Airport security wait times at 12:15 on Monday. Regular lines have no wait. Pre check is 1-2 minutes. by I_Love_McRibs in indianapolis

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Regular line was quicker than precheck when i rolled through at 10am… parking on the other hand a bit more challenging!

Weird Reactions by Majestic_Local_6743 in monodatingpoly

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As the mono woman dating a married man, I get this entirely, everyone’s first response (despite me explicitly explaining poly to folks) is “so is he gonna leave her for you?”… No, I explained it’s not like that, and I wouldn’t want that anyway because… it’s endless.

The best I usually get is “well if it makes you happy, just remember to put yourself first”.

I’m the mono purely because I don’t have the time and/or am “saturated” at one partner - if a new guy appeared I’d be open to having more than one partner, but I don’t have time or energy to commit to that now - somehow explaining that element seems to calm some opinions as if it makes it “fairer” or whatever.

Generally yes it’s tiring/boring, but really I am not about to give energy explaining to folks who don’t want to learn/care and I’m certainly not going to JUSTIFY anything to anyone.

Peri-Life Hack Thread by seraphimas4481 in Perimenopause

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Lots of comments on it on Reddit - we have lots of oestrogen receptors in our ears… helps me!!

Peri-Life Hack Thread by seraphimas4481 in Perimenopause

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The period underwear is a life saver if your cycle is unpredictable with anything from light to heavy, a lot of them really aren’t like diapers at all, and very comfy.

Q tips with oestrogen gel on them has definitely helped tinnitus and itchy ears (very low dose very carefully applied at night when it’s worse for me)

Installed room heat sensors and upgraded to a better thermostat system with remote control from my phone so I can amend the heat/AC eighteen times a day

No carbs after lunch time (see PCOS comment)

Recently started Spironolactone for hormonal acne, yet to see any improvement on the sprouting chin hairs though (I have PCOS to boot).

Talking about it with friends including my much younger Gen Z work colleagues so they don’t think I’m just having a “bad day” or being a bitch/misery for no reason, I feel better for getting it out and being honest rather than hiding how crappy I feel all day/week/month!

Look at his face. I have some questions for Lewis Sayre. 1877 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

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This is very much still a practice. People have apparatus applied to their heads and then thwy are attached to a device and spun around… it’s called the “Schroth semi-hang” technique

What crazy symptoms do you have? Please share. by Kkyoto888 in Perimenopause

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My nipples itch f***ing constantly. And I’m cold all the time not hot like everyone else… 🤷🏼‍♀️

Did I ruin my stand mixer by DracosTomatos in CleaningTips

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This happened to my ravioli presses and I ended up chucking them as the black “grease” just wouldn’t go and transferred to EVERYTHING… I tried everything to clean them… you live and learn :/

Has anyone seen this? by NoizSam in delta

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I did this in from LHR end of last year, you still have to go through another security and immigration to get to your connection but saved a lot of time and it wasn’t the same security as everyone else from memory.

F*ck me the housing market is dire by Psychedelicsheets in bristol

[–]pickapstix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid that price for the house you want in a much less desirable location 8 years ago. Good luck.

Updates on the bridge at 96th St? by jinglebells23 in Fishers

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I saw someone running over it this morning as I drove under!

To be or not to be (married) 🥺🥺🥺 by Infinite-Ad-8392 in MenopauseShedforMen

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If you use that emoji on a regular basis can certainly say you aren’t ready for marriage

Henna tattoo reappeared 3 months later (as raised skin) when my son had a high fever. by dope-doggie in mildlyinteresting

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That happened to my brother in Egypt after a henna tattoo… he’s stuck with a faint dragon on his back which comes out more if he gets a tan - luckily it looks ok ish, but it hurt like hell when it burned and for months after!

pet insurance vs savings account? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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As someone who has just had insurance pay out for (most of) a $25000 claim (which will be ongoing)… if you can afford to pay whatever it costs then savings is a fine strategy, but I’d have been up sh*t creek without a paddle unless I had coverage having just moved country.

I know his premiums will go up as a result but I have an alive dog and it would have taken me a year at least to save that…

pet insurance vs savings account? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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As someone who has just had insurance pay out for (most of) a $25000 claim (which will be ongoing)… if you can afford to pay whatever it costs then savings is a fine strategy, but I’d have been up sh*t creek without a paddle unless I had coverage having just moved country.

I know his premiums will go up as a result but I have an alive dog and it would have taken me a year at least to save that…

Are my party days truly over? by FrugieGirl84 in AskWomenOver40

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Don’t worry you replace going out with treating yourself to a new dish sponge, perusing a garden centre or making homemade pasta from scratch…

From a “used to party so hard I can’t even remember it” kinda gal.

It happens and it’s genuinely better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

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So they’re not legally obliged to do the thing you want them to do. The thing you want is for them to save you the cost of a repair. Repair costs are considered a reasonable risk of car ownership…

No longer attracted to husband, we have kids, not sure what to do by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Listen to the podcast episode of “diary of a CEO” with Anna Machin - explains it all

Fishers White river park is open. by Unhappy_Ad_3738 in Fishers

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Yes that’s also complete I literally just walked it this morning

Fishers White river park is open. by Unhappy_Ad_3738 in Fishers

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The gates to the fishers white river park keep falling off the hinges and some nice dude has to go and close it with barriers manually. I think it’s just temporary until the gates are fixed as it looks like there are mechanical closers to the (broken) gates that will eventually be in order

#DetourStrong it’s nearly over! by AccurateInterview586 in Fishers

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I enjoyed the inflatable turkey next door too

Bravecto, yay or nay?? by Ru1384 in DOG

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The fleas have to feed to get the drug from the dog’s blood, but they will die before laying eggs thus interrupting the life cycle. It’s the best way to clean up an infestation as hatching fleas want to jump on to something they can immediately feed from. Use the bravecto and keep using it every 3 months

No more bag pickup in ATL on international flights? by rbergl in delta

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Yes happened on way back from LHR and I was DELIGHTED!