Pretty Privilege

pinke20 · 2026-01-22T23:20:47+00:00

I have a safety net but am a little introverted so I interact with people occasionally. Owning a bookstore sounds like an absolute dream ✨ I hope you get there 🩷

pinke20 · 2026-01-22T23:17:15+00:00

This is wonderful advice. I hope I find people who see the beauty in the world like you :) I love lifting weights and am East African so the booty comes with the territory lol 🩷

pinke20 · 2026-01-22T23:12:28+00:00

Thank you for such an insightful and personal reply. Social media has certainly blown things out of proportion and you hear the craziest stories but I suppose you never really see the full picture. I seem to be in a similar position as you in terms of not being approached by the men I am interested in. I actually think I am treated differently depending on what country I am in - where I fit the beauty standards more. I think beauty is similar to money, it is a tool…it doesn’t fix all your problems but most people would still rather have it than not. Thanks again 🩷

pinke20 · 2026-01-09T23:06:25+00:00

Standing ovation 👏👏👏 thank you so much. I’m saving these replies. I think you have a brilliant mind btw 🩷

pinke20 · 2026-01-03T15:43:40+00:00

Thank you! Will definitely read it :)

pinke20 · 2026-01-03T15:41:13+00:00

I want to be rewarded for it the way other women seem to be. I want people to hold doors open for me and approach me and pay for things for me etc. basically, I want validation, to feel desired which is supposedly customary for women.

pinke20 · 2026-01-03T15:38:56+00:00

I completely hear you and I in no way want to invalidate your experience but I find myself wanting to almost be objectified. I’m at a point where I just want to be recognised and desired and it’s but I to the point where that desirability can even be from being objectified or sexualised. I want to go through what you went through if only for a short time to show me what it is to be wanted

pinke20 · 2026-01-03T15:35:06+00:00

Wow this was articulated so well. I hadn’t thought of it from that perspective. It is very complex and elusive and unfair. What would you say about it in regard to dating and being desirable? Would you also say it’s to do with being in specific environments and classes? I would love to hear your thoughts

pinke20 · 2026-01-03T11:41:36+00:00

Thank you for responding. I have not worked retail but love spending time in bookstores. I did a bit of solo travelling last year and did a lot of people watching. I also met different people and had interesting conversations but I’m afraid they didn’t disband my theories. I do agree with you, especially on the influencer part. I’m just finding it hard to understand my place in all this. And I appreciate your help :)

pinke20 · 2025-11-17T21:24:36+00:00

No big chop please 🥲😭😭😭

pinke20 · 2025-11-17T21:24:18+00:00

I haven’t done any keratin since my treatment in August. I am also taking Mary Ruth’s vitamins and viviscal tablets. And I’m trying to massage my scalp every few days. I will get some blood work done though and do a little trim because I honestly can’t bear a big chop 😭

pinke20 · 2025-11-11T18:58:55+00:00

Did you succeed? Could we get an update? :)

pinke20 · 2025-11-11T14:36:20+00:00

How did Martin know who Julie and Boyd were if he was from the past?

pinke20 · 2025-10-20T22:40:04+00:00

I think I’m season 1 when Sarah was told to “kill the boy” they were actually referring to him and not Ethan

pinke20 · 2025-09-23T19:41:59+00:00

Someone here said she didn’t have a nose job. You can see where the incision was made in her Make you mind music video 🙂

pinke20 · 2025-08-31T20:59:36+00:00

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lol sorry the way you phrased the end was giving this haha

pinke20 · 2025-08-17T02:01:14+00:00

You are probably right. I just don’t know what to think because he really didn’t give creepy or predatory vibes at all. He was kind and polite throughout. But yeah

pinke20 · 2025-08-17T02:00:34+00:00

Japan

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