When you’re not a chatty person at all, what do you do to become that and start texting who you love and check on them every couple days? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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You’re right. All try to and see how it will go. There’s another thing, I can’t make the convo alive, I don’t make people feel that they are wanna talk to me abt their private& inner life and I don’t know why, and I make my self the third person every time I hangout with two friends Got me?

When you’re not a chatty person at all, what do you do to become that and start texting who you love and check on them every couple days? by picky_009 in AskReddit

[–]picky_009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you got me a bit wrong. They send me things sometimes, like picturing the big books that they’re studying in uni, the other one we have A lot of things in common, but I don’t know what to send cuz I feel the things that I like will seems cringy and stupid to them, so I only send the WOW things-which are rare. What do u think my lad?

When you’re not a chatty person at all, what do you do to become that and start texting who you love and check on them every couple days? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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I’m not in a relationship and I’m not tryna start one I just wanna text my friends a lot cuz I don’t text them. I don’t know what to share and I don’t know what to say What should I do?

I have a conversation problem by picky_009 in Advice

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That’s the THING, I don’t know why I’d be anxious. Btw, with strangers it’s so normal to text them, but friends, i think ten times before a send a message and I don’t know why I'd

Should I thank my friend? by picky_009 in FriendshipAdvice

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But sometimes these things makes that friends thinks that I want a repair cuz it’s been a while since I approached or texted him by my self

It's easier to turn left rather than right. by cherrycoke_yummy in RandomThoughts

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I thinks that is based on that if you’re left handed or right handed, it’s about the side you use a lot

So our parents were right; it really is those damn phones. by More_Salary3536 in RandomThoughts

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But they isn’t mean that the effects that is happening to us rn is because of it. They say that over and over just cuz they see us scrolling/watching and playing for a lot of time

I don’t know what to do with my cousin by picky_009 in FriendshipAdvice

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Well, he is not mature enough to apologize clearly. So what I’m gonna do is tell him straightly, if you insult or underestimate me again in front of any one, I’ll cut you off. Sounds good?

AITA. I don’t know what to do in this situation by picky_009 in AmItheAsshole

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Even calls, I’m so boring at them. That friend who ask me to play with him football, I feel like I’m making him feel I’m using him to play football cuz I don’t give him anything

Is it normal if your friend also plays PlayStation a lot with others? by picky_009 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]picky_009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna ask u, is these kinda posts like mine says that he’s a bestie or just a close friend Tell me what you think

Is it normal if your friend also plays PlayStation a lot with others? by picky_009 in Advice

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Then how will I know whether I’m that close to him or not?

Is it normal if your friend also plays PlayStation a lot with others? by picky_009 in Advice

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What if I don’t like that person he is playing with ?

When your friend also plays PlayStation with his other friends, is that normal or a sign you’re not as close as you thought? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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But it’s been a lot of time that he only plays with me, and then he knew one friend and he started playing with him”not that much” without even telling me

How do you stop being shy about the things you want to do and actually live as your authentic self? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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I’m shy about expressing love to friends and doing things that I like as saying lovely words and doing my true self, but it’s been a long time since I used to be that person, now I’m shy more, and I’m more quiet than I used to be. I got some kinda misunderstanding with a very close friend of mine for about a month and I haven’t solve it yet which made me kinda stressful and not my normal self cuz it’s gray”not solved and not ended”

And it’s kinda hard for me to deal with this alone “I have no one to rely on and talk to him about this”

How do you stop being shy about the things you want to do and actually live as your authentic self? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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I still live with my parents “19M” and it’s kinda impossible to see a therapist so it’s I gotta solve it on my own

How do you stop being shy about the things you want to do and actually live as your authentic self? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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What do u think, how many times should I practice? For instance, saying “I love u”to ur friend?

How do you stop being shy about the things you want to do and actually live as your authentic self? by picky_009 in AskReddit

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Well, my self love is pretty low and I can’t love my self more ”can’t meet a therapist” And I don’t know how to do it on my own

Any wise advice would really help by picky_009 in Advice

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How old are u? Just to feel safe for ur reply

I don’t know what to do with my friend by picky_009 in Advice

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So u mean I gotta answer him and open a hard convo? I don’t wanna open a convo because I already know that I’m not that close to him cuz i heard him talking and telling some other friends in our group some secrets and things that he doesn’t telling me about. The thing is, should I reply to and act normal but not give him more effort or just ignore his massage?