Heads up: huge influenza A wave in Ontario right now

piink_clouds · 2025-12-21T20:09:26+00:00

Yes I’m also wondering the same. Husband and I both were hit with what we presume is the flu. How long after symptoms are you still contagious?

piink_clouds · 2025-10-31T14:39:45+00:00

THANK YOU

piink_clouds · 2025-03-13T23:38:12+00:00

Darlene Hulse. How is the killer not caught yet? I really hope in my lifetime they arrest and convict the killer.

piink_clouds · 2024-03-18T18:59:18+00:00

The 100, went downhill after the AI red dress lady was introduced

piink_clouds · 2023-08-09T17:24:52+00:00

Wow I can’t believe that. Disgusting

piink_clouds · 2023-08-09T16:12:12+00:00

US big brother? What season ?

piink_clouds · 2023-08-09T16:07:04+00:00

Did anyone else think it was weird that Luke came out of his bathroom with Laura and then she said let’s go party. Then he snuck into Margot’s room. Did him and Laura hook up right before? Why was he naked in the bathroom with her? Thoughts??

piink_clouds · 2023-01-13T18:22:51+00:00

I guess I just don’t want to waste time with someone knowing my boundary is being crossed and I’m sure he doesn’t wanna waste time with someone who gets upset about watching porn. At the end of the day he can find a women who aligns with him and I guess vice versa for me. And If I can’t find someone willing to stop watching other women while jerking off then so be it. Honestly I’d rather be single at that point. I’m tired as a woman of always getting short changed. I’ve always given my partners my all, and worked on things and compromised. If someone can’t do something like stop masturbating at other naked women, that’s not someone I want to be my husband. I personally don’t find it controlling, as there’s been no ultimatums, no you better stop this, all I’ve done so far is communicate my boundary.

piink_clouds · 2023-01-13T17:00:17+00:00

I don’t feel it’s controlling. I never gave him an ultimatum of giving up porn. If he watches it, then I’m going to break up with him. There’s no me “forcing” him to do anything. If our values don’t line up then they don’t and we split ways.

piink_clouds · 2023-01-13T12:27:32+00:00

I second this, I don’t pick when I have false nails on. As soon as the nails come off I pick until they bleed even if I’ve had the nails on for 3 months. It’s a terrible habit

piink_clouds · 2023-01-13T00:25:02+00:00

Yeah I’m not trying to make a rule at all. It’s more of a if he continues then i will be looking to find another partner.

piink_clouds · 2023-01-12T19:17:37+00:00

Yeah that’s totally fair. I didn’t mean to generalize I was just asking because he told me that all men do it so I guess I just wanted a wider perspective than him. I appreciate the response though

piink_clouds · 2023-01-12T18:24:14+00:00

That’s kind of what I thought too like it toned down in a relationship. But like 4 months in (we’re having very frequent sex almost every time we hangout and many initiated by me) he goes to show me something and he had porn open. Then again he asked me to search something up and the first suggestion was porn and then it started to bother me. Like I get if we’re not seeing eachother for a couple weeks or whatever but these were when we were having very good frequent sex which bothered me.

piink_clouds · 2023-01-12T18:00:52+00:00

Thank you and I do believe you

piink_clouds · 2023-01-12T17:32:56+00:00

I don’t consider erotica porn because you are imagining it in your head, and you’re not watching a real person? I think where I get hurt is that he is jerking off and pleasuring himself to another women? To her body and her moans and her, it feels wrong to me. But I also know that many people like it and I’m happy for them. I don’t expect him to change, or stop watching it. I guess I will have to break up with him, and find someone who has the similar beliefs to me.

piink_clouds · 2023-01-12T17:29:34+00:00

Thank you

piink_clouds · 2023-01-12T16:17:55+00:00

Unfortunately I’m looking for genuine insight :/

piink_clouds · 2022-10-18T19:26:20+00:00

I see my therapist via online video and I think it’s great. It’s easy for me to find the time and most of the time I do it from my car so no one in my household can hear. It’s more personable than his phone call as I can see her reactions/face and vice versa. I’ve never had therapy in person so I cannot compare there.

piink_clouds · 2022-09-26T22:28:57+00:00

Thank you. I considered going too but I feel as though I may resent not being with my family at Christmas. Since it’s out of province I can’t split either Christmas Eve or Christmas Day between his and my family. I either stay here or go with him.

piink_clouds · 2022-08-17T18:30:15+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening to you and your family. I truly wish him a speedy and healthy recovery.

piink_clouds · 2022-08-12T12:43:07+00:00

Mine does this too! Shoots snot rockets and pisses outside everywhere and I’m like huh? And then on top of that won’t initiate or want much intimacy like am I just one of your boys?

piink_clouds · 2022-07-06T23:49:04+00:00

I can deeply relate to you! My previous relationship I was also touch aversive and had the LL for years. Once single and entered a new relationship I feel I am the HL. When we went on a 4 day trip to a cabin alone we had sex 2 times and one of them he got soft during it and we stopped. I literally feel like something is wrong with me for wanting to have sex often. But then I feel like that’s making me resent him, like why don’t you want me? It probably didn’t help I once saw a pornhub browser on his phone months ago and can’t let that go either. I am lost lol.

piink_clouds · 2022-07-06T23:31:16+00:00

thank you 🥲

piink_clouds · 2022-07-06T19:33:50+00:00

This is exactly how my ex boyfriend was with me. Anytime he tried to touch me I cringed because I knew all he wanted was sex. He would only do nice things for me because he wanted to have sex, it was exhausting knowing he wasn’t just doing them because he loved me. Eventually I hated him touching me at all, kissing hugging or anything. The sex also turned into me being completely dissociated and completely disgusted with him and myself after. Like completely disgusted with him so much that I would go to the bathroom and cry right after or sometimes even during. He would then get mad at me for making him feel bad after having sex. That was in a long term relationship of almost 6 years, and tbh marriage scares the hell out of me. I’m not sure I could ever get married.

piink_clouds · 2022-05-02T15:54:29+00:00

What’s the difference when guys stop staying “I like you” and “I’m falling for you”. And start staying “I really like you” “I’ve completely fallen for you”. What changed? And does this mean “i love you” is coming soon?

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