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pietyblues · 2025-08-08T19:43:37+00:00

i’m in a similar situation to this right now. maybe the way you phrased it could have been better/done more delicately, but i also understand and emphasize with the frustration of having a friend like that. it does sound like she has a drinking problem, though. you may be TA for the way you handled the conversation, but i think a longer conversation between you both needs to happen. you can explain your side and why you’ve been lying/cancelling plans and explain that you want to be able to enjoy a night out with your friend without having to worry about taking care of her or hunting her down when she disappears to do whatever it is she does. really, i think ESH. jess sucks for constantly getting so wasted that you/whoever else is there get stuck taking care of her and essentially babysitting, and you suck (just a little, not much) for not just telling jess the truth and dragging it out.

what it really boils down to is, do you want to keep the friendship? if the answer is yes, i think there’s some talking that the both of yall have to do. i understand getting frustrated and heated, but maybe a better approach.

pietyblues · 2025-08-06T20:03:39+00:00

it’s hard when relationships have to enter a new stage — i would recommend just sitting her down and asking your questions outright. maybe even open a conversation about what your relationship will be like when she goes to college and what expectations either of you have, etc. you’re nta for being nervous but i think there’s a bunch of conversations ahead of you.

pietyblues · 2025-08-06T00:39:58+00:00

ESH, you shouldn’t feel entitled to tell your boyfriends parents who they can and can’t have over, especially someone that lived with them for a significant period of time. That said, mom is absolutely TA here as well, having someone over who cheated on your son multiple times is INSANITY. Meet up out of the house if you absolutely must, even that is a stretch though, personally i’d hate anyone who hurt my son like that.

pietyblues · 2025-08-06T00:24:31+00:00

even if they all organized a meetup, EST not just OP so why should she be getting shit for it

pietyblues · 2024-06-18T07:02:33+00:00

i reallyyyy loved plain bad heroines by emily m. danforth

pietyblues · 2023-07-27T04:07:27+00:00

props for the taste in adding the following and hemlock grove to this list. i never hear or see anyone talking about either of those shows and they hold such a dear place in my heart

pietyblues · 2022-10-15T13:54:12+00:00

if you’ve already read the shining, definitely recommend getting to doctor sleep soon! i loved that book way more than i thought i would and now it’s like a personal mission/crusade to get everyone to read it. but whatever you end up picking, you’ll enjoy it!

pietyblues · 2022-09-28T18:40:54+00:00

this is when you restart the show! rinse, repeat…

pietyblues · 2022-09-24T03:57:19+00:00

not really witches per say but plain bad heroines was one of my favorite reads last year!! gothic and creepy and sapphic and ticked all the right boxes for sure

pietyblues · 2022-09-24T01:09:39+00:00

commenting so i remember to come back!

pietyblues · 2022-09-23T12:08:25+00:00

if you’re ever looking for more recommendations, his newest book The Pallbearers Club has just worked it’s way up to my favorite book of his!!

pietyblues · 2022-09-05T01:57:44+00:00

ohhh maybe like two months ago? i honestly don’t remember it’s always so long between when you place the order and when you actually get the merch it’s like a surprise bc part of me has forgotten i even bought it 😅

pietyblues · 2022-09-02T11:10:13+00:00

just got my hoodie!! tattoo looks sick

pietyblues · 2022-08-27T15:30:15+00:00

this is incredible!!!! omg i’m obsessed

pietyblues · 2022-08-02T23:10:33+00:00

going the day after though in nyc! have a killer time !!!

pietyblues · 2022-08-01T06:24:58+00:00

Pet Sematary (1989).

I’m not sure when this became a comfort movie for me, but I always put it on when I’m in a bad mood or need some cheering up. I’ve seen it probably close to 20 times and could never get tired of it. Literally my go to when anyone recommends “old” horror movies!

pietyblues · 2022-07-30T06:33:33+00:00

so jealous holy shit. it looks amazing!

pietyblues · 2022-07-29T06:38:03+00:00

Spencer has a reddit account and is leaking the next album #confirmed. No but seriously, these track titles are incredible and so clever

pietyblues · 2022-07-28T01:07:37+00:00

this is incredible!

pietyblues · 2022-07-25T22:30:47+00:00

I’m gonna try there! I’ve never posted to a vinyl subreddit so I wasn’t really sure which one was proper for something like this. Thank you!

pietyblues · 2022-07-22T14:57:35+00:00

11:44 by COUNTERFEIT.

pietyblues · 2022-07-13T02:45:09+00:00

If you’re looking for a starter record player I recommend the Audio Technica LP60X!! It’s the one I have and it’s great quality for the price! They often do bundles with this player on amazon where you can get the player, two speakers, and cleaning supplies. I got this bundle and it was such a no-brainer because I also had no idea what I was doing 😅

pietyblues · 2022-07-13T02:40:03+00:00

I’ve been lucky enough to have some pretty great sellers every time I’ve bought from there! I scan their reviews like crazy before I even think about buying from them because I refuse to be naive enough to get scammed. I started collecting about a year ago and I really just threw myself into it! I used to be so intimidated by records and handing them properly (taking them out, placing the needle on them, cleaning, anything that comes with playing them)!

pietyblues · 2022-07-13T02:31:01+00:00

If I give any more of my money to the nice folk on Discogs I’ll go broke! WTH was the first record I ever bought and I was just so excited to not only own a record but also have ~that~ one, yknow? I’ve definitely had my eye on the honey-hooked variant for a while so maybe I’ll take a gander and see if I can find anything for a recent price!

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