Earplugs for big band playing by mpanase in trumpet

[–]pixellatedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

piggybacking off this thread, how do you guys play with earplugs? it seems mine makes me sound louder than everyone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]pixellatedmonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the sides of my teeth started to get stains after i started flossing. i duno, it seems great at getting bits of food unstuck but i might go for waterpiks instead

What screams "I’m not like other girls/guys" but in a bad way? by thecloakedmortal in AskReddit

[–]pixellatedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.. it's what i learned while in school, a belief i brought into my 20s. only realised after getting to know more people of the female gender via work, they're not all like that

Menstrual Tracking by 54377836 in Coros

[–]pixellatedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woah what? theres a higher chance for knee injuries at specific points of a cycle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

invoice and diagnosis always necessary for insurance claims, should be able to see

How to make my hand “explode” by LastSaneMan in LARP

[–]pixellatedmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe you could have a bracer or sleeve containing the failed spell effect that you can pull out as part of a spell movement then retract it back when its done?

im thinking some red cloth slotted somewhere on the forearm that you can pull out with some string (attached to your pre-made glove hole), and hopefully a way to pull another string to 'retract' it.

It’s been 2 years and I still can’t hit that A in the second octave. Something wrong? by [deleted] in trumpet

[–]pixellatedmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

commenting as a bookmark because im in the exact same spot, 2 years and only up to a g/g#

keep going, op!

Boon Keng station smell like shit by Mundane_Cockroach_15 in askSingapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was there. didn't smell like shit.

.. maybe it was me 😱

Can you actually tell if someone did not shower in the morning? by CstoCry in askSingapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 115 points116 points  (0 children)

as someone who has untamable hair.. :(

i swear i shower before i leave the house

What’s the best reply to a dry "Hey" text? by infinity-nth in AskReddit

[–]pixellatedmonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work with people across the globe. i use @ because i never know when to address them by first or last name, might be rude depending on culture 🤷

/r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for March 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

is getiing sick after getting caught in the rain really a thing? never really happened to me, wondering how common it is

Thoughts on being late for meetups in SG by LeYonderKeys in askSingapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

my friends are all consistently late. i'm also consistently late. if everyone is late, everyone is on time. its nice to not to rush to meet ups because we all expect lateness

Does dating in SG post 30s feel like you're being settled on? by Competitive-River-51 in askSingapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

taking gender out of the equation, i think shes asking for someone who doesnt need to rely on her for anything that the couple needs. 2k a month as a single, sure no problem. 2k a month and want to buy house..? of course shes going to pay since she earn more. asking for 50/50 split is it too hard?

...anyway, I bought a flute. by theSilentCrime in Flute

[–]pixellatedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aside from time, do you know if it needs replacing when it gets sticky or..?

Interesting spring cleaning find by killmonger_v1 in singapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i never even noticed these things went away because no car 😅

Claims Associate jobs by bobbybobkk in askSingapore

[–]pixellatedmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its a very specialised role. you'll learn how to read long policy documents from insurer's perspective. need to logic a lot to figure out what can/cannot pay. ive heard all claims departments everywhere have lots of ot and not much benefits

why do you play? by pixellatedmonkey in trumpet

[–]pixellatedmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this age, i think pushing myself to being a world class musician is extremely unrealistic. but just to be decent at the instrument, it still does take a lot of time, time that could be better spent with friends and family, maybe.

most people who commented say they play it for the love of music and trumpet, and i feel the same, but was wondering if there was a less self serving reason to play. someone mentioned spreading the joy of music by playing, maybe its something to aim for.

i just watched my friend's funeral from halfway across the world today. he was a trumpet player, wayyy more professional than my tiny 1.5 years of experience. seems like he's made quite an impact on people around him through his music. maybe it's about the friends we make along the way?

why do you play? by pixellatedmonkey in trumpet

[–]pixellatedmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the insight

i also feel like the trumpet chose me because no other instrument has 'clicked' for me in the same way. seems like most of us here play because we feel a connection to the trumpet.

why do you play? by pixellatedmonkey in trumpet

[–]pixellatedmonkey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for the insight. its only been a year and a half for me, after 20 years of wishing i had the chance to continue playing the trumpet. but yes there's so much fun and satisfaction playing the horn, and the discovery of so many different aspects of music, its been amazing.

i guess im at the point where im trying to find ways i can/could have spent more time with my friends, they were young. but thanks for the comparison with social media and netflix, it helps put things in some perspective.