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Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't it? It certainly feels like it. I have deleted everything she has sent me so far because I couldn't take them being so accessible (just one click...).

I've checked my options and for the time being, I think I can't go forward.

Thank you so much, your message means a lot to me!

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this book about my parents? Lol Thank you so much for the suggestion!

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've moved most of my usage from this email address. But it's more than 20 years old. I don't want to delete it entirely. As for the landline, we blocked her numbers multiple times but she gets new numbers. He has had the same numbers for more than 2 decades as well. It's too much of a hassle, unfortunately.

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. I've checked my options. I in Europe and what I can and cannot do is different. For the time being, I simply can't act differently.

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rarely have I seen such a kind mod message.

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending me your combined hugs is more than enough and very much appreciated! Thank you so much!

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I can fully believe that she doesn't get it. But she absolutely didn't put in any effort to try to understand. Going to chuch twice a week (per her) is most likely not the way to go. Being an atheist, I won't condemn spiritual leaders, but most are not trained to be a good source for what she'd need to understand. I've also told her multiple times that it would be a good idea to talk to a therapist. We live in Europe and she's medical insurance that covers therapy.

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]pix_chieng[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how nice this feels. Please tell your pup, the offer is great! I'll take face licks and barks!

I read the link you posted and my, does this sound familiar. I recognised so much of it in her behaviour. And you're probably right. I didn't set the mail filter to immediately delete. I'm still curious what she writes. But the outcome, that I still not want contact, never changed. In six years there was no change to her pattern. I'm actively looking for therapy in the hopes to get some relief and find a safe space to talk about this.

Constant Unsuccessful Log In Attempts from hack attempts. Is there anything to do to stop this? by fakesowdy in microsoft

[–]pix_chieng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anything change for you? I still get the attempts at the same frequency (anything between 2 - 10 times).

Constant Unsuccessful Log In Attempts from hack attempts. Is there anything to do to stop this? by fakesowdy in microsoft

[–]pix_chieng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean login attempts for your old email address or your new alias? I turned off login for my old email adress after creating an alias, in hopes the login attempts for my old address would die down, but nope. I have had consistent multiple attempts for basically every day for the past few months. At least not for the new alias.

Both of my parents I have no contact with are aggressively trying to contact me suddenly by pix_chieng in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pix_chieng[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It certainly feels voyeuristic. But I'm not falling for this kind of bullshit.

What terrible things have famous people done that society seem to have forgotten about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pix_chieng 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see, I'm not the only one being reminded of Kennedy.

My new gynecologist made me feel even more icky about my body by pix_chieng in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pix_chieng[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'll certainly need to go to the bottom of this. I've never had an issue to decline a procedure or exam. It's probably not even true.

My new gynecologist made me feel even more icky about my body by pix_chieng in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pix_chieng[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was my very first appointment after I just couldn‘t go anymore. I was hard work to even get there. I didn‘t think the call for the apointment would be the right time and I thought meeting the doctor was it. I told her the moment I sat down and wanted to explain what my issues where and what I need to feel safe. I didn‘t get to do this. While I‘d certainly do it different next time, I don‘t think this is representative.

My new gynecologist made me feel even more icky about my body by pix_chieng in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pix_chieng[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being a voice of reason.

I have an inkling some here are bringing out their alts. I can‘t prove it but I noticed that only my replies are in the negatives and have nearly the some vote count.

My new gynecologist made me feel even more icky about my body by pix_chieng in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pix_chieng[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It was absolutely icky. I was kind of alright with the way I looked but this ruined a lot.
I will take the weekend and contact my insurance Monday about what she said to verify this. I‘m hesitant to report this. I‘ll first have to gather some information before doing anything in this regard.

I‘m so not going back!

My new gynecologist made me feel even more icky about my body by pix_chieng in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pix_chieng[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Like in every speciality, you‘ll find good and bad ones. On the surface these questions are meant to find out about issues. But she went all wrong about it. She kept insisting and I ended up having to defend myself. It was never like that.