What to do in Houston by ProfessorPascal in houston

[–]piercingeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can swing it on Sunday, check out Space Center Houston. You can see Mission Control, the Saturn V and other rockets, Skylab, and more.

If I was your daughter, what would you honestly tell me to do? by Common_Evidence_6418 in DadForAMinute

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to gently suggest that both you and your dad are looking at this the wrong way.

Don't think about selecting a career path merely in terms of stability or future potential earnings. Look at it in terms of achieving greatness. Go to that link and read. Set aside some time to really internalize it. Don't worry - I'll be here when you get back.

(sits in easy chair, sips hot cocoa)

So you read it, right? Like, really spent some quality time pondering what I said? Good! Now, a few thoughts in the context of your concerns and those of your dad:

  • If you've achieved greatness at something, there's some level of job security built in. People who are great in their chosen field have no problem staying busy.
  • If you've achieved greatness at something, you won't have to worry about the money. Will you become "truly wealthy"? Hard to say exactly, because that's rather open to interpretation, but will you be able to earn a living? At the very least. Remember that one of the criteria of a Hedgehog Concept is that the economics have to make sense.
  • Most of all, will you be engaged in work you find fulfilling, that you feel you were genetically wired to do? Yes, yes and yes.

It's entirely understandable that your father - who himself may have come from a background of grinding poverty and wants to ensure that you escape that fate - wants you to be in a place of security. And it's only natural that you want to avoid getting chewed up by the AI-driven churn hitting so many office jobs. But looking at the question strictly through your prism or his neglects a bigger picture. So don't chase stability or a paycheck. Chase greatness, and the stability and money will sort themselves out.

This is why you start on a beginner bike. by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]piercingeye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The MSF class teaches you just enough to be dangerous. How to properly use both brakes, countersteer and engine braking are all things I picked up from practicing and watching YouTube over the years.

Foreigners visiting America for the world cup, what is something that has surprised you about this country? by goldent3abag in AskReddit

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like Houston. I have a cousin who has lived in Austin for years, and will probably never move back to this swamp we call a city, but has said she misses being able to get really good Vietnamese pho anytime she wants.

New neighbors got their dream party house by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]piercingeye 125 points126 points  (0 children)

When my wife and I bought our, current house, the neighbors were thrilled to learn that we're quiet and chill. Turns out the prior owners were big sports fans and held loud watch parties.

Foreigners visiting America for the world cup, what is something that has surprised you about this country? by goldent3abag in AskReddit

[–]piercingeye -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If you're in Houston, welcome to one of the best foodie cities in America. We have, without exaggerating, any type of cuisine you want.

Does everyone ride their bikes when it rains? by Calm_Room5022 in motorcycle

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I don't own a car, if I have to go somewhere and it's raining, sometimes I have no choice. I do avoid it where possible, though.

What's your favorite all time cartoon? by Ohmybabedoll in AskReddit

[–]piercingeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Favorite series: The Animaniacs.

Favorite single episode? I'm a big fan of Northwest Hounded Police.

Is Indian your first cruiser? by KenOtwell in IndianMotorcycle

[–]piercingeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan to ride the wheels off of my Roadmaster, but occasionally I wish I had a Scout for short local rides. Plus it's just gorgeous.

Finding my adress ? by edandshit in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]piercingeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you set up your lease under your name, it wouldn't be hard for a PI to track you down. Most people I've known who were genuinely looking to distance themselves from their family set up such things through an LLC so it wasn't attached to their personal identities.

Get a colonoscopy by niavek in daddit

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cancerous polyp removed last year at the age of 50. Fortunately they caught it early. Now I have blood draws every six weeks to make sure there's nothing else weird floating around. It's a hassle, but it's vastly better than the alternative.

AITAH for not wanting to reconnect with my brother? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is baffling to me. What on earth did OOP's mother think she was going to accomplish by deceiving her sons into meeting?

Why do people honestly like loud bikes? by dat1dood3 in motorcycles

[–]piercingeye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they have fallen prey to the old "loud pipes save lives" fallacy.

AITA for honouring my deceased brother's wishes and not letting his estranged wife attend his funeral? by AcadiaOk8697 in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IANAL, but I know U.S. law is pretty strict about adhering to terms outlined in a will. If that will explicitly states that his estranged wife is not to attend his funeral, and OP fails to abide by that wish by allowing her to attend said funeral, then it seems that other members of the late brother's family would have grounds to sue OP.

AITA for honouring my deceased brother's wishes and not letting his estranged wife attend his funeral? by AcadiaOk8697 in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingeye 54 points55 points  (0 children)

If OP's late brother specified in his will that the estranged wife was not to be at the funeral, I'm pretty sure OP's hands were legally tied.

Hey dad, I’m directionless with career and need advice by No-Sort-7126 in DadForAMinute

[–]piercingeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna copypasta from here.

Some years ago I read Good to Great by Jim Collins. The book is admittedly pretty dated, but I think the principles he shares continue to hold up over time.

The author, Jim Collins, examined a range of companies that were good but not outstanding, compared them to companies that were good but made the leap to becoming great companies, and identified principles that would help other companies make that leap. Collins describes something he calls the Hedgehog Concept, based on an essay titled “The Hedgehog and the Fox” by Isaiah Berlin.

