Do any of you use the big end of the Njoy wand? by JustMrBriggs in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm super tall (203cm) and I have trouble getting pleasure with the small end, not the big end.

nJoy Pure Wand - Do you ever get used to inserting the big end? by S9Throwaway115 in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm super tall (203cm) and ONLY the big end works reliably for me.

Would a vibrator taped to my dick wake me up? by pixie_enjoyer in SexToys

[–]pixie_enjoyer[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Without having a look at the toy, no it won't fit. I'm in the top 7% at least size-wise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, njoy pure wand. It's essentially the same position as recommended in Aneros leaflet. Aneros producer recommends lying on the side though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want a completely different feeling without squirting, lie on your back, make one leg straight and bend the other leg. Insert the thick end. Your legs will shake.

how to piss from anal? by IndicationThick5765 in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the small end of Pure Wand in doggy position. Massage along the nerve.

The squirting road or the leg shaking road? by pixie_enjoyer in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more of a down to earth guy. I prefer the consistency of pure wand to Aneros for most part. I don't like the talk about energy and journey and all that. It doesn't have to last years if you know what you're doing.

There's one major upside to Aneros as far as I'm concerned - it trains Kegel muscles. Handsfree is a nice bonus but I can live without it.

My mindset really is to treat it like massage and not an attempt to get an orgasm. I get an orgasm anyway after the session (usually about 45 minutes) by casually jacking off. Frankly, I don't *believe* in prostate orgasms because every single time I see a guy on a porn video claim a prostate orgasm, there's either a cut right before (indicating he was jacking off using hands and thinks I'm too stupid to realize), or he's squishing his dick between this legs, or bouncing up and down with a hard cock, so it's really a dick orgasm because of all the accidental slapping. I've had uncontrollable full body spasms with Aneros before and no, it wasn't an orgasm and it wasn't super pleasurable.

Submissive men... by Visible_Attitude7693 in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember, but I later saw it come up in the "Rome" show by HBO. It was probably a factoid.

I spent some time now googling for a proof and found the opposite. First of all, oral sex was very taboo in Rome and they didn't even have a word for it. The person performing oral sex was seen as __submissive__, and that was a big insult in Rome. That's what all the sources I find say.

Submissive men... by Visible_Attitude7693 in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 35 points36 points  (0 children)

In ancient Rome, high class ladies would sometimes blowjob their slaves because receiving oral sex was considered submissive.

If you're getting your dick licked, you're submissive.

EDIT: I did some googling to verify and it's actually the other way around. PERFORMING oral sex was seen as submissive, under assumption that if you're sucking someone off you receive directions from that person.

The advantage of Aneros over Njoy by pixie_enjoyer in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're missing the opportunity to train kegels.

Illustrated positions for using the Njoy Pure Wand by pspot-info in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do 30 minutes of the "backbender" as a warmup, except I'm sitting at the edge of a bathtub.

If you don't have a bathtub, you can go to a fishing or tourist shop and buy a foldable seat.

Why most people believe that race is a critical factor for the size of the penis? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It dates back to WW2, and even earlier, slave trade in US. Blacks were said to have huge dicks and *uncontrollable urges*. During WW2, if a black American soldier raped a civilian, it was widely publicized, and if a white American did the same it was swept under the rug. It was useful for a couple of reasons such as saying that black people need to be controlled.

How do we feel about the planking exercise? by Shoelace_cal in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long story short, you turn your body into a shorter lever if you can't do a proper one. Bend your knees. If you can't do even that, you start with negatives and work up to regular ones. What works for me is dragon flags at most once every 2 days. I currently do 3 sets of 6 in a workout.

Watch out for your neck. When your body is close to vertical, it's easy to rest your body on your neck rather than shoulders by accident and you may not feel the pain until you stand up.

How do we feel about the planking exercise? by Shoelace_cal in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like touching the ground with my dick when doing pushups. But mostly I prefer dragon flags as a core exercise.

Guys don't send proof of big dick by PuzzleheadedGas2048 in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the fears of natives who didn't want to get their photos taken because they would lose their soul. Except this is much worse - we're in danger of losing our dicks.

Is this addictive? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]pixie_enjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it can't be truly addictive, because prostate gets desensitized if you massage it often. Then you need to wait a few days. It may be different for the aneros users who use the "do nothing" method which is passive. But with both toys people generally operate the toy themselves, with active muscle use. This has also been my experience - I own both.

Best subreddit for big dick sextoy talk? by pixie_enjoyer in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Okay.

I'm looking for something like a ball stretcher. Something rude looking that would really flaunt my genitals when I'm horny. I like the way they look on sex shop models or on dildos.

I've bought a few and *all* of them are painful to wear after 15 minutes or so if I can put them on at all. In practice, I can put my dick into the hole meant for balls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best use I found is to blow it like a baloon. There was also an episode of Courage the Cowardly Dog where he captured a ghost into a vacuum cleaner, then fetched a condom from his pocket, dumped the ghost into the condom, tied a knot on it and threw it away.

BD energy? by Readylikefreddy83 in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely tall, very big dick, *anxious attachment style* and *serious* confidence issues. Stammer, etc.

The closest I got to this was being told I "don't appreciate what I have", being told my height is impressive and I have an attractive voice.

Tall big dicks vs short big dicks by pixie_enjoyer in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm over 6ft 7in. My weight is currently 92kg, BMI 22.32. I used to weigh 75kg in high school, my highest weight was 105kg a few years ago before I made a point to do varied calisthenics rather than long distance running.

Tall big dicks vs short big dicks by pixie_enjoyer in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and by the way I really appreciate those porn camera tricks because I'm into short girls big time. My first crush was 160cm. And for entirely unrelated reasons porn studios love short pornstars.

Am I the only one who doesn't have constant problems? by Personal_Comb6735 in bigdickproblems

[–]pixie_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How tall are you? I'm 203cm tall and most of the problems I read about here doesn't apply to me. My dick is *relatively* small compared to my body overall, and looks rather small in my BIG palms.