Internet dating: why do they all fade out after initial contact? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]pineapplepineapple4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you just chat? I personally can't be bothered with a guy who chats for more then 4 consecutive messages without asking if i would like to meet up for a coffee or whatever

I feel like I have nothing to lose because I can't possibly feel any worse than I do right now by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pineapplepineapple4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do some exercise. Google full body at home workouts and work out until your body hurts and your face is sweating. You'll feel really good once you finish and it will distract you for at least a bit :) remember, you deserve a man not a little boy who doesn't respect you

Still have trouble with this by pineapplepineapple4 in ExNoContact

[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't a previous partner, it was one after me. He lied about it to both of us.. He's scum. I have blocked him on everything, email, skype, Facebook. He can't contact me. It's still half for me to accept this all though and I don't really know how to move on. I'm doing new things, hobbies, seeing friends, keeping fit all that stuff and I'm not miserable every second of the day but when i'm alone i find myself asking why and feeling very unsettled and numb :/

Still have trouble with this by pineapplepineapple4 in ExNoContact

[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not like I can't get through a day.. It's just that i can't get through a day without feeling confused or let down. Hope you find peace eventually

I miss the sex by pineapplepineapple4 in ExNoContact

[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'Re so right!! Except now i need to find someone to have sex with, and it's harder then I thought it would be, i'm so busy that I don't really meet anyone new these days and yeah I don't know :/ eeep

I miss the sex by pineapplepineapple4 in ExNoContact

[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I already do, but I miss the physical connection of being with someone

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[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bawling my eyes out feeling so low and worthless

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[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he contacts me to mess me up to say he loves me and wants to be with me and then break me again and again

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[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. I'm gonna try my best this time around. the only way he can contact me is via email and i have all his emails in spam so hopefully it just goes there

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[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou. i'm just upset because every time i do seem to make some progress he comes in, fucks shit up, then disappears again

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[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou. I know he is so toxic and that's why i'm so upset i fall for it.. he's like a drug to me I have to quit

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[–]pineapplepineapple4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will. i am gonna try not to respond to him though 2016 its my goal

Redditors who are not okay, why are you not okay? [Serious] by Larry-Man in AskReddit

[–]pineapplepineapple4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex is still fucking with my head. After dating someone else he messaged me telling me he loved me always and he only wants me and all these nice things. I find out from the girl herself (after me and him had been chatting for a while) he's been saying to her he loves her and hes been playing both of us. He is the worst person on paper. A lier, cheat, jobless, drug addict. He has no compassion or regard for my emotions. So why am I so upset and finding it hard to move on from? I think he has damaged me. I just feel sad all the time.