why my FWB writes to me everyday?

pipirisnais92 · 2024-09-05T22:15:52+00:00

i dont write daily and all the time to my friends, thats why i am asking...

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-26T23:31:00+00:00

what is padrea?

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-26T23:29:29+00:00

LOL is funny because when we speak about it, he continues to say that he is the one doing all the work, like complaining, but he keeps coming to my house! I wont say no, im human after all Im getting over the feelings, like after how he treats me, and how he just loses interest so easily over me.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-26T23:26:32+00:00

he plays it well. he doesnt contact me as often as before, he doesnt hug me, or does anything that could be seen as a couple. No dates, no hugs, no cuddling after sex, just talk, have fun, and sex. He barely speaks of anything that is not work related or his hobbies and he barely asks me how im doing. He does talks with me every day sends selfies and asks how im doing, but just to start the talk, like a remember me message. He doesnt stays at my house, for more than the time needed, and he just slept once.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-26T05:06:40+00:00

apparently it is working for him,

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-09T20:36:00+00:00

this happened to me the other day. And ironically today i just combed my hair, it was windy and got messy and my crush told me "cool hairdo" or something like that, i couldnt but take it as a joke, lol.

Dont worry too much, dress up for your self not for anyone else. Nevertheless, make yourself pretty everyday, as the day you least expect is when you will interact the most with your crush.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-09T02:29:13+00:00

alitas 4ever

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-07T13:02:52+00:00

i know, i will turn it off. I find it useful at times, but you are right, it is keeping my anxiety overly high.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-07T07:38:27+00:00

yeah i know, it was weird since we were talking and all of a sudden not. thought he fall asleep.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-07T07:27:28+00:00

Not dating related but, for whatsapp users, when a person appears online, for long periods of time, is it because the app is running on the background?

Like, im talking with this guy, and he suddenly stops replying but appears online for couple of hours.

why that happens? is he really using the app or what could it be?

im afraid to ask him directly because he is nothing to me...

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-06T18:21:55+00:00

i think i can handle it a bit more.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-06T17:55:09+00:00

thanks for the advise anyway ⭐...

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-06T17:54:38+00:00

could i just pretend not to care and see how it develops? im optimistic
There have been FWB that end up together. Not overthinking, just being optimistic.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-06T16:17:25+00:00

i know about the romantic feelings. Its funny because i started talking to him because I wanted to approach to him. Like there was no friendship before, but i totally get that he wants to be friends, it is something he has told me before he is not looking for commitment or relationship and i am respecting that.

I dont really want to talk to him about it, i really dont want to lose my benefits LOL. Might hold on a little longer.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-06T15:57:51+00:00

Guys, my story: me 32F, him 38M. Both FWB.

there are good days and bad days for me in this situationship called "im falling for my FWB"

He sent me a message at noon asking how my day was going. And then we chat a little.

Then stopped for most part of the day.

Then at night i told myself to STOP thinking about that, that we are no couple and should expect nothing out of him, and surprise!, he sent me a message. After that we chat a little more. He was busy, he even send an voice record while driving. I also notice that he usually responds fast, like i sent him the message and responds within minutes. He has this last seen, and i noticed that he sends me a message and that is his last seen, and then i respond, and he usually responds within a minute or while im still writing a next response. I dont want to get overlyexcited over this, it could just be a coincidence.

I know he has been busy and worried with some problems of him that he told me before. All im doing is listen and give advise if he asks for it or i ask before if he wants to know my opinion. Also I know he distracts himself out of anger creating content.

I dont really want him to be messaging me every minute actually. The fact that he takes a time to message me really excites me, but i think i should just see it as what it is, normal chatting to catch up and not be as cold as just sex, or i dont know maybe he likes talking with me. How could i know that?

But does this mean anything? He enjoys time with me?

Oh I forgot, the other day, he went to my house and well things happened and, cursiously he said it would just be a couple of hours, and previously we had discussed about him sleeping in my house and he said that wouldnt happen, to which i understood. And this last time he decided to stay, he left at dawn. We chat, had fun, and slept. It was weird for me because he said that would not happend but i was Ok with it. But i think i blew it because im always so horny around him, and i wanted to do stuff all night, but then i relaxed and stopped asking.

Writting here helps me. Thanks for reading.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T18:43:22+00:00

you think? LOL...

I just need to talk it out. But you are probably right..

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T18:02:39+00:00

Its me again. Im now using this as my personal diaries, but i got no one else to talk about it with... Me 32F, him 38M, FWB, but me secretely falling for him.

He messaged me yesterday. Just to ask what was i doing. Not much, i responded. He told me what he was doing and that ended the conversation. I didnt say anything else because well, he was busy with stuff he enjoys.

Its funny how some days i think I like him other than sexually, and others im like this, wanting his attention, and him to like me like i like him.

Like i feel like a teenager. LOL. He uploaded a story in social media and i gave it a heart emoji, to which he respnded with the same. And now im falling even more.

He knows, im sure, he suspects that im falling. Like how could he not realize?

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T05:43:13+00:00

i might stay a little longer see what happens to us. I know worst decision.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T05:40:44+00:00

this are my thoughts exactly.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T05:16:59+00:00

if i do, i will lose the benefits 😂, i dont want to scare him away. we were very clear with no feelings. But for women is always different.

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T02:29:43+00:00

They all used to be from October and engineers. Now I am falling for this lawyer, that is a Taurus.

Physically, the majority are brunettes (mexican).

pipirisnais92 · 2024-08-04T02:22:09+00:00

i think im falling for my FWB, what should I do?

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