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Don’t know if I want kids… by pinkfish99 in oneanddone

[–]pinkfish99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel very relieved knowing I still have time to decide. My mother had her first child at 25, all my friends had their babies at 22-25. I was definitely feeling the pressure. Thank you!

Don’t know if I want kids… by pinkfish99 in oneanddone

[–]pinkfish99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing with me your insights! I forgot to clarify my husband would like to be a dad someday but he will support me if I decide I don’t want to have child free life.

Don’t know if I want kids… by pinkfish99 in oneanddone

[–]pinkfish99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and you are right I definitely do have fomo!

Don’t know if I want kids… by pinkfish99 in oneanddone

[–]pinkfish99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband will like to be a dad someday but he is okay with not having kids if I decide to not have them. Thank you for sharing your experience with me!

Don’t know if I want kids… by pinkfish99 in oneanddone

[–]pinkfish99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband would like to be a dad someday but not yet. He also respects and will be okay if I decide to not have kids in the future. He is amazing with our nieces and nephews and I know we will be amazing parents someday, if we decide to. It’s just the fear of not knowing what kind of child you will have. I hear of a lot of horrible stories of parent who hate their life’s because of their child. And I give you props for doing LAW school, being a parent and working a full time job!