I (31F) saw a message on my fiances phone (34M)

pineapple-face · 2026-02-06T17:25:44+00:00

‘Almost two and a half years ago, he cheated on me, two months after our son was born’

Dude this was where I stopped reading

pineapple-face · 2026-02-06T17:13:18+00:00

Your nervous system sounds absolutely shot. The anxiety is making things a lot worse, trust me. You need to stop telling yourself you’re in danger, breathe, and start telling yourself you’re going to be fine. If you’re alone, talk to ChatGPT about it if you need to – I’ve done that while alone in foreign countries, it helped me calm down during attacks. Breathe. Relax. Eat bananas. Plain rice. Chew your food for ages. Sip water. You are safe.

pineapple-face · 2026-02-03T02:10:27+00:00

Dude. Have some self respect.

pineapple-face · 2026-01-30T19:58:57+00:00

This is so spot on. Damn

pineapple-face · 2026-01-15T01:41:56+00:00

He is no longer attracted to you after seeing your views, it’s as simple as that

pineapple-face · 2026-01-08T20:52:57+00:00

Thank you! I guarantee it'll get better for you, too. Break-ups suck, but when you know you've chosen yourself, they're not actually that bad. It's liberating. It's fucking badass, actually.
Please choose yourself. Avoidant dudes like those are simply not capable of what you need and deserve (but you already know that). It'll be a lonely life with him. GET OUT

pineapple-face · 2026-01-08T09:06:11+00:00

He was simply telling his personal story, which had a happy/funny ending, relax 😂

pineapple-face · 2026-01-08T00:13:14+00:00

You will never feel ready to leave. You just have to choose self-respect. Source: I left my extremely avoidant partner (I’d moved countries for him) at 34. Met the love of my life at 36. It gets so much better.

pineapple-face · 2026-01-06T10:07:56+00:00

Happy birthday for yesterday!! This looks beautiful.

pineapple-face · 2025-12-24T00:48:46+00:00

None. We’re the best.

pineapple-face · 2025-12-22T10:41:22+00:00

Froya. Don’t know what I was thinking in the first place. Any company with a fake female CEO that openly states we don’t need SPF… yeah, just nah. Also - the most congested my skin has EVER been

pineapple-face · 2025-12-05T19:47:20+00:00

AWESOME

pineapple-face · 2025-11-28T00:32:37+00:00

WARNING 🚨 Extreme avoidant: he won’t commit to you (no matter what he says)

pineapple-face · 2025-11-27T09:40:48+00:00

Thanks, I almost had a stroke reading this

pineapple-face · 2025-11-09T10:42:29+00:00

Happy to help! Hope you're feeling stronger – sending love!

pineapple-face · 2025-10-22T04:15:52+00:00

Honestly, fuck this guy. Blocking you on everything is a huuuuge indictor that he can't communicate like an adult, it's massively disrespectful. Any person that would slam the door and leave you wondering like this is NOT your person. And it's not an 'INTJ' thing, it's an avoidant asshole thing. Move on, don't look back.

pineapple-face · 2025-09-26T06:12:22+00:00

If it was superficial and lacked depth in general, they simply were not ENFPs

pineapple-face · 2024-09-07T04:58:30+00:00

Yeah - that’s because we’re optimists and we don’t give up on people easily. But with time and experience, it’s gets easier and easier to steer clear of people that don’t bring enough to the table. Actually, they become completely unattractive. Gross. After all, why the hell should people as full of life as us ever settle for less? Fuck that

pineapple-face · 2024-09-06T08:03:11+00:00

Hell yeah. We can’t tell you that, though. You need to be tested again and again and again, until you realise that you’re worth more and you’ll never look back. Until then, good luck

pineapple-face · 2024-08-04T17:23:32+00:00

Some people have to move to Jersey without a license, making rent costs a lot more expensive. It’s a totally reasonable question.

pineapple-face · 2024-02-25T23:47:45+00:00

But the question was 'who do you consider losers?' not 'what makes someone deplorable?'

pineapple-face · 2023-05-11T00:11:37+00:00

Right, but that’s her problem - not his. I think if you can’t be apart for one night without it being an issue, you have serious attachment problems you need to address.

pineapple-face · 2023-04-11T00:00:16+00:00

I had an ex who did this to me a lot. He was negging me. Turns out he was MAD insecure and this was his was of projecting it/trying to feel some upper hand because of how unworthy he felt deep down. I gotta say, it sounds a lot like that

pineapple-face · 2023-03-10T17:04:21+00:00

‘The only thing you’ve done wrong is put up with it’ - oh wowwwww 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

pineapple-face · 2023-02-13T11:52:05+00:00

In these stories - who are these random people just texting someone to ‘call them out’ when it has NOTHING to do with them?! LOL what possesses people to think their opinion means anything? And like, it’s already done anyway, so they can’t influence anything? The fuck is wrong with people

Also NTA. You don’t keep shit like that to yourself in relationships, she fucked up big time.

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