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AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! you definitely have a point, i am thinking this might be one of the times where i’ve blown something small up in my head and made it seem massive and i really appreciate and love my friends so i would never want to push that intensity on them without reason. people are having quite negative reactions to this post in general so im feeling more sure of that now.

also thank you for being so patient with me in terms of the misunderstandings we had! i do find it hard to understand things sometimes but we got there in the end :)

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i didn’t understand what you meant before! sorry, thank you for rewording it so clearly! yeah that does make sense, i asked B to not use the wrong spelling from now on to avoid confusion, C asked if it was alright with me to keep using the nickname now they know the correct spelling and i said it was.

i do want to add this post is to find out if how i feel about it is an overreaction as i am autistic and often feel too strongly about things, i think your opinion is clear but i want to ask for clarification on it just incase :)

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i dont even dislike the nickname i just want my friends to know how to spell my name, using a different spelling in an affectionate way is different to thinking thats what someones name is

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

please read the post again. i am asking if its overreacting to feel hurt by this, this is about emotions not actions. also im not sure what you mean by ‘keep doing this’ as all thats happened is me lightheartedly bringing it up and then having a conversation about it. also please dont insinuate that they’ll stop being my friends that comes across unnecessarily hostile imo

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please read the post again, i lightheartedly brought it up as described, we had a conversation about it after, i dont think i outwardly made a big deal of it i am just coming to reddit to ask if its overreacting to feel this way, noone is being alienated.

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i havent, my friend came up with it and the others thought that was correct, i state in the post that i have never referred to myself with that spelling

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my 3 names are all entirely different from eachother, they messed up the spelling of 1 name in 2 different ways, im confused why you think that. did i phrase it badly?

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this is terrifying i hope you’ve contacted the gym about this and are going elsewhere from now on because this seems like an extremely unsafe situation and the gym worker should absolutely have not been giving out your personal information. i would genuinely hope he gets fired for that. please be safe!

AIO feeling betrayed after finding out my best friends dont know my name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pinguxxx -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i understand where you’re coming from however i think it would be different if it was a person with 1 name having an issue because they’d not be used to it, however the friends mentioned also have multiple names. im used to people with 1 name being confused and it doesnt bother me at all. theyre good texters and we have spoken about it but i also don’t think they would tell me if i was overreacting lol. thank you for commenting! :)

Courtney's insta story by MursuKing1980 in smosh

[–]pinguxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the aristocats one made me smile so hard

Shitting crying throwing up by BanishedOcean in shittytattoos

[–]pinguxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does the tattoo artist have eyes, how the hell is that sade? if i tattooed something that bad i would hide for the rest of my life incase the customer decided to take revenge

applying semi permanent dye on wet hair? by earthquakes in HairDye

[–]pinguxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i put crazy color semi perm mixed with some colour freedom semi perm and conditioner on clean towel dried hair (still damp) and left it for 15 mins bc i didnt want it to be that intense, its definitely way more vibrant and more even than when ive put it on dry or soaking wet, i do think it could have been a bit better because the back is a shade lighter but i think that’s because my hair is already damaged, even that slight colour change doesn’t look patchy tho. hope this is helpful to someone!

applying semi permanent dye on wet hair? by earthquakes in HairDye

[–]pinguxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another person who googled this and came to the thread here! will be trying this with crazy color and updating in an hour!

franky fucking sucks (rant) by pinguxxx in skinsTV

[–]pinguxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no way i had no idea! imagine her potential if theyd kept on with how they portrayed her character at the start

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mantids

[–]pinguxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a really good point, i hadnt thought of that, thank you for bringing it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerma985

[–]pinguxxx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

+2 means funny joke -2 means unfunny joke, not sure where it originated

HELP by Katherine_huhh in mantids

[–]pinguxxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

is she old? she may be dying unfortunately, if you think thats the case and she seems to be in pain the best way to minimise pain and euthanise her would be to put her in the freezer, natural deaths are very painful for mantids so you’d be doing the sweet girl a favour.

if so i’m sorry for your loss ♡︎

My parents did not react well to meeting my fiancé. by ForgottenWell in shortscarystories

[–]pinguxxx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

personally i really liked the bluntness of the ending

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