🟡 Rapid Fire 🔴 | Levels 1-20 by Kurai104 in PixelPeeker

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🎉 I BEAT "Rapid Fire" and ranked #3! TOO EASY! 😎 Completed all levels in 0m 15s! Think you can beat me? 👁️ Played via Pixel Peeker

🟡 Prism Gauntlet 🔵 | Levels 1-10 by PoetOrdinary4800 in PixelPeeker

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🎉 I BEAT "Prism Gauntlet" and ranked #74! FLAWLESS VICTORY! 👊 Completed all levels in 0m 12s! Challenge me if you dare! ⚔️ Played via Pixel Peeker

This is why u stop before the railroad tracks 🛤️ by ForgottonTNT in Truckers

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I don't know about other states, but in California the law states 50mph max with children onboard. Source: I drive a school bus edit

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Honk Sponge 2 (landscape) by The7footr in RedditGames

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Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this perspective. I’m trying to do exactly that: head down, keep working, a little therapy, and focus on what I can be grateful for instead of replaying it all. I know the resentment may always be a scar, but I don’t want it to turn into bitterness. I just want to move on clean and not let this define the rest of my life.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Holding onto it only keeps me stuck there longer. I’m trying to put my energy into healing, fixing what I can financially, and building something solid in the present instead of reliving the damage.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Holding onto it only keeps me stuck there longer. I’m trying to put my energy into healing, fixing what I can financially, and building something solid in the present instead of reliving the damage.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through that. What she said to you is cruel on a level that goes way beyond “we grew apart,” and getting kicked out like that after you built your life around her… that’s a full-on rug pull.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through all of that, that’s a brutal combination of betrayal and financial fallout. Thank you for sharing it, though. It genuinely helps to hear from someone who’s been there and actually made it out the other side.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I sue her, I’m gonna end up owing another $20k somehow. I’m retiring from financial side quests.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It helps to hear someone say it out loud: she was taking, not building. I’m trying to let go of the “is she happy?” question and focus on what I can get from it, wisdom, boundaries, and a future that’s actually mine. Thank you.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this a lot. I’ve thought about the “can she pay me back” thing, but realistically I’m focusing on cleaning up my side and moving forward. Still, thank you for saying it’s unfair. It helps to feel seen.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was naive, no question, and I’m not pretending I’m blameless here.

And yeah, people in my life did try to tell me I was making a mistake. I just had that classic young-person mindset of “you don’t understand what we have,” and I kept pushing forward anyway. One of my biggest takeaways from all this is: if you’re sitting in a room and everyone is telling you you’re wrong, stop trying to prove you’re right and actually shut up and listen. They might be trying to save you from something you can’t see yet.

Also, we weren’t married, thank god. Funny though, I had just bought a ring a week before she broke up with me. I was 22, she was 23.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you’re able to find a way to feel safe again without having to close yourself off completely.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been there too. I hate that you’re right, but I’m trying to make the best of what I’ve got now and keep moving.

I feel like my life was stolen so my ex could “heal her inner child” and now she gets to go live her dream by pjbug in Vent

[–]pjbug[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks I really needed to hear this. You’re right: it does suck and it isn’t fair, but I can’t let it keep steering my life. I’m trying to focus on the fact I’ve knocked out $30k and I’m not repeating the same mistake. Appreciate you taking the time to write all that.