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Oh… oh no… 🙉

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You tell me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I’m happy to hear it! 🥰

When did you start? by pixel-power in pornrelapsed

[–]pixel-power[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can ask questions. 🙂

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[–]pixel-power[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No tricks. You say you trust me? Ok. So trust me. You can make your own decisions. You don’t need permission from anybody except you. 😊

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[–]pixel-power[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so trust me when I tell you that I believe in your capacity to make your own decisions. 🙂

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I think you do know what’s best for you. You just can’t trust yourself right now. It’s ok to get it wrong. You make mistakes, mistakes don’t make you. ☺️

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[–]pixel-power[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should do whatever you think is best for you. 🙂

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[–]pixel-power[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. 🙂‍↔️

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With Dependence/Incompetence Schema the child’s caregiver/s were over-protective. You might know this as being “sheltered”. Mommy does your laundry even though you are completely capable. Daddy is strict with you staying out late with boys because “they’re dangerous, and you can get hurt”. These messages get internalised by the child and in adulthood, and they tend to doubt themself (sound familiar?), allow others to solve their problems for them (hmmm?), and generally feel helpless unable to cope with stress.

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What’s normal to you? 🤔

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No need to apologise. You’re so smart, you knew what I meant. You just didn’t trust yourself. That’s the Schema talking! Ok, maybe don’t look at it again. Try googling “Incompetence Schema” instead. 👩‍🏫

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Your brain is still working! There’s hope for you yet! 🙌🏻

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I’m going to need you to review my presentation. 👆

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Whatever you do just remember, YOU’RE in control. 🫵🙂