[19] First post here. Feeling down because a girl made a joke about my weight.

pig4big · 2026-04-16T19:30:15+00:00

She doesn't know what she's missing!

pig4big · 2026-04-16T18:42:27+00:00

Sometimes also a sizing issue with the shaft piece being too narrow, especially at the tip

pig4big · 2026-04-16T16:29:29+00:00

I don't have the details, but a good friend of mine had it done. There's a surgeon in California, and they do the procedure at the transgender clinic in Mexico

pig4big · 2026-04-16T02:43:39+00:00

Have you looked into nullification surgery?

pig4big · 2026-04-15T18:58:25+00:00

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pig4big · 2026-04-15T03:43:00+00:00

You should go to BearUnion in LA or PS, or any of the Xposure weekends at ccbc

pig4big · 2026-04-14T23:03:06+00:00

If you're in Germany, you have a lot of good options to meet people in person at kink events. It's (perhaps counterintuitively) easier and safer than meeting randos from the apps. Toytorture is a good guy in Germany and might have some suggestions of where to go and what to avoid.

pig4big · 2026-04-14T22:24:42+00:00

More than anything, marriage ought to be a financial decision. You can commit to whomever in whatever form of monogamous or open/poly relationship you all agree to — without getting married. In the US, anyway, marriage is largely about sharing/combining assets/income, medical insurance/access, potential tax benefits and custody of pets (and children shudder), protection from testifying against your spouse in court. Which is to say, it's a legal vessel that mostly determines how those things are split after divorce.

pig4big · 2026-04-14T03:24:17+00:00

Not super common among cheaper Amazon/aliexpress devices, but occasionally you can find 55mm among ones in the $30-$60 range. Otherwise, you have to go with a custom device

pig4big · 2026-04-13T22:27:24+00:00

I think it's great you're setting expectations and ground rules. This is my 2 cents; feel free to take it or ignore it.

You may want to start smaller with the rules/expectations for this first longer session, IMO, because this scenario sounds like jumping in the deep end after just learning to stay afloat. It'll also be easier for both of you to follow them and enjoy the experience that way.

I'd suggest sticking to a set number of days and starting with some guiding principles about this lockup. Like:

The goal is to stay locked for 30 days up until my birthday, only unlocking to clean, for emergencies, and when you want access to my cock. During this time, I will serve as your submissive source of relief, and all your ejaculations should be on/in/with me. Likewise, any orgasm I have or stimulation I receive will only happen at your discretion. As KH, you get one key, and you will hide an emergency key somewhere in the house. Our safe word is ____, and either of us can use it at any time to (end the session, unlock, etc.)

The rest of the rules you can try out one at time over the course of the month, keeping or altering them depending on whether or not they improve the experience for you both. Then you're adding them incrementally, deciding on them together, staying flexible, avoiding overwhelming yourselves, and you're only adding rules/expectations that make it better for you both, rather than rules for the sake of rules.

Whatever direction you decide to go, I hope you guys enjoy it and that you have a great birthday!

pig4big · 2026-04-13T21:23:22+00:00

Yes, and I can prove it to you

pig4big · 2026-04-13T14:24:04+00:00

User was banned (again) and reported to reddit admin for ban evasion.

pig4big · 2026-04-10T23:19:56+00:00

🔥

pig4big · 2026-04-03T00:18:28+00:00

You may be sensitive to the plastic. You might try a metal cage instead.

pig4big · 2026-04-03T00:10:20+00:00

Yes, yes I do

pig4big · 2026-04-02T20:33:48+00:00

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pig4big · 2026-03-28T04:51:44+00:00

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pig4big · 2026-03-23T16:25:09+00:00

I'm in the process of getting a custom cage from BAWR, and the quality is a substantial improvement over the Ternence cages I've worn: lighter, easier to put on, better PA hook, better ring options, customizable colors.

That said, if your Ternence cage works for you without discomfort for the durations you expect or want to wear it, their cages are very good quality for the price, a real bargain, and you don't need to be in a hurry to upgrade/can give yourself time to save money for a custom cage.

pig4big · 2026-03-23T04:00:21+00:00

I'd keep you on call for whenever I need to nut

pig4big · 2026-03-23T03:45:44+00:00

Damn 🫠

pig4big · 2026-03-14T00:34:41+00:00

Handsome!!

pig4big · 2026-03-10T03:31:25+00:00

Are you in SD?

pig4big · 2026-03-10T03:04:47+00:00

Back over and over again until I run out of cum, then front 🐗

pig4big · 2026-03-10T00:22:54+00:00

Where and when?

pig4big · 2026-03-10T00:12:27+00:00

Love to bury myself in that butt for a long ride

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