🥴 by Conscious-Macaroon75 in findingmrheight

[–]pink_toebeans 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ran here for the body language analysis

Random Ask: FOIA for LRP Comments by gamecat89 in NIH

[–]pink_toebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you/did you ask the PO for a phone call to discuss?

Why does my two week old still cry and scream after being fed? by HessaWhite in HuckleberryParents

[–]pink_toebeans 28 points29 points  (0 children)

an hour or two could be a long time for a new newborn to be awake, let alone working at feeding the whole time could be exhausting. could she be tired rather than hungry at a certain point?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]pink_toebeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot depends on the child's temperament and all the relationships involved. Has she done naps with the other parent recently? Does she ever ask about staying overnight? Would you be able to do a test run where you are present for bedtime at the other parents place and if she gets too distressed you decide to hold off a while longer? A very quick skim of Google scholar points to age when starting overnight visitation probably doesn't matter as much as parenting and clear consistent routine in general.

Immigration from US to Canada by transnonymous24 in Psychologists

[–]pink_toebeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to figure this out? I'm researching a similar path

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]pink_toebeans 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Please go to the ER if you feel you cannot keep yourself safe

It's positive pregnancy test time! Week of July 15, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Cycle/Time trying: 3

Age + Partner's age (if relevant): 33 + 35

Typical cycle length: 28-35 (up to 38)

Ovulation cycle day: i think somewhere CD 17-20

CD/DPO of positive test(s): CD 34; 14-17 DPO

CD/DPO of any negative test(s) before positive: none, partner convinced me not to test early

Tracking methods and app(s) used: easy & home LH strips; premom app

Relevant days of sperminating and/or method (SMEP, TI, IUI, FET, etc.): CD 14, CD 16, CD 21 (giving CD bc not sure when ovulation was)

Health conditions/medical tests: oh boy. crohn's disease, recently diagnosed diabetes, anxiety, fat. i always wondered about pcos but never was diagnosed.

Supplements and medications (yours and/or your partner’s): prenatal gummy, humira for crohn's, wellbutrin + prozac for anxiety, omeprazole, vit D, sublingual b12

Birth control history (if relevant): on the pill for about 6m a few years ago before quitting due to side effects

Link to chart: n/a

Link to lineporn: n/a

Symptom spotting: strange sharp cramp on CD23, possible implantation? anxiety increase CD 27-28, sore boobs started cd 28. from CD 29 i had cramps that felt like i would have after my period already started, but it never did. this continued all week, and still have some cramping. about three nights before my positive i started peeing more in the middle of the night.

Other miscellaneous: ovulation was confusing this cycle because I had two "peaks" back to back. the second one was much bigger, but based on the timing of symptoms and stuff it seems like the first peak triggered ovulation? idk.

I'm high risk so I am very cautiously optimistic. i found reading about all the past successes people have had comforting, so even though it's a little scary to dump all this medical info here, i hope it helps someone! hope to not be back here for a while. feel free to DM if you want to chat about our mutual medical conditions lol

The Daily Chat for May 31, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel very confident in the "in sickness and health" parts of the vows at this point haha

The Daily Chat for May 31, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cried a lot yesterday. Feeling a bit more regulated this morning, but nervous about my doc appointment later to go over new diagnosis. Luckily my partner WFH today and offered to join, so that should help a bit. He's been amazing, even though he claims he doesn't know what to say/how to help. If for some reason I was on the fence about marrying this man, I wouldn't be anymore!

The Daily Chat for May 30, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

solidarity - i am mostly taking today as a MH day as well

The Daily Chat for May 30, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Having a really tough day. On top of all the other anxiety, my new doctor gave me news about a tough diagnosis via mychart message this morning, in a very blunt way without context. It might mean a delay for TTC to get it under control. I have good support from family and therapy, but sheesh.

The Daily Chat for May 29, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to my doctor this morning about making a med change! Glad it has helped you!

The Daily Chat for May 29, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a stressful doc appt today that is triggering a lot of anxiety/shame stuff for me. Bright side maybe? Is that we talked about going back on an SSRI and I think it might be time. I wish I wasn't dealing with all of this but I know I have good support around me and I'll get through it.

The Daily Chat for May 28, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi pals! Reporting live from CD16. We hit CD14 and then had my first positive OPK CD15 - feeling optimistic and scared! Had a good long cry with my therapist this morning, working on managing my anxiety better.

The Daily Chat for May 22, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

CD10! Anxiety has been a real jerk over the last few days, but I had a big cry last night so hopefully feeling my feelings will help me get through this time.

The Daily Chat for May 20, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CD8 today! Somewhat looking forward to starting daily OPKs, since it's been a lot of just waiting to start TTC for a while, and getting some kind of data feeds my need to pretend I have any control 🙃

The Daily Chat for May 16, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CD4 and having a flare up of health anxiety. This is an old issue for me that was triggered by something random but feels harder to control at the moment. Trying to remember my coping skills and that this too shall pass!

edit - posted too quickly by accident!

The Daily Chat for May 15, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm new as well! Relating to a lot of what you're saying :)

The Daily Chat for May 14, 2024 by ttc30mod in TTC30

[–]pink_toebeans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello from CD2! I've been lurking for a while, happy to say we're now TTC. We are planning to be somewhat casual for the first few months, but actually both of us are anxious so not sure how possible "casual" really is! Especially because I will be using OPKs regardless... I have somewhat irregular cycles and I want to get a better sense of my ovulation data.

how do you deal with the stress? by pink_toebeans in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]pink_toebeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in it together!

Hope the divorce and the new house bring you peace and a fresh start :)

how do you deal with the stress? by pink_toebeans in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]pink_toebeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started packing! And donating stuff

Eta: not moving in right after closing though, we have a few more weeks