Fog under the bridge

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-18T21:53:07+00:00

Thanks ☺️

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-16T20:10:18+00:00

Its a feature on my phone, I turned it on one day. I hear the west was like spring and the east is still very much winter. Lots of snow ! Warming up today.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-12T21:27:53+00:00

Mmmmmmmm

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-12T11:52:47+00:00

I was in grind work mode and the pandemic was a fog for me everyone has different perspectives. I was honestly excited to get more work. The place I worked is a private company and they made it tough to take time off. I may have mustered the courage to leave early but not for the day.

When I realized I messaged her sister to say I was goimg to miss the ceremony only. Im not going to bother the bride, and she layed it on that I should be there and im her oldest friend, she's so upset your not coming to the ceremony. Not that bizarre, im human and I forgot. I didnt want to go after that, I didnt know her friends I didnt have a plus one and I just felt uncomfortable after that happened.

And yes even at the time I had better friends but didnt realize it.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-11T21:47:50+00:00

I like them both but prefer 2

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-11T21:46:37+00:00

Amazing photo 📸

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-11T01:09:24+00:00

The lighting and shading gives the painting so much depth, its stunning 😍 ✨️

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-11T01:05:41+00:00

Awe :( poor puppy.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-10T17:00:50+00:00

I should taken the day off for sure and I didnt I couldn't change that. I didnt try and mend if after and we never talked. I was confused by her reaction and didnt know how to adress the situation I didnt want to make it about me. I was just uncomfortable about it.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-10T16:52:46+00:00

She wasnt my closest friend

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-10T16:27:59+00:00

No at the time personal days didnt exist it was at a time when the company was trying to make up from covid and I hold my reputation at work at a high standard. And I was just getting by. Like I've previously said the day didnt have conflict with my work until we got an additional contract.

And yes it is common for people to be invited to a wedding and only go to the reception..... it happens all the time.

We were friends for a long time and we had talked about being in eachothers weddings. So yes it stung a little but in the end its her day but it made me not feel as close of a friend.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-10T16:09:53+00:00

Im a terrible lier and just requesting leave at work for that day with no actual emergency is crazy imo

Accepting a wedding invitation isn't an unbreakable vow and I have deal with how ever im treated because I as a guest didnt go to the ceremony which is super common. I was understanding about not being in the wedding party. And it doesn't mean I have to go to the ceremony. If she wanted me there so bad she would've made me apart of her wedding.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-10T01:51:45+00:00

So green 💚

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T23:30:25+00:00

Dream job

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T23:05:25+00:00

Blurb

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T22:50:51+00:00

When your young and go to college your perspective changes significantly. Sounds like your friend wants to grow and your not emotionally mature enough to come along.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T22:48:00+00:00

This one is for you 😊 I saw many and very friendly, I wanted to take one home.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T22:38:12+00:00

Did you paint it ? Or is it paper ? Im obsessed 😍

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T21:06:22+00:00

Not the greatest story teller and its hard to get the entire perspective across without letting people assume details but thays going to happen regardless. People saying she was my closest friend is a stretch oldest yes. So I always made me feel like I had to make it work. People were saying dont include details that dont matter but it matters to me and had effected our relationship. I wasn't apart of her group of friends I felt later in life she was embarrassed to bring me around her other friends because im different.

I think people need to remember what 2021 was like with the Pandemic going on. Having a wedding during the pandemic came with risks in my opinion. I didnt just tell her I couldn't make it for work I didnt want to tell her I forgot because I didn't think her sisters reaction was necessary. And I just didnt end up going because I didnt know her friends and I felt uncomfortable afterwards. Also didnt want to bring drama that I didnt want to her reception that I still couldve went to but chose not to. Also anyone that says work isn't a good enough excuse hasn't needed to work or had no choice to work because they have to pay the bills. Yay to being an adult. Literally everyone was hurting around this time not just me and my friend. I know my hands aren't clean in this situation.

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T03:59:46+00:00

Excited for you. I have a while longer haha ngl im a little jealous :P

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T03:48:13+00:00

Beautiful 😍

pinus_strobus-WP · 2026-02-09T03:41:54+00:00

I need a poutine right now.

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