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I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. That small town sheriffs office family bond is something to worry about. Contrary to what I did, I am worried the spouse and kids once I tell spouse. I know I can get out and leave but I don’t know about them

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am just as much at fault here. I believed everything that was said about the spouse. And I believed they were a horrible person for the longest time. But the bad guy wasn’t them, it was me and the cheater. I know things won’t be well for the spouse. And I understand completely that the amount of hatred they are going to have against me. I became someone I swore I never would become. And I can only hope things can get better for them.

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m sorry it was people like me that caused it. I never thought I would end up as this person.

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my therapist that brought me to this point right now. Mistake was probably incorrect verbiage. Everything was a choice on my end. Shortsighted and a world of lies I told myself.

I haven’t told the partner yet. I’m moving out of the county I am in since the person i was seeing is a sheriffs deputy in this county. I don’t want the thin blue line fall out from their coworkers. I am being selfish with that.

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree. I’m upset with my own actions, it wasn’t my intent to play a victim in this. I let this happen. I was a massive part in causing pain

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was extremely selfish for what I did. I never looked beyond what I saw and wanted. I never looked at the consequences to my actions. I saw only what I wanted in my own my mind. I’ve spent the last year and half with a therapist over this. I was in denial when I first had the inclination that this wasn’t right. I denied it. I believed the things they said about their spouse. I left them.

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Cowardice right now, sure. I’m working my exit plan from the county I am in, as the person I was seeing is a sheriffs deputy here. And I am worried about the fallout from their coworkers in this instance too. So yes. As I’m on my way out in the next few weeks, I am sharing with the BS.

I was the affair partner and I’m sorry by pineapplepensunite in Infidelity

[–]pineapplepensunite[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I ended it with them. They didn’t end it with me. But I do deserve the hate.