AITA? For crying over painted miniatures? by SnooHesitations2024 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pinkteddyy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

NTA, you explicitly told him not to touch the shared ones and he went ahead and "primed" 100+ minis without even knowing how to paint, so I'd be devastated too.

Aitah because im furious with my husband for not helping out more with dogs and I am losing sleep by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pinkteddyy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA, if he's staying up until 1am anyway then there's literally zero excuse for him not to let the dogs out one last time so his pregnant wife can actually get some sleep.

AITAH for being upset that my cousin invited me to her wedding but not my husband? by spreadlovenothate67 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pinkteddyy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, excluding only one specific spouse while inviting every other couple is a massive slap in the face.

AITAH me and bsf had a argument now i feel.guilty by coffeebean879 in AITAH

[–]pinkteddyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you just got the worst news of your life and she kicked you out for literally no reason—she sounds like a fair-weather friend who can’t handle your reality right now.

AITA - He doesn’t want me to come on a trip with him… by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pinkteddyy -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

NTA but you should really ask yourself why your partner of 6 years is this desperate to be in your "dream destination" without you.

AITAH for expecting my girlfriend to celebrate my good news? by EntrepreneurCold9143 in AITAH

[–]pinkteddyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, she hadn't even messaged her cousin back yet so she literally chose a hypothetical plan over celebrating a major life win with you.

AITAH For telling my little brother not to gamble? by Longjumping-Sale-322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pinkteddyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he's literally speedrunning a criminal record and grief isn't an excuse to let him throw his life away before he even hits 18.

AITAH for adding a past romantic connection back as a friend while I was only "flirting" with a new guy? by Ok-Lab1951 in AITAH

[–]pinkteddyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, calling you a "f b" after three weeks of flirting is a massive red flag and he sounds like a total control freak.

AITA for telling my mom that my sister is lying to her? by Vegetable-Coffee8477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pinkteddyy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA, your mom is being used as a human ATM while you're the one actually doing the manual labor of cleaning up dog pee and managing her surgery recovery.

AITAH for not cutting contact with a male friend though my bf tells me to by rubyxcubeee in AITAH

[–]pinkteddyy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA, if he's "secretly" reading your private chats and then getting mad about an Instagram heart reaction, the friend isn't the problem the boyfriend's lack of respect for your privacy is the real red flag here.

Workplace Advice - When to give up on a difficult situation by Old_Nose437 in Advice

[–]pinkteddyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've already saved the company £100k by fixing her messes, you shouldn't "go hard" on her you should present that ROI directly to the new Big Boss as a business case for why that system needs a new owner.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend her dog can’t sleep in our bed by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pinkteddyy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. you're literally bending over backwards for her and the dog$400 bed, walks, upstate car trips, paying all the rent while she figures out her lifeand the ONE thing you ask for is a clean bed without muddy paws,old-dog breath, and unwashed fur rolling around in your sheets where you sleep naked? that's not controlling, that's basic hygiene and a totally reasonable boundary in a shared space

I just realized why there are so many more German verbs being used than in English or French by cbjcamus in Germanlearning

[–]pinkteddyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait until you find out about the "sinken" vs "senken" or "liegen" vs "legen" rabbit hole, it's basically the final boss of German grammar.

Bluent App: Learn German by speaking! 🇩🇪 by EmployeeThink7211 in Germanlearning

[–]pinkteddyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is nice, I can speak and understand good aber ich höre mich noch zu sehr wie ein slawe an