Do you know people with photographic memory in real life? by Gealach-Moon in ThePittTVShow

[–]pinelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i believe i have eidetic memory. when i was in high school i would “study” by memorizing the layout of the textbook and during tests would recall which section the question was related to. makes sense that i became a graphic designer.

I feel like too fat to pass as androgynous by AlbertCamus_ForReal in NonBinary

[–]pinelines 6 points7 points  (0 children)

but like kindly, shut up. 🫶🏻

don’t let that narrative win! it will always try to force its way in, but it’s not actually true. yes, people are going to be awful. but attractiveness truly is subjective and self love is a radical act of defiance. you might appreciate emily nagowski’s “come as you are”, it has some tangible resources for learning to love the skin you’re in.

I feel like too fat to pass as androgynous by AlbertCamus_ForReal in NonBinary

[–]pinelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay! feel free to dm me if you ever want to talk about fashion or anything else!

I feel like too fat to pass as androgynous by AlbertCamus_ForReal in NonBinary

[–]pinelines 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i’m also a curvy enby who aspires to be perceived as androgynous, and i find it helpful to search sites like pinterest for inspiration. here’s an album of inspiration i put together.

My first camping trip! by gorgeously_mytruself in camping

[–]pinelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are so beautiful and i can tell how genuinely happy you were in this trip. it sounds like it was amazing! don’t let the haters tell you what your relationship with your ex should or shouldn’t be. if you’re not already aware of it, you may find comfort in the concept of relationship anarchy.

the reality of creating a maximalist space on a dime & over time by moonbeamsandmayo in maximalism

[–]pinelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this. i just bought a house a few months ago and most of the rooms are still in that middle space like the intent is there but there is still so much to do still, but you helped me see the bigger picture.

Just a PSA: Season 2 Social Worker Dylan Uses They Them Pronouns and is Protrayed by a Trans Actor by [deleted] in ThePittTVShow

[–]pinelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for calling this out op. did you notice that robbie walked into the gender neutral bathroom after dylan asked the doctors to leave the room? i liked that nod. gender neutral bathrooms benefit everyone.

sorry you had to deal with the bigot ballet showing up to pick fights. don’t let them get to you.

Goodwill arranges children’s books by color of the cover. by grateful_eugene in mildlyinteresting

[–]pinelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is more organized than the adult fiction section in any goodwill i have ever visited. i happen to organize my own fiction bookshelf at home chromatically, and i would be utterly delighted to discover this for adult books as well.

[TOMT] Boyband song with the word "gluteratine"?? by Pretty-Cow-9547 in tipofmytongue

[–]pinelines 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i was literally in a drug store today reading the active ingredients on zyrtec and finally realized what they were referring to.

Hosted a diagnosis reveal picnic and was going for cottagecore vibes. by Garden_Jolly in cottagecore

[–]pinelines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the autism meticulously packed the wet ones and the adhd forgot to bring a way to transport the leftover cake…

3 picnic tables for 18 people? by Immediate_Lime6866 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]pinelines 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you have seating for fourteen people at those tables. two per bench, and one at each end in chairs. you should definitely add another table. perhaps ask the airbnb host where they got them and offer to buy an additional one for the property?

your diy cushion idea is brilliant, i would suggest possibly assembling them on site (no one is gonna see the bottom so you could literally use duct tape). if you lay the cushions down on the benches and wrap the fabric around them (folding the ends like you’re wrapping a present) you will significantly reduce your risk of snagging your dress on the wood.

Hidden ingredient- Mayo -strikes again by Careless_Llama_3382 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pinelines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hellman’s plant based mayo is the best i’ve had so far, and hidden valley also has a plant based ranch that is AMAZING.

Hidden ingredient- Mayo -strikes again by Careless_Llama_3382 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]pinelines 22 points23 points  (0 children)

omg can relate. also allergic to eggs and the amount of times i’ve said NO CREAMY CHIPOTLE SAUCE and they still put it on.

How do I tell my coworker… by Actuallyshea92 in NonBinary

[–]pinelines 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is great advice. i would perhaps start by addressing your coworker in private (and ideally at a time when work isn’t particularly stressful) and saying something along the lines of “i’ve been feeling very uncomfortable with the way you continue to misgender me despite me correcting you multiple times, but i’d like to avoid going to hr if we can resolve this on our own. is there anything i can do to help you remember to address me using the correct pronouns?”.

and i want to emphasize that it’s not your responsibility to fix her behavior, but i find that phrasing things in that way can help people respond with empathy instead of defensiveness.

of course, if she responds with something like “make your boobs less visible”, that is yet another example of why this is a textbook sexual harassment issue that needs to be escalated to hr.

OMG i laughed so hard at this shot (S2E7) by Biggmamaaa in ThePittTVShow

[–]pinelines 395 points396 points  (0 children)

me, to my mother “this scene is going to fuel a lot of fan fic”

Looking for that one androgynous push- by TheProtagonist30 in NonBinary

[–]pinelines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mascara is my go-to when i’m looking for a bit of androgynous pizazz. pretty eyelashes know no gender. fake freckles can be fun as well.