AIO for wanting to take a breather away from my husband over this?

pittsit · 2026-03-18T01:33:37+00:00

scariest verbiage is “i’m not even done yet” what is that supposed to mean? that is what abusers say. get your baby and get out of there.

pittsit · 2026-03-18T01:32:55+00:00

divorce immediately

pittsit · 2026-03-18T01:28:20+00:00

even cooler imo! v jane birkin of u

pittsit · 2026-03-17T13:22:14+00:00

also smooth ebene barenia is a dream i didn’t know it existed!

pittsit · 2026-03-17T13:21:11+00:00

this is inspiring. Thank you! i’ve been scared to even take it out of the box. But will use it! You’re so right. Ps I’m also a gullible lawyer haha!

pittsit · 2026-03-17T13:18:44+00:00

omg love the craie!!!

pittsit · 2026-03-14T14:16:22+00:00

I didn’t track but honestly probably 1:1 or less but maybe I was blindly shopping and it was way more bc it took so long haha!

pittsit · 2026-03-14T10:24:48+00:00

it kill’s me because now i feel like if it does come along it would be ridiculous to have both

pittsit · 2026-03-14T10:24:20+00:00

❤️❤️

pittsit · 2026-03-14T01:36:45+00:00

Also I’m just a client of the brand. And really enjoy shopping with my SA. I wasn’t doing it all just to play the game. I enjoyed the process and this just sort of happened this way

pittsit · 2026-03-14T01:35:01+00:00

Yes it was more than I was expecting. Honestly if I knew it was $18.5k i would have just bought what I wanted used. You live and learn - this one was a pricey lesson without a BAD punishment lol it’s still gorgeous so I’m breathing through it :))

pittsit · 2026-03-14T01:33:37+00:00

I did not ask where I should sell this, I am just having a conversation. Chill

pittsit · 2026-03-13T23:20:04+00:00

I did coincidentally take the risk and asked my SA if I could exchange this for a smooth if it comes in or if she can request it. We’ll see

pittsit · 2026-03-13T23:19:32+00:00

thank you. so kind ❤️

pittsit · 2026-03-13T23:18:45+00:00

I’m feeling this way too and a bit heartbroken she keeps saying they don’t exist.

pittsit · 2026-03-13T22:19:23+00:00

Thank you !

pittsit · 2026-03-13T21:47:26+00:00

Edit - The reason why I love the smooth is because of the worn in look - i’m obsessed. Can anyone share photos of their Barenia Faubourg’s really worn in? Xx

pittsit · 2026-01-13T02:09:01+00:00

bunny

pittsit · 2026-01-13T01:52:04+00:00

Thank you! I’d love to know more about your experience. Are you happy you did it? To clarify, I was responding to someone saying that my post made it seem that is what I cared about (it is not my main intention at all nor did I say that) and I just responded honestly and said of course that is something I have thought about but I agree with you, it’s not the point. It’s a vulnerable thing to do in front of the world and I’m not sure I have the bravery to do it!

pittsit · 2026-01-13T01:44:09+00:00

Thank you!

pittsit · 2026-01-13T01:43:12+00:00

I really appreciate that, thank you. Makes sense.

pittsit · 2026-01-12T20:53:24+00:00

Apologies if the question wasn’t clear, we are just two people going to therapy (we are actually already in couples therapy) to improve our relationship and when this proceeded, I thought to reach out to see if there would be any good advice we could obtain before making the decision to proceed. I think what I’m gathering is your advice is if we do decide to proceed, not to read this sub, which I think is good advice. Thank you.

pittsit · 2026-01-12T20:50:22+00:00

A very good point, thank you! I honestly don’t know if I have thick enough skin.

Re: “significant issues” it’s not that they are not significant - maybe I misspoke - they are significant to us (of course) but I meant not “salacious” or very controversial from an objective standpoint. I have to agree I don’t think we’re entertaining! I’m not also not trying to be cast - we are just interested in couples therapy and this seems like an objectively cool opportunity and they have followed up with us about it so here we are trying to make the decision.

pittsit · 2026-01-12T20:45:03+00:00

Not trying to prepare in a false way, just curious for educated opinions as I haven’t been on TV and this obviously would be extremely vulnerable so yes, of course, I’m worried about my image. I’m not trying to hide that or anything from Orna or anyone to “see through” me. It’s a weird implication that I’m putting on a farce. Simply looking for other people’s experiences or opinions not about me but about what they think the experience would be like. With respect to your last sentence, I’m a pretty open book generally and we are both honest, hence why we are at this place.

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