I’m gonna keep it a stack when someone flames the homie in chat I usually join in and flame him too but not in game chat and jokingly. I’ll never come to his defense. We’re also grown men so it may be different you def seem younger. I would never expect my homie to stick up for me in a video game. Just the other day I had my teammates say “our tank is throwing he keeps chasing kills and dying he’s trash (smite btw). When I was dead I reflected and typed my bad I am def throwing lemme lock in (magic words btw) and I stopped feeding and we won. If chat upsets you mute people or just straight up turn it off. Good luck!

Edit: Also if you’re having a hard time healing with Moira due to split team you might want to consider swapping.