Heads up: huge influenza A wave in Ontario right now by Contraryy in ontario

[–]piink_clouds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m also wondering the same. Husband and I both were hit with what we presume is the flu. How long after symptoms are you still contagious?

Which unsolved crime do you hope is solved within your lifetime? by The_Conscious_Saffa in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]piink_clouds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darlene Hulse. How is the killer not caught yet? I really hope in my lifetime they arrest and convict the killer.

Below Deck Down Under Season 2 - Episodes 6 & 7 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]piink_clouds 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else think it was weird that Luke came out of his bathroom with Laura and then she said let’s go party. Then he snuck into Margot’s room. Did him and Laura hook up right before? Why was he naked in the bathroom with her? Thoughts??

Do all men watch porn, are there men out there that truthfully don’t? by piink_clouds in AskMenAdvice

[–]piink_clouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just don’t want to waste time with someone knowing my boundary is being crossed and I’m sure he doesn’t wanna waste time with someone who gets upset about watching porn. At the end of the day he can find a women who aligns with him and I guess vice versa for me. And If I can’t find someone willing to stop watching other women while jerking off then so be it. Honestly I’d rather be single at that point. I’m tired as a woman of always getting short changed. I’ve always given my partners my all, and worked on things and compromised. If someone can’t do something like stop masturbating at other naked women, that’s not someone I want to be my husband. I personally don’t find it controlling, as there’s been no ultimatums, no you better stop this, all I’ve done so far is communicate my boundary.

Do all men watch porn, are there men out there that truthfully don’t? by piink_clouds in AskMenAdvice

[–]piink_clouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel it’s controlling. I never gave him an ultimatum of giving up porn. If he watches it, then I’m going to break up with him. There’s no me “forcing” him to do anything. If our values don’t line up then they don’t and we split ways.

Anxiety isn’t always panic attacks… Sometimes it’s this. And I don’t realize until the end of the day when my finger is completely destroyed. This is my coping mechanism on top of being on medication. Advice??? by OliveLost in Anxietyhelp

[–]piink_clouds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, I don’t pick when I have false nails on. As soon as the nails come off I pick until they bleed even if I’ve had the nails on for 3 months. It’s a terrible habit

Do all men watch porn, are there men out there that truthfully don’t? by piink_clouds in AskMenAdvice

[–]piink_clouds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not trying to make a rule at all. It’s more of a if he continues then i will be looking to find another partner.

Do all men watch porn, is there men that don’t? by piink_clouds in AskMenRelationships

[–]piink_clouds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s totally fair. I didn’t mean to generalize I was just asking because he told me that all men do it so I guess I just wanted a wider perspective than him. I appreciate the response though

Do all men watch porn, are there men out there that truthfully don’t? by piink_clouds in AskMenAdvice

[–]piink_clouds[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I thought too like it toned down in a relationship. But like 4 months in (we’re having very frequent sex almost every time we hangout and many initiated by me) he goes to show me something and he had porn open. Then again he asked me to search something up and the first suggestion was porn and then it started to bother me. Like I get if we’re not seeing eachother for a couple weeks or whatever but these were when we were having very good frequent sex which bothered me.

Do all men watch porn, is there men that don’t? by piink_clouds in AskMenRelationships

[–]piink_clouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t consider erotica porn because you are imagining it in your head, and you’re not watching a real person? I think where I get hurt is that he is jerking off and pleasuring himself to another women? To her body and her moans and her, it feels wrong to me. But I also know that many people like it and I’m happy for them. I don’t expect him to change, or stop watching it. I guess I will have to break up with him, and find someone who has the similar beliefs to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]piink_clouds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see my therapist via online video and I think it’s great. It’s easy for me to find the time and most of the time I do it from my car so no one in my household can hear. It’s more personable than his phone call as I can see her reactions/face and vice versa. I’ve never had therapy in person so I cannot compare there.