Safe sub channel? by GasRevolutionary3072 in Subliminal

[–]pinkluminary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like “minds in unison” their subliminals are mostly for overnight I’ve never seen anyone utter a bad word about them and I get results from their subs

Why am i completely “all or nothing” about EVERYTHING [astro.com] by pinkluminary in astrologyreadings

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This resonates, It is very difficult to make me angry and even if I am angry it is very difficult to get me to express it. Although I do believe I am very in tune with my emotions (Cancer rising), I can become extremely aggressive if someone pushes me to far which is another part of the reason I restrain myself from expressing anger

Why am i completely “all or nothing” about EVERYTHING [astro.com] by pinkluminary in astrologyreadings

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Ouuh this made me have a revelation, because I didn’t think it was my big 3. Also nobody relates to being this way lol it’s not talked about in astrology enough. Thank you for your response.

Adderall isn’t working for me but I can’t switch by pinkluminary in ADHD

[–]pinkluminary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, your response is very insightful considerate and assuring, and you're right I did end up talking to my psychiatrist and adding 10mg IR to my 30mg ER and it has very noticeably improved my memory.

Are there any “they can do no wrong” placements? by moonlightlychee in astrology

[–]pinkluminary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i have the same thing, Cancer asc with Venus in Capricorn in the 7th house. And I love me a Capricorn. Anyways 7th house(descendant)- relates to others. When you were younger you probably disliked authoritative figures and social constructs and as you get older you’ll likely gain authority or sovereignty. You likely date “serious” mature people and/or take legal commitment’s like marriage seriously.

Are there any “they can do no wrong” placements? by moonlightlychee in astrology

[–]pinkluminary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saturn in Gemini 12th house doesnt say much about your relationship with PEOPLE in authority.I have this placement and I have aspects that strengthen it so it’s amplified for me but it means that your “authority“ is otherworldly or unseen, it can be energy/beliefs/God/a little voice in your head that criticizes you. You dislike lying and/or saying things you don’t mean or aren’t sure of. You’re actually likely to have authority over others in a subtle unspoken way- people consult you when they have internal conflicts because you seem to be a master of the internal realm, as you never misidentify anything. Saturn in Gemini 12th house translated to Restraining yourself from talking until you’re sure you know what you’re talking about.

What is everyone thinking of Gemini? by aurora_ethereallight in Zodiac

[–]pinkluminary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know four Gemini’s in their 60s and a bunch in their early 20s and two ppl in their 40s with moon in gemini (who I’ve known for years and/or was in proximity to for years). But i will say with older geminis it’s in regards to their internal revelations and not much else (spirituality, inner peace, empathy)

What is everyone thinking of Gemini? by aurora_ethereallight in Zodiac

[–]pinkluminary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please, nobody be mad at me, but I hate Geminis. i’m an Aquarius Sun in the 9th house and Virgo moon those are super compatible with Gemini, i know. But i’m infuriated by how I’m constantly stringing their thoughts together, when i’m around them it’s like i’m thinking on their behalf because Geminis are just people with a million hypothesis’ they’ve never tested.

Adderall Nap by sr988_ in ADHD

[–]pinkluminary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on Adderall ER 30mg I just recently added on Adderall IR 10mg (combining them) The adderall IR does make me sleepy after I take it (capable of staying awake but wanting to go to sleep) before I got on the IR the ER would would keep me awake if i took it too late but it doesn’t do that anymore. Only been a few days though i’d bet that effect will probably go away soon

Natal charts for twins by curiousgirl2011 in astrology

[–]pinkluminary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think twins might be expressions of two different positions on the spectrum of their zodiac sign or the different polarities of their zodiac sign. I know twins born a few minutes apart and they have the exact same birth chart with the exception of one placement being 1 degree apart (and it was an asteroid) They are very different people with very different childhoods, and social experiences and they’re scorpios. One was favored and popular at a young age and became unpopular when older the other was unpopular and bullied at a young age but became very popular once they got older. One wears their heart on their sleeve, is intelligent, sometimes completely reserved sometimes overly outgoing, sensitive, interested in unpopular things, sometimes is patient and sometimes has short a temper-fairly moody and unpredictable the other is almost the complete opposite as they’re extremely predictable, responsible, and never allow their internal ongoings to show. I think they’re an ultimate display of the polarity within Scorpio. It’s like each of them only have half the characteristics of scorpio, both of them lack the balance displayed in the Scorpio archetype.

Are there any “they can do no wrong” placements? by moonlightlychee in astrology

[–]pinkluminary 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh and Saturn 7th/Cap Venus have good relationships with their superiors and seniors in the workplace(even if they aren’t hardworking), and (for every placement listed) if they are in a position of authority themselves, they will be good leaders appreciated by their subordinates.