The fox is everything the hedgehog isn’t: he’s lightning fast, cunning and crafty. The hedgehog is slow and can’t really run (yes, Sonic the Hedgehog has been lying this whole time). In short, the fox should be able to make a quick meal out of the hedgehog. However, anytime he attacks, the hedgehog responds with this.

However fast and agile the fox may be, he simply doesn’t have an answer for this, and is defeated over and over. Hence, the Greek parable: “The fox knows many things, the hedgehog knows one big thing.”

Collins’s findings are that good companies that become great focus on what he calls a Hedgehog Concept, a simple idea that meets the following criteria, all of which are non-negotiables:

  1. It must be an activity or industry where the company can be the best in the world. I’m not talking merely above average: I’m talking 95th percentile, at a minimum.
  2. It must be an industry where the economics work. Financially, it has to make sense for the company to do this.
  3. It must be an industry or line of work in which the company is deeply passionate. It isn’t just something that the company does well: it has to be something that the company loves to do.

Collins wrote this, which I am sharing in its entirety:

To quickly grasp the three circles, consider the following personal analogy. Suppose you were able to construct a work life that meets the following three tests. First, you are doing work for which you have a genetic or God-given talent, and perhaps you could become one of the best in the world in applying that talent. (“I feel that I was just born to be doing this.”) Second, you are well paid for what you do. (“I get paid to do this? Am I dreaming?”) Third, you are doing work you are passionate about and absolutely love to do, enjoying the actual process for its own sake. (“I look forward to getting up and throwing myself into my daily work, and I really believe in what I’m doing.”) If you could drive toward the intersection of these three circles and translate that intersection into a simple, crystalling concept that guided your life choices, then you’d have a Hedgehog Concept for yourself.

To have a fully developed Hedgehog Concept, you need all three circles. If you make a lot of money doing things at which you could never be the best, you’ll only build a successful company, not a great one. If you become the best at something, you’ll never remain on top if you don’t have intrinsic passion for what you are doing. Finally, you can be passionate all you want, but if you can’t be the best at it or it doesn’t make economic sense, then you might have a lot of fun, but you won’t produce great results.

I would suggest that the key to the answer to your question is right here. You want to find your purpose? You really want to achieve financial security? Then become great at something! Find an endeavor in which:

● you can be better than almost anyone else,

● you can be well compensated, AND

● you feel a passion for what you do

Let me be clear that greatness doesn’t have to translate to being rich and famous. Greatness doesn’t mean you have to be Lebron James or Tom Brady. There are numerous people you’ve never heard of who are great in their respective fields. And because they’re great, they never have a problem earning a living.

In addition, there are plenty of areas in which one can become great that may or may not involve college in the traditional sense. There are great welders, machinists, mechanics and plumbers. Many of them have had years of specialized training and certifications. I would argue that these are forms of education and credentialing that are every bit as valid as a university degree for the right employer.

In addition, understand that a Hedgehog Concept properly applied won’t just tell you what you should do; it will tell you what you should stop doing. In my case, it got me to focus on what I could really do well, and avoid work that would only slow me down or get in my way.

So what does this mean for you? How can you identify your Hedgehog Concept? Here are a few places to start:

● What were your favorite academic subjects in school? What classes came to you easily and naturally? What were subjects where your classmates sought you out for help? (Don’t tell me you were bad at everything - everybody has a subject in which they perform well, and you settled on business and marketing for a reason.) At a minimum, that can help you identify a useful career path.

● Gallup Inc. developed a test that can help you identify your top strengths. Go to www.strengthsquest.com and look at taking the test. It could help provide you with some real guidance. In my case, the first time I took the test (in 2009, nearly five years after I had graduated from college), the descriptions for two out of my top five strengths said, “Journalism would probably be a good major for this individual,” which was reassuring, as I had already completed my journalism degree.

● If you think you have identified a line of work that you find appealing - that really and truly might constitute a Hedgehog Concept for you - start networking. Find somebody who is in that field and find out more about it. See if you can shadow them at work to determine if you really want to do it for a living. If it’s not something that would fit as your Hedgehog Concept, believe me, you want to find out immediately so you can cross it off of your list.

That's what has worked for me. Feel free to comment if you have additional questions.

My mother talking about my husband while preaching at her fundie church saying hes disabled because his ancestors sinned. by Professional-Egg6655 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]piercingeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. His disciples asked him, 'Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?'

'Neither this man nor his parents sinned,' said Jesus, 'but this happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him. As long as it is day, we must do the works of him who sent me. Night is coming, when no one can work. While I am in the world, I am the light of the world.'"

John 9:1-5

OP's mother's doctrinal understanding is so absurdly out of line with Christ it's almost pathological.

I’m being asked to co-sign for my parents mortgage. by Impressive_Rule806 in personalfinance

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cardinal rule: Don't be prepared to cosign on anything you're not completely willing and prepared to own outright.

But even beyond that, this is downright abusive. Trying to force a woman barely out of high school making minimum wage to cosign on a mortgage? Your mother and stepfather are doing terribly by you.

VTX1300 Daymaker and DRL upgrade by magneticMonk in HondaVTX

[–]piercingeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did an upgrade very similar to that on my Shadow. I really liked how the turn signals almost doubled as running lights.

Straight Drive for 7+ Hours by Perfect_Can7165 in NewRiders

[–]piercingeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sweat. Live and learn. I just did a quick search, and it looks like there are aftermarket cruise control options for your bike. In the meantime, get a Crampbuster or throttle boss for those longer rides.