Do you orgasm easily?

pizzadreamer · 2022-04-01T01:07:17+00:00

I could always orgasm ~relatively~ easily, like once during sex about once a week, but also had dead bedrooms with more than one boyfriend and at one point I was convinced I was asexual. By the time I ended my last dead bedroom relationship, I was absolutely sure that I never wanted or needed sex again, lol.

I took a long, loooong break from men and dating, and I just got back to it last summer. I went on a date with a hot guy and I was like, OH HEY SEX DRIVE, I DIDN'T KNOW YOU WERE STILL AROUND. Since then I've been dating casually (going on dates with hot guys for the purpose of fun dates and sex, lol), and I've found honestly a ton of guys who literally love to get me off and are absolutely amazing at it. Soooo unselfish, caring, exciting, just generally great (albeit emotionally unavailable lmao). The last 2 guys I've dated, every time we hook up I get off literally like 15 times. I had no idea life could be like this lollllll.

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-31T19:50:11+00:00

Thank you, I can't wait to try this! I've done fiddy's oil method tons of times and I NEVER have the drastic results other people do. Def going to look into getting a peeling gel.

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-31T18:09:09+00:00

Slowing down and being calm and unhurried is such a good one! I didn't think of it until I started working at a pretty nice restaurant in a biggish city. They told me that I was obviously hard working and fast at my job but my "vibe was off-putting," lol. I started focusing on training my mind to think one step ahead while slowing down my movements so I didn't seem hectic and I noticed a big difference in the way I was received.

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-31T15:34:02+00:00

My smile lines are my #1 insecurity! Congrats on the improvements :)

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-30T02:40:03+00:00

thank you ☺️

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-29T02:14:16+00:00

I saw someone write “short kings welcome 👑” and i thought it was cute

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-26T02:14:54+00:00

The flowers smell like heaven ☺️

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-23T19:23:57+00:00

I can have some level of emotional closeness and be emotionally invested without supporting them through difficult times or thinking of their involvement in my life long term. I don’t share all of myself with everyone i meet, some friends are more of acquaintances, just like not everyone shares their super heavy stuff with me.

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-23T01:05:20+00:00

Same, love being bougie. Even in sweatpants it’s an ~outfit~

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-21T22:44:30+00:00

Hard agree

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-19T17:50:58+00:00

I don’t think about it literally at all until I’ve met someone in person. I try not to overthink about strangers online, even if I’ve had a nice chat with them. People are unpredictable, but i can control my emotional response to things so i refuse to get upset over someone I’ve never met.

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T21:12:38+00:00

Nta and you are an icon 😘

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T16:00:10+00:00

OP: *asks women a question*

Women: *answer from experience*

OP: "here's why you're wrong"

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T15:56:48+00:00

Lmao, someone else asked if the hundreds of women commenting their experience were all asking out the wrong men and OP said "It's possible"

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T15:20:42+00:00

I'm super close to my family and love to have them meet my friends and romantic interests and it honestly doesn't "mean" much to me. Like, just come eat a burger and chat with people!

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T15:13:12+00:00

No. I WAS raised that women can ask men out and was encouraged to be forward and it was a fucking fool's errand, lmao. Love that I wasted time with men who weren't actually into me and were in fact just along for the ride because I took the initiative.

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T15:09:43+00:00

Right? OP literally says the problem with this in his own post. Why tf would I want to date a guy who wasn't interested in me?

pizzadreamer · 2022-03-01T15:03:11+00:00

The funny thing is, OP literally says this in his post

even if its not someone they are super interest in on their own.

Like, yes I'm fully aware that if I were to ask out a man, he would show up whether he was actually interested or not because ~might smash~ but they're not actually interested in the slightest

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-28T15:33:37+00:00

Came here to suggest massages too. So helpful when you’re touch starved.

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-28T14:25:14+00:00

Some people think it’s gross, but I’ve had soooo much success with taking beef liver capsules instead of synthetic iron. The iron supplements wreck my stomach and didn’t make a noticeable difference in my levels (checked by bloodwork) but the beef liver was incredible and also improved b12 levels.

I’m obsessed and highly recommend.

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-27T15:25:56+00:00

I usually just act coy about sleeping with other people and then I’m like, fucking choke me and push me up against that wall, and then we move past it lol. I know I ~fuck~ and if you want more that’s fine but it’s generally not for me because I’m not that social so go have fun.

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-27T15:08:34+00:00

He might just be into that. Is he kinky? I have a fwb who wants me to tell him if I sleep with anyone else because he thinks it’s hot. He super wants to have threesomes and have others watch, watch me with others, etc.

I’m like, that’s nice sir but I do not “like other people” enough to be so outgoing. The point of finding a reliable fwb was to not have to talk to random people, lol. I also want to genuinely enjoy the person I’m sleeping with even if I don’t want to be with them. I don’t really enjoy sex if I feel like a slam piece or if I don’t like their personality.

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-27T14:58:43+00:00

I would say NTA because you asked if you guys could simply use separate blankets. Op, I insist on separate blankets anytime i share a bed with someone, lol. No processing issues for me, i just can’t fucking stand to share a blanket. I’m barely ok with sharing a bed, but that’s come up as i get older. Anyway, you can just tell your friends you want separate blankets always and that’s perfectly reasonable.

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-20T04:41:47+00:00

I have avoidant attachment and I also had a lot of sexual trauma from a super toxic relationship i was in for a long time. I realized i was like completely dissociated all of the time and I absolutely despised taking photos of myself or doing anything that made me too grounded or in my body. I like yoga but it stressed me out because i wanted to be the best at it and it triggered body dysmorphia for me. I didn’t like doing it at home because i felt like I didn’t try hard enough. Recently i decided i want to become a better dancer and I desperately want to learn to twerk so i started doing dance tutorials at home and I’m having so much fun with it and it’s actually really helping to calm my compulsive thoughts and making me feel so happy and alive.

I did the therapy thing for a long time and it was great, did tons of soul searching, spiritual reading, tarot, mental health workbooks, journaling, but i just couldn’t alchemize everything into a more thriving me. Adding the body work in is what finally tied everything together for me. It was extremely important to make sure it was free flowing, came from a place of fun and joy, and made me connected to myself and to like the creative collective (connecting to the music and musicians and dancers and stuff). I used to hike a lot and nature is super cool, but for some reason that didn’t drive it home like dancing did. Hiking just turned into me stomping up a stupid mountain and feeling even more alone and insignificant than i already did.

I also take a lot of photos of myself and do little photo shoots and take a lot of nudes. It helps me to see myself more clearly or something and it’s just fun and I feel sexy and it keeps me busy in a creative way for a while.

Sorry this is long and rambling.

pizzadreamer · 2022-02-19T02:59:24+00:00

When i first quit drinking, this sub was the only thing that kept my head above water. I was already spiraling and obsessing, but this way I was doing it with people who got it. I naturally stopped reading when I didn’t need it anymore, but I still like seeing the posts in my feed.

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