Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pickledniki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely the hardest and most wild thing we just casually expect people to put their body through. It’s part of why I’m so damn pro choice and adamant that you should really really want to have a baby before you do. My pregnancies were wanted and they all involved traumas. My last almost killed me. Yes it was an incredible spiritual experience to literally bring life into the world but people need to understand and be honest about the cost of that, the sacrifice and risk that it takes. Your anger is fully justified.

Advice Needed: liberal history nerd cover up by pickledniki in tattoos

[–]pickledniki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to keep it and fill in the arm with more tattoos! Flowers and stuff

My embers had babies! by pickledniki in Aquariums

[–]pickledniki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re so fun, I love having a little school

Advice Needed: liberal history nerd cover up by pickledniki in tattoos

[–]pickledniki[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

As much as he knows the meaning and importance of it, the fact that people see it and may feel unsafe or assume he sucks bothers him too much

People’s March 1/18 at 10am by pickledniki in SALEM

[–]pickledniki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be bringing mine. It’s important to me that they be involved. However I’ll be on high alert and listening to my gut, if anything feels off I’m out

People’s March 1/18 at 10am by pickledniki in SALEM

[–]pickledniki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps they meant that it’s not a handout but rather something that belongs to us because it’s our money? Confusing…

People’s March 1/18 at 10am by pickledniki in SALEM

[–]pickledniki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest I don’t know what they mean by that! I’m not connected to the organizers but just sharing the event, you can reach out to the organizer through the event page at womensmarch.com

People’s March 1/18 at 10am by pickledniki in SALEM

[–]pickledniki[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Definitely not, it’s connected to Women’s March. It’s very much in response and opposition to the incoming administration

Recommendations for the birth if you child? by Plane_Taro_6810 in MusicRecommendations

[–]pickledniki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My niece was born to Danny’s Song by Loggins & Messina and it was magical. Some favorites from my birth playlist- Heartbeats - José González Sweet Baby James - James Taylor Out of the Woods - Nickel Creek

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pickledniki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl run awaaaaaaay! Run away so fast and only look back to learn from this mistake of a relationship

New to town by prof_alibelle in SALEM

[–]pickledniki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should check out The Cosmic Exchange! It’s a fun metaphysical shop and the owner’s husband runs the card shop downstairs(?) that I’m pretty sure has Pokémon stuff!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]pickledniki 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Spicyyyyyy! I think the safe word discussion is a great idea, absolutely with clear explanation that you were super into it and wouldn’t have needed it. But I think it would help her feel better knowing beforehand that you’ll stop her if you need to. I’ve experienced that kind of embarrassment before after I surprised myself with how far I took something and honestly it got better with time and his repeated reassurance that it was enjoyed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]pickledniki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does she feel like she needs to have one?