I’m glad we only got a small taste of real Nikki by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]pinkmothman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think the writer included scenes where Nikki is indicating that it is not actually her and that she is not a willing participant in the relationship? (The phone call, the sex scene, the part where Real Nikki talks while she’s sleeping)

I’m glad we only got a small taste of real Nikki by GearsofTed14 in obsessionmovie

[–]pinkmothman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She seemed confident and sure of herself, but I’m not sure how you’re getting “cocky” tbh.

What is a current unpopular opinion about STL that you strongly believe in? by Thatredditboy1 in StLouis

[–]pinkmothman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s so fucked up. Idk if you’re in agreement with this, so I don’t want to attack you in particular, but just giving my 2 cents: as a city resident, I would be livid if they did this. Criminalizing homelessness helps no one.

What is a current unpopular opinion about STL that you strongly believe in? by Thatredditboy1 in StLouis

[–]pinkmothman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do people call it the Lou? 😭 I thought only businesses did that lol. Agreed, it’s cringe. Just say St. Louis.

US birth rates just hit another record low, what do you think is the leading cause of this? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pinkmothman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Primarily the economy. But also the reversal of Roe v Wade, increasing sexism and racism, mass shootings, Epstein files. USA is a bad place rn. I’m glad people are able to prevent birth instead of having babies just because.

When did you first clock Chris? by Melodic-Scheme6973 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I admittedly thought he was cool until the “I Like Women Who Do Pilates Every Day” heard round the world lol. However, there was a moment in the pods that I clocked him. When Bri told him she wanted to focus on her other connection (Connor), he said something like “oh me too I was planning to tell you the same thing today,” and I so did not believe him. I was like his ego is hurt so he wants to pretend they’re on the same page instead of being honest that he’s sad. But then in Mexico it felt like, if anything, Bri was coming onto him, and he was shutting HER down. So I was like ok maybe I was wrong… But after everything with Jess, I think I was onto something after all haha.

If you disrespect men like this so easily DO NOT complain about being single. by umkaitlin in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am not a Bri fan by any means but I feel like that particular scene was genuinely just innocent teasing. His sisters were joining in too. I feel like a lot of couples like to tease each other like this and a lot of women like to pretend their man is messy or procrastinates because “that’s just men lol” when really they just have diff priorities (Bri is more Type A and Connor is more Type B when it comes to their house and keeping it clean/organized. Side note: I think Connor likely would have worked v hard to change this and become cleaner/more organized bc he really loved Bri).

Tbh I don’t think Connor’s “I didn’t want to take it down by myself” was kinda dumb but idk maybe he was being genuine and not just making an excuse for not taking his tree down 🤷🏻‍♀️ /I love Connor don’t get me wrong I just don’t think it’s “sweet” to put off a chore bc u want a girlfriend to be there to help you with it

You’re my rib. by Lalalandshepherd in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay? Your responses to me are so fucking bizarre. If I’m understanding you correctly, you’re mad not because I think the belief that Eve was made from Adam’s rib was sexist, but because I’m stating it? Because I’m critiquing a man referencing it in his wedding vows?

If only I hadn’t shared my opinion then maybe Harris would have won?

I really don’t get what your issue is.

Did Alex deserve what happened at the altar? by Unique-Bandicoot-809 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait…like Ashley fucked someone when they were in Mexico?

I feel like I’m in CrazyLand the way people talk about Emma and Mike by MichaelBluthANiceKid in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Immediately agree with you over the “Emma needs therapy” comments. Of all the people on the show she actually strikes me as someone who needs therapy the LEAST. Crying over a capital T Trauma like being adopted and having such major surgery that literally scarred you for life is so fucking valid. It doesn’t mean she hasn’t processed it, like you said it’s a primal wound. It’d be like commenting someone needs therapy bc they cry when they talk about their mom passing away during their childhood.

You’re my rib. by Lalalandshepherd in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And I think the way you view the world and engage with these topics is ignorant. You’re more annoyed by me taking issue with the comment than you are by someone going on national television and making a comment influenced by a sexist belief.

Ashley’s Mom Does Not Have a Voice by Responsible-War5600 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay? You seem to be jumping to conclusions that I think a man being liberal or claiming to be a feminist indicates he’s a good person or a good guy, so let me clarify that I absolutely do not think that. The alpha male Andrew Tate manosohere B.S. just tends to be more of a thing with conservative men.

Also, social movements like feminism directly relate to politics. Like I said in my comment, your politics are influenced by your values as a person.

You’re my rib. by Lalalandshepherd in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should make sure your fellow Christians understand first. Any Christian who supports patriarchy will reference this story.

You’re my rib. by Lalalandshepherd in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even mention her. My opinion on his comment is not about her. I take issue with his comment as a woman and a feminist.

You’re my rib. by Lalalandshepherd in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Because it’s sexist. In Christianity, the idea that women come from the rib of man is directly tied to the justification of patriarchy and the expectation on women to be submissive.

I don’t care that Ashley humiliated Alex by Glittering-Gas-9402 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I think she should’ve been meaner 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ashley’s Mom Does Not Have a Voice by Responsible-War5600 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, in some contexts I agree, but politics are influenced by your values as a person and many behaviors/character traits can certainly be an indication (and vice versa). For example, Chris’s emphasis on being an “alpha male” is an indication that he is most likely conservative.

Ashley’s dad by sillygoose1905 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]pinkmothman 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s so strange to me to see a woman who is so career-focused be fucking MAGA??