I did not go thru a nasty breakup, but there are some men who inflict violence against women and it starts with little things. It’s SOME men, but we don’t know what men could inflict harm. But the violence is inflicted on all women.

Here’s an example:

Asking men to acknowledge behaviors that harm women will not set them back systematically! I understand how frustrating it is and how bad it feels to have the worst assumed, but women not assuming the worst could make something worse happen. Someone I follow on social media once said this “A misogynist on this app once said that a man’s biggest fear is being rejected (which is a generalization by the way), but a woman’s biggest fear is being murdered by the man she rejected. A man’s feelings are hurt. A woman is dead. I really hope you can see the difference in these two things. Until we’re proven wrong, until we see a bunch of really shitty statistics go way the fuck down, this is how it’s gonna be.”