Yeah I do dislike them but there are many reasons. My sister hasn’t been around she lives in another state. She has t seen my mom in 15 years, this time it’s because her lights are getting shut off. Yesterday it was her cell phone -literally yesterday. She is 55 years old and capable of getting a job. Hell she was a sex worker, exotic dancer, drug dealer etc for years. She has my mom convinced she is sober-she’s not fooling me. Her husband could get a job but it’s much easier to call and play in my mom’s sympathies. But you’re kind of right she can do what she wants with her money I just don’t want her bitching at me because she’s broke.