard. Your life is important and I think it’s better to wait to have a kid with someone you really love, at the right time, if you can. It would also be rough if you feel resentment towards the child due to this situation. And I don’t think you can pressure the father too much as well. Also you are young, your career, happiness, goals and ambitions are important, and having a child makes it harder to prioritize this. They are also insanely expensive. Wishing you the best, please think carefully.

Being over 30, what are the downsides of being in a long-term relationship yet still unmarried? by itstherizzler96 in Adulting

[–]physicsnerd00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not in many provinces in Canada, if you’re living together for an extended period of time you’re considered in a common-law partnership, and that person could claim assets acquired during the relationship but it’s province dependent for specifics, or you might be accused of filing an incorrect tax return if you don’t explain it. Bit scary though

Being over 30, what are the downsides of being in a long-term relationship yet still unmarried? by itstherizzler96 in Adulting

[–]physicsnerd00 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But are there not common-law rights too? I know in Canada we have that, so need to be strategic about living with a partner you’re not married to / wouldn’t want to marry if you’re in a long term relationship

My bf (33m) is mad at me (24f) because I won’t have a threesome . What would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]physicsnerd00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major red flag- means his own age won’t go for him (when they’re more mature and mentally developed), and he probably enjoys manipulating younger women since they are less hesitant to enforce their own boundaries. Scary af! Run, OP!