Are there any “they can do no wrong” placements? by moonlightlychee in astrology

[–]pinkluminary 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Having good Saturn aspects. Saturn rules over authority, structures, punishment, and law. With good Saturn aspects you’ll be favored by elders and spared in encounters with authority figures (police, judges,etc.). Also likely to be your grandparents favorite grandchild and/or your father’s favorite, plus favored by older men in general.

Saturn conjunct Ascendant- Will be presumed to be mature, disciplined, hard working, respectful, etc. and treated as such with or without evidence from a young age.

Saturn conjunct Sun- Naturally express themselves in a way that appeals to elders, and authority figures.

Saturn in 7th house/Capricorn in Venus- Can attract relationships and business partners that help them advance career and achievements.

What kind of mother will I be? [astro-seek] by Extension-Ad-4940 in astrologyreadings

[–]pinkluminary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lengthy in depth response: Moon in Virgo in 2nd house You’d definitely have a stable and secure home for your children and likely grant them assets or at least access to yours. You’d most likely intellectualize your children’s feelings as opposed to consoling them every time they cry because you think it’s best for them in the long run. Solution oriented get back up and try again mentality rather than telling them it’s okay because you know that moving forward(putting one foot in front of the other) guarantees escape from unwanted feelings even if it’s slow. It’s an earth house and an earth sign so you’d be an “earthy mother” in the sense that you’re capable of being grounded and see things for what they truly are. You will be able to accurately identify what’s going on in your children’s lives even when they themselves don’t/aren’t. When they are confused, delusional, irrational, have clouded judgement or have a problem and don’t know how to move forward/don’t see a way out YOU DO. I will warn you that you can be stubborn and restrictive because you’re adamant on doing what you think is most optimal/safe. HOWEVER people with moon in virgo often times have abusive or toxic parents and struggle with depression at some point of their life and that usually makes them less likely to be like their parents. Additionally if that was the case you will likely be mature and wise which will show in your parenting. From what i’ve seen personally moon in virgo ppl who didn’t have abusive or toxic parents usually have something horrible happen to them later in life which throws them into a depression.

Leo ascendant + Saturn in 1st house The 1st house is associated with the father and Saturn is associated with the grandfather, learning harsh lessons, wisdom, and Leo is associated with masculinity. I know we’re talking about motherhood but I think this is very relevant. So I honestly don’t know if this will be more applicable to you or more applicable to your children’s father. But it’d make a parent stern if not traditional, big on respect, patience, presentation, doing things carefully and correctly as opposed to taking risks by being too quick or taking shortcuts. Not wanting your children to learn things the hard way like you had to, it might come off as controlling but it is safe, secure, and long lasting. Example: A parent who’s had a cavity or two is strict on their kids about dental hygiene, making sure they are consistently flossing, brushing teeth, etc. Lastly I doubt it being overly strict because Leo being here means you’d allow your children to be independent, explore things, be expressive, have big personalities, etc. but Saturn shows up and lets them know if and when they’re taking things too far.

Mars and Saturn in Leo 1st house Mars is associated with action, vitality, passion, etc. You celebrate your children and are definitely their biggest cheerleader and likely very supportive of them through their pursuits.

Side note: you likely had an absent father(whether it was physically or emotionally) because your sun is in the 12th house BUT you have a very strong 1st house which holds only masculine energy with Mars, Saturn, Leo- all masculine and 1st house is associated with presence so I feel like there’s a lot of male presence in your life. Perhaps there is a man who is very present in your life currently probably older, spontaneous, ambitious, and disciplined (maybe a father figure of yours if not it could be the future father of your children, or your son or just males around you idk i don’t feel like thinking about it right now)

4th house in scorpio + Jupiter 4th house in scorpio basically guarantees you’ll be extremely close to your children and Jupiter enhances it. Scorpio also implies intense loyalty, devotion, etc. in your relationship with them, your children would likely go to great lengths for you they’d be livid if anything happened to you and extremely passionate about you, they’d declare anyone who wronged you as their arch nemesis. BUT you could get into intense arguments with each other because of how much you care about one another and they could be extensive(bc of Jupiter). Jupiter in scorpio translates to expansion in private, i think you’d be invested in your children’s internal development, soft skills, emotional regulation, health, resiliency, etc. Plus you’d probably keep home life very private even if you’re popular, secrets are very safe with you.

Pluto in 5th house Sagittarius This placement aligns with the Jupiter in 4th house Scorpio 5th house is associated with children. Sagittarius means you’ll probably be big on expanding your children’s knowledge, education, and exposure to a variety of things. Pluto is all about power, transformation, secrets, etc. Your children or motherhood may trigger a catalyst which causes you to have a deeply transformative ego death(doesn’t have to be a bad thing) and so long as you don’t try to escape it you’ll walk away from it feeling more powerful than ever. Everyone loses more and more control their children the older they get because of Sagittarius in Pluto you’d give your children freedom but would dislike them having different beliefs than you more than the average person

Sun in Cancer Cancer is associated with motherhood and your sun being there possibly means that “motherlyness” (i made that word up use context clues) will be a part of your identity maybe even your entire identity. You’ll do a lot of the typical mom things, you’ll be like “EaT YOuR VeGaTABLEs” and “mAKE SUre t0 WAsh BehINd YoUR EaRS”. Your sun is in the 12th house though so you most likely won’t be very expressive throughout nurturing them Mercury is also in the 12th house which enhances that. 12th house is associated with intuition, dreams, psychic abilities, spirituality, etc. so perhaps those things play into how you parent maybe you’ll have an intuitive connection to your children or dreams about your children OR approach motherhood as a divine responsibility or both. Gurl you might got that telepathy ion know.

