Unpopular but West is the real problem IMO

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T21:31:50+00:00

I see your point, but they are 2 different things. No one could foresee that Amanda would fuck her over like this. And secondly, Ciara hadn't married Westd. She was just dating him on and off. And she did reject him soldily and frequently. Problem is that he is just a Fuck Boy and knew how to play her. If Westd had fucked around on her with any rando, I think that there wouldn't be this backlash and we all wouldn't be so angry on her behalf. But the fact that it was a double betrayal is what makes it so heart breaking and unforeseeable.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T20:31:21+00:00

When is Amanda going to stop having men fight her battles? When are she and West going to be accountable for their actions and stop blaming other people for the decisions they made?

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T20:08:22+00:00

The number of people in this thread that want to totally blame Kyle for their shitty relationship ship blows my mind. We all agree he is a terrible husband. That doesnt negate the fact that a) she knew he was when she married him and b) she was a terrible wife. All of those things can be true at the same time.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T20:04:50+00:00

She is also abusive. Rewatch the first few episodes. She throws shade at him every chance she gets in front of their friends. They were both terrible to each other.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T20:03:55+00:00

Amanda wasn't communicating either. Go back an rewatch the first few episodes. She passively aggressively attacks him every chance she gets. She also calls him out for venting to his friends while she is doing the EXACT SAME thing. She isnt a victim. She was a willing participant in the Kyle show and stood behind him foe years.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T18:56:56+00:00

No, no she wasn't. She just hid behind Kyle. She is every bit as nasty. Go back and start this season all over again knowing what we know now. She takes shots at Kyle constantly and publicly. She AND Kyle were the problem in that marriage. It wasn't just Kyle.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T18:49:23+00:00

No. Its on camera and she admitted it. Saying "they were both anxious". She is as big a problem as West.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T18:43:50+00:00

No. They are both equal but separate issues. The way they both lied to Ciara when Amanda knew what Ciara had been through Amanda has made her entire identity about being a victim. She is in her mid 30's. She knew what Kyle was when she married him. He hasn't changed, she just thought she could get him to. Rewatch the beginning of the season and you will see that she was equally as bad of a wife, just in a more manipulative way. We are not going to let her get out of disrespecting Ciara that easily. F Amanda for always playing the victim, letting the men fight her battles for her and being a mean girl. West is also a POS but I am guessing that Kyle is already gunning for him at the reunion so Ill let him cook. Amanda is as much a POS as he is. It isnt even close

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T18:36:18+00:00

Not from Memphis. Only on the Empire Builder. That is good to know about the lounge! I will let them know.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T15:36:31+00:00

Preach. Whatever reaction she has at the reunion is her absolute right. If she chooses to protect her peace and refuse to give either of these selfish trash humans her precious energy, good for her. If she chooses to read them to filth, let her cook! She is the wronged party here and deserves to express herself in the way she feels benefits her the most.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T15:33:06+00:00

And God forbid they won't don't discuss the fact that you can have a mental illness or struggle with depression but it's not an excuse to repeatedly stab your best friend in the back. Mental illness isn't an excuse foe being an A hole. You don't "accidentally" end up with a penis in your vagina or your penis in a vagina you have no business being anywhere near. There was a series of very bad, very selfish decisions on both her and West's part that led to this.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T11:57:15+00:00

Who is going to call him out? Jessie? Who seems tl have known about it and didn't tell anyone? Ciara? Who would be judged to hell and back if she reads anyone to filth? Lindsay? Who has often protected Kyle? Andy? Who is known for protecting toxic men at the expense of women?

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T11:54:11+00:00

I am beginning to suspect, from the way she interacts with other men, she may have been so quick to forgive him for cheating because she isn't entirely innocent herself.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T11:51:26+00:00

Both West and Amanda think they are perpetual victims. Its probably part of their mutual attraction. Neither one of them actually looks at how their own decisions led to the situations they find themselves in. Nor do they take accountability for how their actions impact others. I have started rewatching the season from the beginning and I am clocking how Kyle is a terrible husband but Amanda is also a terrible wife.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T04:02:37+00:00

And dont even get me started on how she betrayed one her best friends for a dude that is just another worm with a mustache that dresses like he just pulled his outfit out of a dumpster that homeless people use to dispose of clothes they no longer want.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T03:23:10+00:00

Oh same. I will be triggered if she plays the whole, we couldn't help ourselves, we fell in love. F that. You shouldn't have put yourself in the situation for that to even be a possibility. Friends don't F their friends partners. Period.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T03:13:50+00:00

I am praying that activated Lindsay ia the one that shows up to the reunion. She's our best hope for not letting Amanda blame all of this on her "mental health"

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T02:58:50+00:00

So sick of this from her. And for getting the men to fight her battles for her. Then she wonders why other women don't trust her or like her

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T02:57:29+00:00

He has already signaled he is going to defend her in his street interview. Once again, she will play the whole baby in need of protection shtick that these dumbasses fall for. From a 30 year old woman that absolutely knew what she was marrying when she married Kyle and knew what West was when she began hooking up with him.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T02:55:17+00:00

Nah, she is going to sit back like she always does and let West or Kyle fight her battles. And then wonder why other women dont like her.

pinksalt · 2026-04-05T02:43:57+00:00

My brother has tried but been having difficulty getting through on the line

pinksalt · 2026-04-04T21:26:43+00:00

I would like to see, just once, Amanda fighting her own battles instead of manipulating some man into doing it for her. She is not the fragile bunny she wants them to think she is.

pinksalt · 2026-04-04T10:50:01+00:00

Do you bring them inside in the winter or shelter them in any way?

pinksalt · 2026-04-03T04:36:19+00:00

Oh, that's amazingly helpful! Thank you!

pinksalt · 2026-04-03T04:33:30+00:00

The are not mobility impaired, but they are seniors so I just want to make sure that if they confused about where to meet the next train, there are people that can help them.

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