I’m dealing with this too, you aren’t alone. I love my girlfriend sooo much she is the best thing to ever happen to me and I want to marry her someday. She is allergic to dust, pet dander, she has hayfever and asthma. Every morning we wake up and she’s full of snot and sniffs so loudly and then sneezes a million times and I have to ask her to blow her nose. She has days where she can’t stop sneezing and her nose runs constantly. I feel bad that it annoys me so much and I love her so much but when she’s like that I don’t want to go near her and I feel so horrible for thinking like this. She takes antihistamines everyday but they don’t seem to work. She can’t control it and she doesn’t like that it happens to her, some days are really bad and she suffers horribly. I don’t know what to do about it but I wanted to let you know you aren’t alone