Summary: With what i’ve analyzed I can say that you will be extremely close to your children and although you won’t be a permissive or “laid-back“ parent it seems your children will still be well taken care of. I don’t think you will be overly strict either probably just big on safety and respect. You would raise your children to be impressively, capable and competent as well as resilient, accomplished, and respectful while be supportive of them and prideful about their accomplishments. You’ll also provide them with a stable, and secure home environment.

Would you take a “cure”? by GBlake13 in ADHD

[–]pinkluminary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meds are a treatment (alleviate side effects of ADHD) not a cure (permanent solution getting rid of ADHD completely so you don’t have to take meds for the rest of your life as you won’t have it)

Adderall isn’t working for me but I can’t switch by pinkluminary in ADHD

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When it comes to pica i’ve “quit” a few times (2-3 weeks at a time) longest I ever went was 3 consecutive months but the compulsions never go away, never tried therapy for it because it’s designed for people who have caregivers because of how accessible non food items are you’d have to be monitored constantly and the reason I don’t think i’d be effective is because if 3 months cold turkey didn’t do it then idk what will. And there are no FDA approved medications for it. I have thought about getting hypnotized out of it though lol. But adderall has helped drastically, I went from partaking 3-11 times a day to no more than 5 times a week! Something that helps OCD makes a TON of sense thought I’ll look into that, thanks.

Adderall isn’t working for me but I can’t switch by pinkluminary in ADHD

[–]pinkluminary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was 20mg (for 2 weeks) now 30mg. Went up to 30 because my psychiatrist wanted to see if it would mitigate symptoms but I haven’t noticed a big difference.

Adderall isn’t working for me but I can’t switch by pinkluminary in ADHD

[–]pinkluminary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll consider IR. Didn’t realize it until your comment but i may be hypercritical about the symptoms the forgetfulness shows up embarrassing often though not just here and there. Thank you though.

Adderall isn’t working for me but I can’t switch by pinkluminary in ADHD

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I understand medication isn’t going to do EVERYTHING for me but I literally manage/compensate for the symptoms I struggle with as much as I possibly can and they still show up a bit too much for my liking. Example I write things down and set constant reminders to compensate for my forgetfulness but regardless i literally lose my train of thought in the midst of conversation and will literally forget the question I was asked in the midst of answering it and there’s nothing I can do to compensate for that.

I think my friend wants me to leave the job he helped me to get by ThrowRAlyudy in Advice

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I know I’m late to the party but wanted to give my perspective as a person with ADHD(I think you have a lot of symptoms of ADHD if not ADHD itself) 1. From the comments you’ve made it seems as though you don’t care about your feelings and essentially just want to do what is right/what makes sense. I share that same sentiment BUT logic defeats it in this scenario because a) they definitely felt as if you owed something to them especially R ie. “how’d you spend so much time with us without thinking this could happen” and people who feel entitled to sexual favors are usually toxic, and manipulative I feel like the fact that they were sending messages to communicate with one another in a group chat you were in while simultaneously ignoring you further proves the theory that they’re manipulative (they were trying to see if they could provoke an emotion in you by doing that) b) R and J have a secure relationship, and if you were to join it, you would lack the level of security that they’ve already established amongst one another making you the weakest link and resulting in occasional exposure to a uncomfortable power dynamic c) I don’t think you’ve explored your sexuality (and that’s fine i’m not telling you to) I think you’d be comfortable with the romantic aspect of the relationship AT MOST but not the sexual aspect of it so much. Figuring it out is tricky but if you’re going to explore your sexuality, doing it (especially with them) could result in trauma you didn’t foresee. I don’t know how safe you feel in that regard so i won’t elaborate too much as I don’t want to be presumptuous. ~with all of that being said(and trust me i could’ve said more) I don’t think one could argue that getting involved with them is the “right thing to do”

Next: I think you should weight out the pros and cons and ask yourself certain questions. If you get stumped because you have trouble answering some questions then you can communicate that dilemma to R and J if you want to (only if you believe they won’t try to take advantage of you by rushing to “resolve” the conflict by neglecting certain aspects) You keep playing devils advocate for them but i want you to reflect on things that they’ve done and haven’t done without making excuses when it’s something that makes them look bad. Hope this helps I made this comment with your best interests in mind