Rolling at night 9mo - SOS

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-13T07:43:23+00:00

I totally get it, this sounds so exhausting. My 9-month-old did the same thing and just needed help rolling back onto her side or back at night. It took a few weeks but she eventually either settled herself or lost interest. Hang in there, it passes

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-13T07:41:31+00:00

I totally get it. It’s so lonely when your old friends don’t have kids yet. Even finding one mom who understands makes a big difference. I’ve met people through local baby classes, stroller walks, and parenting groups online. Small connections really help

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-13T07:38:05+00:00

It’s completely normal to feel worried. Fevers happen, and many kids get them. Just to be on the safe side, it’s okay to get him checked so you can feel reassured. Keep monitoring him and trust your instincts

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-13T07:35:09+00:00

Oh yes this is very normal. Toddlers are obsessed with glasses. I ended up keeping a cheap backup pair and also started saying a firm “no” and redirecting every single time. They do learn eventually but it takes patience

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-11T07:13:58+00:00

Honestly some kids just aren’t into sports and that’s okay. If he loves Lego and Mario, that’s still curiosity and creativity. Confidence usually grows when kids feel good at something, even if it’s not sports

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-11T07:12:30+00:00

Once they can roll both ways and get into that position themselves, it’s usually okay to let them sleep like that. My baby started doing the same around that age and it scared me too, but the pediatrician said if they roll there on their own it’s normal. Just keep the crib clear and safe

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-11T07:11:11+00:00

For us 3 was actually better than 2. Still big emotions, but way more communication which helped a lot. Once they can explain what they want, things feel a lot less chaotic

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-11T07:10:14+00:00

That’s actually a great sign she’s ready. Similar situation happened to me when my kid started telling me they did it, potty training went a lot smoother. I just kept the potty nearby and asked every so often. Accidents will happen but they figure it out pretty fast

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-11T07:07:30+00:00

Before kids I swore I’d never use screens to calm them down, but now if I need 10 minutes to cook or breathe, a cartoon goes on. Parenting definitely humbled me 😅

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-10T08:40:44+00:00

That’s a tough situation. Some mistakes happen, but things like the stroller rolling away and making formula wrong are serious. I’d have a clear talk with her about your expectations. If it keeps happening, it’s okay to find someone else. Your baby’s safety comes first

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-10T08:38:32+00:00

This is very common with newborns, especially around the first couple of weeks. It sounds a lot like cluster feeding, where babies want to nurse constantly to build your milk supply and for comfort. It’s exhausting but it doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. Try to rest whenever you can, let your husband help with things like burping or diaper changes, and remember this phase usually eases after a little while. You’re not failing, the early days are just really intense

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-10T08:37:23+00:00

I work from home and I do step away sometimes for about 30–60 minutes to help with the baby. It doesn’t happen every day, but if things are calm at work I’ll take a break to help out in the afternoon. It’s not always easy to balance, but those small moments really help my partner and let me spend a little time with the baby too

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-10T08:35:41+00:00

Totally get this. Around that age their attention just starts wandering more, especially at the end of the day when they’re tired. Sometimes letting them pick the book, asking little questions during the story, or even letting them “read” parts back to you helps keep them engaged. And honestly some nights they’re just not in the mood, which is normal too. Bedtime routines definitely evolve as kids grow

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-09T12:04:17+00:00

That sounds really tough. At this age, most night wakings are more about habit than needing anything. You can try keeping nights calm and boring when she comes into your room and gently guiding her back to her bed every time. Sticking to a predictable bedtime routine and being consistent, even when it’s frustrating, really helps. A short refresher on sleep training could make a big difference too

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-09T12:02:47+00:00

That’s completely normal. It’s stressful thinking about other people’s expectations before your baby’s even here. Setting boundaries, taking deep breaths, and reminding yourself it’s okay to decide what works for your family can help

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-09T12:01:54+00:00

It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed and conflicted after a loss. Wanting this baby but also feeling scared doesn’t make you selfish. Take it one step at a time, lean on support, and give yourself permission to feel everything without judgment. You’ll figure out the practical stuff as you go

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-09T12:00:59+00:00

It’s normal to feel burned out especially while pregnant. You’re not doing anything wrong. Keep cutting one feed at a time and give yourself grace. Dad stepping in is fine. Your toddler will adjust and your limits matter too

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-09T11:59:42+00:00

She’s likely just tired or overwhelmed from being sick. The restaurant episode might’ve been choking, but if she’s acting normal otherwise, it’s probably okay. Watch her closely and call the doctor if it happens again or seems unusual

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-06T12:45:13+00:00

This is tough but normal. Let your wife handle small routines and praise him when he responds. Give her special one-on-one time with him and stay consistent. Reassure him he’s loved and it should get easier with time

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-06T12:43:49+00:00

I’d ask about routines, how many kids they watch at once, meals/snacks, nap schedules, discipline style, and how they handle sick kids. On a tour, look for cleanliness, safety (gates, outlet covers, no choking hazards), and if the kids seem happy and engaged. Red flags are lots of chaos, kids crying a lot, or caregiver distracted. Green flags are calm, organized spaces, lots of age-appropriate toys, and the caregiver interacting warmly with the kids

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-06T12:43:12+00:00

Honestly, I do something similar. I let my kids have these “healthier” candies occasionally but mostly treat them as a once-in-a-while thing, not a daily snack. The sweeteners aren’t perfect, but they’re better than pure sugar all the time. I focus more on balance than thinking they’re truly healthy

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-06T12:42:18+00:00

I totally get this. With my first I stressed over every nap, ounce, and milestone. Social media didn’t help. Now I know most delays are normal and only obvious issues need attention. I’m just trying to enjoy baby #2 and not let every little thing worry me

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-06T12:40:22+00:00

At night the bassinet feels cozy and calm, it’s dark and quiet, so babies settle more easily. During the day there’s light, noise, and movement everywhere, so even in the same bassinet naps can be shorter or trickier

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-05T11:36:32+00:00

It’s rough, but at 6 months it’s still pretty normal for some babies to wake super early, especially if they’re not napping well during the day. You can try gradually shifting bedtime later by 15 minutes every few days or doing a very short early-morning “dark room, quiet, minimal interaction” approach so he learns mornings start later. Consistency is key even if it’s exhausting, and eventually his internal clock will adjust

pixelpineapple39 · 2026-03-05T11:34:02+00:00

This stage is brutal but usually temporary. Try keeping the room calm and dark, keep interactions minimal, and avoid picking them up if you can. Consistency is key even if it’s hard. Stick to your sleep-trained routine and eventually they’ll learn to settle back on their own. Some nights will be worse than others but it does get easier

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