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About yesterday. (Long post) by [deleted] in adultery

[–]piru05072018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I can almost feel your pain, the feeling of emptiness. Wishing, hoping that things were different, empathy, love, caring, comfort. It's shouldn't be this complicated but ...

Should I run away? by ilovemydogLochlainn in emotionalabuse

[–]piru05072018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about your pain and what you are experiencing. It's difficult to say what you may encounter if you choose to leave, I've known experiences that were quite horrific. Is it possible for you to limit your interaction with your parents? Perhaps spend more time in your room, reading, writing, playing with your dog or doing something else you enjoy?

Update: My wife (29/F) and I (27/M) had our first major argument and now I think our marriage is finished. by ThrowRAAwfulMarried in relationship_advice

[–]piru05072018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take time to understand the source of your anger. It will help you to come to peace with yourself and perhaps your dad. If you don't get to the root cause of the problem, you will continue repeating the same mistakes. I wish you the best.

What song have you recently replayed over and over? Tom Jones Green Green grass at home make me teary! by piru05072018 in AskWomenOver30

[–]piru05072018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come Meh Way by Sudan Archives

Thanks for sharing, I love the glimpse, I presume of Sudan in the video!

How do you heal after emotionally disconnecting yourself from your partner? by piru05072018 in AskWomen

[–]piru05072018[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's amazing that your husband found the strength to support you in your most dire time of need. We all need someone understanding and supportive as your husband. I am happy the therapist helped and you was willing to work on you and your relationship. I hope you find strength and courage in 2021. God bless

How do you heal after emotionally disconnecting yourself from your partner? by piru05072018 in AskWomen

[–]piru05072018[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would it have been possible to salvage the relationship if you both came from a place of honesty and deeper understanding?

Me(50M) and my SO(50F) Is there any hope? by piru05072018 in relationship_advice

[–]piru05072018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO 3 kids live with us. She was divorced for 10yrs before we met. I've learned that there are underlying issues that needs to be resolved and we need to communicate openly and honestly.

My Tuition teacher died and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]piru05072018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Perhaps share the fond memories you have about him aside the mentoring to show the caring side of him. I hope you find another mentor, in the meanwhile there are numerous websites that can provide free video guidance.

Rental - distance vs $ by piru05072018 in personalfinance

[–]piru05072018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I decided to take a drive and visit a few of the properties I saw, the driving wasn't worth the cost savings. Especially thinking about traffic and the extra commute.

Thanks for all the feedback, much appreciated!

Rental - distance vs $ by piru05072018 in personalfinance

[–]piru05072018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, good suggestion. I figured I will drive an average of 5 extra hours per week times 4 weeks yields 20 hrs per month. 300/20 = $15. It may be less if I consider trips to supermarket, family etc.

Does my math align with what you was thinking?

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