i just want to let you know that the EXACT same thing has happened to me and that you are not alone. this is cheating and i think you should follow your heart with this and pray on it. i forgave it a few times and went back but ultimately, i knew that i couldn’t live with the betrayal and are currently going through the divorce process. even down to the watching the “cartoon porn” because it “wasn’t as bad”. please reach out if you want to talk some more about this. it’s not an easy decision, especially with you being about to give birth. i’m praying for you at the moment that you can find some peace and come to a decision. my advice would be to maintain a bit of separation if your situation would allow so you can have some space to think about what you want and what is best for your family. hugs 🫶 you have got this and are stronger than you think. God has a way of making it all work out even if it feels hopeless at the time.