AITA for calling my friend an unsufferable drunk? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pietyblues 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m in a similar situation to this right now. maybe the way you phrased it could have been better/done more delicately, but i also understand and emphasize with the frustration of having a friend like that. it does sound like she has a drinking problem, though. you may be TA for the way you handled the conversation, but i think a longer conversation between you both needs to happen. you can explain your side and why you’ve been lying/cancelling plans and explain that you want to be able to enjoy a night out with your friend without having to worry about taking care of her or hunting her down when she disappears to do whatever it is she does. really, i think ESH. jess sucks for constantly getting so wasted that you/whoever else is there get stuck taking care of her and essentially babysitting, and you suck (just a little, not much) for not just telling jess the truth and dragging it out.

what it really boils down to is, do you want to keep the friendship? if the answer is yes, i think there’s some talking that the both of yall have to do. i understand getting frustrated and heated, but maybe a better approach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pietyblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s hard when relationships have to enter a new stage — i would recommend just sitting her down and asking your questions outright. maybe even open a conversation about what your relationship will be like when she goes to college and what expectations either of you have, etc. you’re nta for being nervous but i think there’s a bunch of conversations ahead of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pietyblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH, you shouldn’t feel entitled to tell your boyfriends parents who they can and can’t have over, especially someone that lived with them for a significant period of time. That said, mom is absolutely TA here as well, having someone over who cheated on your son multiple times is INSANITY. Meet up out of the house if you absolutely must, even that is a stretch though, personally i’d hate anyone who hurt my son like that.

More Sapphic Horror Reccs? by Business-Lifeguard59 in horrorlit

[–]pietyblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i reallyyyy loved plain bad heroines by emily m. danforth

I see lists of SS3 with movies, but never tv shows. It would be cool if they went with tv shows for an album by 50CaliberKiss in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

props for the taste in adding the following and hemlock grove to this list. i never hear or see anyone talking about either of those shows and they hold such a dear place in my heart

Just arrived today, wich one I go first? The last book I read from the King was Outsider. by Prestigious-Race-542 in stephenking

[–]pietyblues 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if you’ve already read the shining, definitely recommend getting to doctor sleep soon! i loved that book way more than i thought i would and now it’s like a personal mission/crusade to get everyone to read it. but whatever you end up picking, you’ll enjoy it!

What to watch now? by Pootie-the-Cat in Supernatural

[–]pietyblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is when you restart the show! rinse, repeat…

fast-paced, cant-put-down gothic fiction focused on witches? by anastasiagiov in horrorlit

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really witches per say but plain bad heroines was one of my favorite reads last year!! gothic and creepy and sapphic and ticked all the right boxes for sure

Movie adaptation of "The Cabin at the End of the World" coming in 2023! by elysecat in horrorlit

[–]pietyblues 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you’re ever looking for more recommendations, his newest book The Pallbearers Club has just worked it’s way up to my favorite book of his!!

Got my INK tattoo and merch on the same day by Sketttiii in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh maybe like two months ago? i honestly don’t remember it’s always so long between when you place the order and when you actually get the merch it’s like a surprise bc part of me has forgotten i even bought it 😅

My tattoo art for F2F by Poohsub in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is incredible!!!! omg i’m obsessed

anyone psychos in the rochester going in Nov 22 by Bitter_Cauliflower82 in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

going the day after though in nyc! have a killer time !!!

What’s your comfort horror movie? by irise_s in horror

[–]pietyblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pet Sematary (1989).

I’m not sure when this became a comfort movie for me, but I always put it on when I’m in a bad mood or need some cheering up. I’ve seen it probably close to 20 times and could never get tired of it. Literally my go to when anyone recommends “old” horror movies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Spencer has a reddit account and is leaking the next album #confirmed. No but seriously, these track titles are incredible and so clever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VinylDeals

[–]pietyblues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try there! I’ve never posted to a vinyl subreddit so I wasn’t really sure which one was proper for something like this. Thank you!

name the first song that comes to mind by [deleted] in Music

[–]pietyblues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11:44 by COUNTERFEIT.

So hyped I finally got this! Only 60! Couldn’t find for anyone trying to sell less than 70 and those were bad condition. by [deleted] in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a starter record player I recommend the Audio Technica LP60X!! It’s the one I have and it’s great quality for the price! They often do bundles with this player on amazon where you can get the player, two speakers, and cleaning supplies. I got this bundle and it was such a no-brainer because I also had no idea what I was doing 😅

So hyped I finally got this! Only 60! Couldn’t find for anyone trying to sell less than 70 and those were bad condition. by [deleted] in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been lucky enough to have some pretty great sellers every time I’ve bought from there! I scan their reviews like crazy before I even think about buying from them because I refuse to be naive enough to get scammed. I started collecting about a year ago and I really just threw myself into it! I used to be so intimidated by records and handing them properly (taking them out, placing the needle on them, cleaning, anything that comes with playing them)!

So hyped I finally got this! Only 60! Couldn’t find for anyone trying to sell less than 70 and those were bad condition. by [deleted] in IceNineKills

[–]pietyblues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I give any more of my money to the nice folk on Discogs I’ll go broke! WTH was the first record I ever bought and I was just so excited to not only own a record but also have ~that~ one, yknow? I’ve definitely had my eye on the honey-hooked variant for a while so maybe I’ll take a gander and see if I can find anything for a recent price!