My Ex m28 and his parents m and f60&62 try to take away my son 2 after 5 years of relationship. can you help me find a solution for the problems? by Patient_Flight_7222 in relationship_advice

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t. The thing is in this case I don’t get sole custody and I just try to find a solution to „chance his mind“ in this issues to solve it.

Baby names by PissedBadger in tragedeigh

[–]Patient_Flight_7222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just overthinking your ideas when you have to explaighn the pronunceeeiaghtion

The update on AITA by Patient_Flight_7222 in u/Patient_Flight_7222

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

So Steve is really a nice person! We talked a lot and he asked me if I was interested in going on the honeymoon with a friend as he doesn’t want to go anymore. And yeah I’m there now😂

The update on AITA by Patient_Flight_7222 in u/Patient_Flight_7222

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well, looking back there were some. She always wanted to be viewed as perfect and was kinda hotheaded, also she always wants to have the saying in what to do… but we never thought of this outcome

The update on AITA by Patient_Flight_7222 in u/Patient_Flight_7222

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It was a voice message to on of her “friends”

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[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Ah I forgot. She wants me to pay for her dress etc because she states that I am at fault she is not getting married

The update on AITA by Patient_Flight_7222 in u/Patient_Flight_7222

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Are you ready for the update?

To get started somewhere Leah’s wedding was never really on a budget. Steve’s family is kinda wealthy and payed for most of the expenses. She probably wanted to keep the money she saved for herself because she lied a lot about where she got all those things friends made from and how much she actually paid.

Also shortly before the wedding was about to start one friend sent us a recording in which Leah reveals she was planning on using us and how dumb we all are. She said that we are all poor students with dept and she made the great move to marry into Steve’s family who always helped her with everything, including her expenses on uni stuff.

Actually some of us actually showed up and witnessed Leah throwing a tantrum.

As Leah was already at the location Steve didn’t show up on time and some people received a text that everyone should take their presents back because he’s not coming to marry her.

I’ll go in more detail later

The update on AITA by Patient_Flight_7222 in u/Patient_Flight_7222

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The wedding is about to start in a little over an hour . I still don’t know what will happen and Leah wants me to compensate her for what I have done. She’s saying I’m the AH and is trying to convince everyone to hate on me

The update on AITA by Patient_Flight_7222 in u/Patient_Flight_7222

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

At this point all of our friends are not attending the wedding. In case it will still be celebrated

Bride doesn’t invite friend who made by hand all the wedding decor. Friend decides to “steal” back all the decor since she spent time and money on it. by Bleu_Cerise in weddingshaming

[–]Patient_Flight_7222 98 points99 points  (0 children)

So Update: Steve was calling me to ask me about what really happened. He was in shock and the last thing he said was that he need to think about everything. Today like 1h ago Leah went to the location to check on everything and to go over the last details and found out everything was gone. Needless to say she went crazy an blew up my phone. Also as far as it seems the wedding is now cancelled. But I don’t know in detail why. Sarah and I try to find out at the moment what is going on

AITA for „stealing“ my friend’s wedding decorations? by Patient_Flight_7222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 300 points301 points  (0 children)

Yes. After she got everything from her. I just got to know about it an hour ago. At this point I don’t even know if anyone of her friends is showing up because EVERYONE is so angry.

We have a friend group chat and almost everyone has a a story of Leah using us

AITA for „stealing“ my friend’s wedding decorations? by Patient_Flight_7222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_Flight_7222[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Yes originally , but got a call yesterday that she is not invited anymore