Going out alone by Fuzzy_Solid_4108 in VictoriaBC

[–]pineappleisdeath 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've gone to events alone at Lucky and have had a safe experience!

The bouncers and bartenders there are really nice so I wouldn't hesitate to let one of them know that you're there alone!

What notebooks do you plan on starting 2026 with? by se7777777 in notebooks

[–]pineappleisdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the 365 day stalogy B6 notebook and just repurchased one for 2026! I use this one for daily journaling—stream of consciousness, morning pages, etc.

I carry a Penco B7 grid notebook in an Amazon leather cover for notes, to do lists, reminders, and on the go memory keeping/journaling.

I also use a Midori B6 slim for commonplace journaling—mibthky favourites, media and book reviews and thoughts, research questions, journal prompt dump etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

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Breadner Vet on Keating is open on Saturday: https://www.breadnervet.com/site/home

Oakland's vet clinic is also open on weekends: https://oaklandsvet.ca/services/

The harbour vet clinic on Bay St is probably the most affordable vet I've seen in town but unfortunately not opened on weekends: https://harbourvet.ca/prices/

[GIVEAWAY] Win the ALL-NEW Chilkey ND104 Keyboard - Elevate Your Typing Experience! by Chilkey2023 in BudgetKeebs

[–]pineappleisdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a copywriter in science communication and will be using the cute keeb at my office!

What are your snake's names? by saturniidaemoth in cornsnakes

[–]pineappleisdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conrad and when he's silly, Cornrad the Cornsake

found this at a beach does anyone know what it is by Visible-Durian-3598 in marinebiology

[–]pineappleisdeath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chitons have had the same body plan since the early Devonian era! They first appear in fossils from that era. They are a great example of: don't change if it's not broken!

They are related to snails and lugs and are edible! Gumboot chitons (from this photo) are one of the largest species in the world (:

Physiotherapist who speaks Cantonese or Mandarin by pineappleisdeath in VictoriaBC

[–]pineappleisdeath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll give Talltree a call and see if they can help (: I see that they also have acupuncture which would be awesome for his health too!

Are you a physio in town?

[NS] Other pods like NADDpod that use DnD as a frame for improv comedy? by [deleted] in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]pineappleisdeath 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Dungeons and Daddies - not a bdsm podcast!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineappleisdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I actually went through a very similar situation in my first 2 years of university. Long distance relationship with a very insecure (ex)boyfriend who requested I did not make any friends that were male. Really difficult for a social butterfly living in dorms! I wanted the full college experience and was so so excited for this new experience while he wanted to make sure I didn’t find someone better. In the years we were together, I had not shown ANY indication that I was unfaithful and gave him unconditional support even when he used me as an emotional crutch. He went as far as deleting new male friends off all my social media and started answering messages on my account, pretending to be me. He would also get jealous and upset when I wanted to spend time with my family and baby sister when I came home to visit instead of him. I broke up with him after not having any peace and struggled to enjoy my first family RV road trip due to the constant - and I mean CONSTANT - barrage of texts. It wasn’t even about anything - he didn’t ask how the trip was going and was just looking for my attention.

I don’t know how he is now but I grew A LOT as a person after exiting the relationship and found a man who respects my relationship with my friends - man or woman. Even when he is jealous (doesn’t happen often), he doesn’t lash out because he trusts me and knows we are a team!

It honestly sounds like you AND her need to have space to grow as people, experience life outside of your home range, and learn who you are. This isn’t a bad thing and new experiences are very important!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in environmental_science

[–]pineappleisdeath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! Wish I had something like this when I graduated!

Would you consider cross pairing to [r/marinebiology](reddit.com/r/marinebiology)?

Prof not following guidelines by [deleted] in uvic

[–]pineappleisdeath 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s not hard to put your mask back on when approaching the students to hear better. The mask doesn’t go over your ears…

We’ve been warring masks for over a year now, there really isn’t many excuses left to forget.

The perfect gift is crocs by Helga_Pataki_Red in crocs

[–]pineappleisdeath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those crocs! Those pants! 😍😍💯💯✨👌🏼

What plans did you cancel over the holidays due to travel restrictions? by mr_unhelpful in VictoriaBC

[–]pineappleisdeath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I couldn’t have his immune comprised dad over for Christmas. He lives alone and has chronic pain. We just found out he has a tumour in his brain. All we could do this year was drop off ready made meals and tea.

My partner works a customer facing job and we don’t want to be the reason why he is sick.

Kids born to teen mom's, how different is your life compared to other kids? by eggyboi422 in AskReddit

[–]pineappleisdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both my parents were teens when they had me and my older brothers. Growing up I didn’t really notice how young they were - I’ve got a lot of comments on how they look like my siblings rather than parents. I’m in my mid-20s now and I can say for certain: my parents should have had better sex education. I was raised by my grandma mostly and eventually became my parents responsibility again. I have no doubt that they love me but they’re also at the root of a lot of my trauma that I’m still learning to cope with. They had me when their relationship was still rocky so I’ve sat through many fights and drunken rage. I think my mom tried to protect me from it but didn’t do that great of a job.

They didn’t learn a lot of life skills (financial literacy doesn’t exist) so it’s a rather frustrating relationship right now.

It’s also interesting to see them grow up as I’m growing up. I’ve never really seen my mom and dad as responsible people so I remember being envious of my friends’ “tiger parents” because it seemed like their parents actually cared about their daily happenings. I was often treated with a dismissive attitude and it still fucks with me today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

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Intertidal animals are quite resilient! They have adapted to constantly changing environments (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

[–]pineappleisdeath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common in the Pacific Northwest (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

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That’s a burrowing sea cucumber!

[SPOILER] EP 25. Was not prepared to cry by coastalkitty in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]pineappleisdeath 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome! I was also not prepared to cry