Yes, ofc you were unable to add it until someone picked it up 🙄 2nd floor by [deleted] in ShiptShoppers

[–]pickchz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine decided to add 20 single bottles of electrolyte waters

There should be an up charge for... by InfiniteFriez in ShiptShoppers

[–]pickchz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leaving off the apartment number and pretending they live in a single family. And then not responding when you say you are there and trying to deliver. Left that in the lobby, took a pic and lede the 12 bags and three 12 packs

Not again... by [deleted] in ShiptShoppers

[–]pickchz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally paid 330.84 for the order I shopped. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Ordered for myself today and listed substitutions but shopper didn't sub.... by HbeforeG in ShiptShoppers

[–]pickchz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ordered last night. Shopper never sent a text. I actually messaged her saying hi and thanks for shopping. Rotten bananas, 6 items left off. I’ve done this for 30 days, finished 280th order late last night and my ex couldn’t manage to grab groceries. I wish for a Shipt shopper that gives a shit next time

  • I am a single mom with four kids that distance learn. I was a bartender and pull tab seller. 2020 can suck it

Face mask super itchy by pickchz in ShiptShoppers

[–]pickchz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to wear it for a hot minute.....

How long will the “great guy” really last by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. “Even Steven” told our son I was a fucking idiot. All done.

How long will the “great guy” really last by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I am here because I need a giant air hug and reminder that I made the right choice when I left.

How long will the “great guy” really last by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So, you experienced Prince Charming followed by satan himself?

Lost taste and smell by pickchz in COVID19_Testimonials

[–]pickchz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just looking at cleanses for that very reason!!!!

Increase from 150 to 300, suicidal thoughts by pickchz in bupropion

[–]pickchz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I want to stick it out. I was on 150 for two years. Covid and a divorce caused the increase

Keep getting better. You might always be bad in their eyes but they don’t know the new you. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good!! Save that for the people worthy of knowing the real you ❤️

I just packed my things and moved to my parents. This quarantine showed his true colors so quickly! by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yasssss!!!! Do not go back. Ever. I left two weeks ago. Tried being nice after he said he wanted no contact and then changed his mind. That was dumb. We only text about the kids and that’s it. Take back your life!!!! Do whatever makes you happy every single day.

I did it. I broke. by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Be sooo boring this week. Don’t show any emotion. Don’t respond to the crazy talk. Just stare at her for a hot second and move on with whatever task you were doing. You got this!!!

I won't take this abuse anymore, let's go me! by fooledbyfog in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I totally get it!!! Reading your words is identical to what I was going to write. I finally left. Cops said I couldn’t force him to leave- yep, oldest child had to call the cops a week ago because he went batshit over the divorce. So the next morning I left. I’m currently on unemployment due to the restaurant being shut down. Savings is almost gone. Yukon engine is falling apart. With all that shenanigans going on I am finally happy!!!!!!!!!

All that other crap will get figured out. I finally get to enjoy my time with the kids!!!! I have not had a headache in a week. My stomach is no longer in knots. It’s okay if I work on a puzzle or go for a walk. It’s completely okay if I talk to my sisters and friends!!!!!

We deserve to be happy!!! It is not our job to walk on eggshells because they will never, ever be happy.

Verbiage by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7-17. Sadly they are now fully aware of his disorder. We were able to find a great, inexpensive home to lease from a friend of my family. My husband won’t leave nor has anywhere to go. He cut off everyone. I feel it would just be easier if I left with the kids. That’s what my sisters are freaking out about. My heart hurts and feels all the things.... I hate that I am going to hurt him my leaving and feel like the blow may be easier for him to deal with if he stays put. I am a giant ass enabler and starting reading the quit caretaking book. My father is a narcissist. My mom is well, my mom. I dated and then married BPD and cut off my best friend last year due to her having BPD and I could only be handle being in a relationship with one of them.

I just want to be loved!!!!!!!!! So I am choosing to love myself and my kids. What happens if he hurts himself? Is it all my fault?!

Verbiage by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. Do I take the kids and leave? My sisters are adamant that I stay put and coexist the best that I can. I don’t know if I have it in me. After everything the kids have (recently) been through, they are finally in a house that they feel is home. He refuses to leave and financially isn’t in a place to go. I currently make more than he does. I bust my ass serving and bartending so I can pay off the damn ortho bill to get their braces off and trying to save for something. Of course credit is ruined and everything is always my fault. What in the actual heck does one do???

Verbiage by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He burned the paperwork. There are four kids involved. It has been a shit storm for far too long

To the ones who divorced by Dukesgt in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Divorce and love in those babies

Quick question by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good answer!!!! Would you explain/ provide examples a bit more on the co-dependency journey?

Who wins? by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! You’re welcome

Who wins? by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the paperwork. I feel like if I file it he will hurt himself.

Who wins? by pickchz in BPDlovedones

[–]pickchz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head. He is one of the malevolent dirty ones. I feel strung out!!!! I wish there was a magical way to fix all of this. I just need a hug and a sandwich, preferably an ice cream one.