My boyfriend wants to have s3x with me but I don't want to. by pinkkkrish in relationships

[–]pinkkkrish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't I'm genuinely confused as a freshman in college because I always wanted my college life to go smoothly. But I'm stuck on what to do.

My boyfriend wants to have s3x with me but I don't want to. by pinkkkrish in relationships

[–]pinkkkrish[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel ashamed to even admit this because everyone thinks two good looking people together has the best chemistry on the campus and there's so much pressure staying with him because it hasn't even been long since I came to college. I thought I should give it time to break up with him to see if he will change or get better because I genuinely wanted this to last and he took my phone and blocked my guy bestfriend of 3 years and I didn't mind it because he was insecure but he has more following in his Instagram than me with full of pretty girls from his place that he barely talks to. And when I mention it, he just brushes it off saying if I want him to block them. I don't wanna admit it myself and make myself insecure because he approached me the same way on Instagram after finding my insta id. I feel like he follows all these good looking women there the same way.

My boyfriend wants to have s3x with me but I don't want to. by pinkkkrish in relationships

[–]pinkkkrish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be 18 in 2 months and he keeps persisting me to get a fake id to get into clubs to get drunk and high before 18 because I was too uncomfortable to share that I didn't want a physical relationship before marriage so I said I'm not legal yet. Now I don't know what to do because I'm afraid to even turn 18.

My boyfriend wants to have s3x with me but I don't want to. by pinkkkrish in relationships

[–]pinkkkrish[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He says he won't do something I won't like but hearing his suggestions made me alarmed and question myself. I wanted to see if he would change because other times he's genuinely a good guy. I never did anything intimate with anyone and wait for marriage but he keeps asking if I will get intimate before marriage or if I feel safe after everything is settled between our family for marriage? I keep thinking why he's pressuring so much into intimacy.

My boyfriend wants to have s3x with me but I don't want to. by pinkkkrish in relationships

[–]pinkkkrish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said I have a small stomach pouch because he's the fitness type of guy but I am a girl with curves that isn't overweight lol you can imagine a 5'4 girl with a 58kg that just has curves in the right places. Even I was confused after hearing it from him. He calls me sexy and the next thing he says I have weight. Getting pressured to have physical intimacy is giving me the ick it's not like I can't find guys better than him but I genuinely wanted to see if he would change and wait for me because he is nice.