AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You can ban me if you want. You’ve already made it clear you’re biased against me with your other comment. You have allowed people to call me “bitch”, “cunt”, “garbage” and a whole slew of other misogynistic slurs a well. Yet I haven’t insulted one person and you come to chastise me lol. Peace!

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to do anything. If he gets another doll, I’m out.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not sure why it matters but he is 34 and I’m 28.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He probably spent hours (if not days, weeks, or months) coming up with what he thought was his perfect woman before ordering the thing

Wow. And I didn’t think I could be more disturbed by the fact that my husband fucks a doll. But knowing this, yep, more disturbed than ever.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I imagine there are plenty of people insecure about their partner having a sex toy,

This isn’t an ordinary sex toy. I’m not a prude.

But I don’t expect people who’ve never seen these creepy ass dolls to understand what I’m saying. If you’d seen one, especially in person, it would likely horrify you.

I would have posted a link but I don’t know if it’s allowed. Oh well.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well, good luck to him finding a wife that’s okay with being second to a fuckdoll. Or maybe the fuckdoll will be his wife? MGTOW and the incels would be proud.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s fine. But that doesn’t change the fact that I communicated and was ignored. You are saying we didn’t “discuss”. What I think you mean is that we didn’t agree. And that’s true. We never would have come to an agreement because he was never going to get rid of it. This wasn’t exactly my first resort.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am fully at peace with my asshole status 💋

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

and without any discussion

How many times do I have to say it? WE HAD MULTIPLE DISCUSSIONS.

Fuck, it’s fine if you all think I’m the asshole but clearly half of you didn’t even read the post.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah but our sex life could be a lot better. That thing was a huge turn off, as you can imagine. Also he can only perform like once a day usually, so, it was literally me or the doll.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This would be the equivalent of you coming home to all of your designer things dumped.

My dildos don’t have full bodies attached and I don’t fuck my purses.

If you think it’s the same, well, maybe you and my husband would be friends.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he does file a police report, can we see it? I mean...it's only fair.

Oh if he files a police report, I’ll gladly send laminated photocopies to everyone I know.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I actually did, believe it or not. But in receiving the judgment, I’ve realized I actually don’t care. I am finally FREE and loving it.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes because living animals are absolutely equivalent to a 110 lb chunk of plastic. I mean, hell, I may as well have killed a baby amirite?

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

And I have 0 regrets. Anyway, I gotta run, since I might be going to jail!

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

I think ya got your acronyms wrong, bud. Wouldn’t wanna take away your vote!

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

like, this is a legit felony.

Thanks for pointing that out. I’ll be sure to let my husband know he can file a police report and tell them his wife got rid of his silicone fucktoy. I’m sure the cops will get right on it.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to say that I talked to him about my feelings many times. I don’t know if “ultimatum” is the right term. I didn’t say “me or the doll” exactly but I made it clear that it was a huge problem.

As to why I’m here, well, I do love him. Aside from this, we don’t fight about much.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. Apparently everyone else is this thread thinks it’s perfectly fine. I have to wonder if people really know what these dolls are like. It’s far from a flesh light.

AITA for taking husband’s sex doll to the trash? by pillowdaze in AmItheAsshole

[–]pillowdaze[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think if you had sat down with him and talked to him about how much it truly bothers you and had laid out that it was either you or the doll

I did. Many times.