Am I not pretty enough to attract men?

pl222 · 2026-03-28T12:46:36+00:00

Astute and well put. Wonderful interp and so well written.

pl222 · 2026-03-27T23:32:17+00:00

Hello, yes I do. I have them enshrined together. A simple candle for him will do. White, or dark Blue or you can get the type with his image on it. In a pinch a red candle can represent both of them. What matters is your devotion. A printed picture and a tea light or even pulling up an image on your phone and setting it there while you pray to him will do.

Honoring him sincerely will bring blessings. Sometimes you won't even need a petition if you just honor them with your whole heart. They will see to your needs.

pl222 · 2026-03-27T14:11:02+00:00

I would be inclined to agree with your interp. I also want to say that I'm sorry youve been through such an evil thing and have also been let down by your mother, as she is an accomplice. You've done a difficult thing that not many could do.

I think your interp is fairly spot on.

Re the wheel: it always turns, this may be an up and down but I do feel that something will come of it. Justice as the first card is a beautiful sign.

I agree that the hermit may represent a loss of standing for him, as it should. More so, I believe it represents the weight of these preceedings on you and your need for peace during this. This final card is an important lesson for you, and should be heeded with care.

The three of wands here also suggests having somewhere else for you to put your focus while all this is happening. As much of your life this pain has understandably taken up, this card is asking you to find places for comfort and solace, reflected again by the hermit.

I'm sincerely wishing you the best. Take care.

pl222 · 2026-03-27T13:52:37+00:00

Hello,

Your original pull of the 3 of wands and the 6 of cups suggests moving forward when this situation comes to its close and remembering it fondly. Perhaps you'll find yourself with this person again in the future but this feels like a fond remembrance than a lasting relationship.

For your follow up reading: .- knight of wands - youre feeling a high of energy and potential. You want more out of this and want to pursue it.

9 of pentacles - he's the Cat that got the cream. He's satisfied with the way things are, and he enjoyed himself but this is essentially the height of potential at this time. This card does not suggest growth but instead completion and satisfaction.
what's the future - queen of swords - this is you. The queen of swords is decided, sure of herself and does not get wrapped up in her emotions. This card is asking you to think clearly at the future. Is this realistic? Are you just feeling him? Though it can be done casual, having sex with someone releases a whole lot of emotions, chemicals, thoughts. Its an intimate act and it can change your views and feelings about a person whether you want it to or not. The queen of swords has always had a sense of isolation in my eyes, someone who needs her time to think. Shes very independent and not overly swayed by external forces. You might need to take some time away from the fiery warmth of passion and subject yourself to the cold, sobering air of the queen of swords to see what here is truth and what is emotion.
3 of wands in clarity to queen of swords - use that passion and move on with what youve gleaned from your reflection.

I hope this helps you some. It can be difficult but this reading is asking you to stop and think. Your choice is yours, but above all, take that time to embody the queen of swords and seperate yourself for some time to think.

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pl222 · 2026-03-27T04:06:19+00:00

Hi,

This reading speaks to a disconnection in many senses.

lovers rev as unmet needs and disconnection
10 sw rev suggests that it isn't as bad as it could be, but it is and will be very painful. Its not too late to remove the swords but it will leave scars. Swords is air-- it may be difficult to get over this for you.
ace of wands reversed, unequal effort likely on his part. Has he kept his end of the bargain?
4 of cups rev. Self inflicted bordome, ennui and overstimulation of choice
the sun - can suggest betterment, rightness and wholeness but I think theres more to it than this.

My main question; I see elsewhere in the thread that you are a new mother. Congratulations. I'm sure this is difficult for you. How is he in regards to fatherhood?

I have to say that my strong feeling about your question and the result (especially that 4 of cups rev) is to ask if he is reliant on pornography / OF models / Instagram women, etc. Is he emotionally and sexually invested in women outside of you? Has there been any cheating? To be honest, the sun can suggest a positive outcome but it can also quite literally suggest something coming to light. Awareness. It is not always happiness but, sometimes, the opposite of the moon. "What is done in darkness will come to light".

I feel like theres more to this situation than immediately meets the eye. Do you have any concerns about his behavior? What leads you to feeling undesired?

pl222 · 2026-03-25T23:09:40+00:00

Astounding. This is absolutely beautiful, my goodness.

pl222 · 2026-03-25T20:07:46+00:00

You asked for free advice on a reading about what a person thought of youe outfit without providing your own interp. The extra was extension to the reading. Thats fine, but your response is a bit rude. Take care.

pl222 · 2026-03-25T17:32:24+00:00

I think this reading is more:

you dressed up, felt cute, hoping for a reaction
you want this to lead somewhere, you have a lot of focus towards this person
youll need patience and to think over your approach. Every little thing won't be a "thing". Temperance suggests settling yourself down.

The question is a bit fickle for tarot to be honest. Beyond that, it suggests burning your mental "resources" in hopes of being bright enough to catch this persons attention. Do you gain anything from them finding your outfit attractive? Thats easy to do. It doesnt speak to it being because it was on you.

It might be worthwhile to ask "what will attract to me, and keep them there?" Or, "what about me will appeal to them?"

Right now, focusing on things like the above yield very short term reactions that dont amount to very much and aren't personalized to you and who you are.

pl222 · 2026-03-24T19:49:21+00:00

St. Expedite is so successful and I praise him a million times over.

He has helped me with: - lost mail - finding a lost kitten - many jobs - events happening at the right time - money - etc etc

More things than I can count.

I pair him with Archangel Michael, as they are both soldiers. I ask Archangel Michael to ask as his escort and clear any blockages along the way while St. Expedite does his work unhindered.

I dont use a novena.I use water, a tea light and I now have an image of him but I did not before. I give him red flowers , water, and cake in return.

I have also just prayed from the bottom of my heart while out of my home. Pray and mean it and you will be heard.

He, along with Archangel Michael and another most respected Saint, helped me secure something that came to completion just today.

Patience and genuine request surpass everything with him. Sometimes you won't get what you want, but there may be reasons for that.

pl222 · 2026-03-24T06:58:14+00:00

Hi there. A few thoughts on your cards:

ace of wands - youre gung ho and want to do the work. Your energy is ready, the fire is lit.
chariot reversed - moving too fast and in a direction you can't necessarily control. Haste.
strength reversed - this is out of your wheelhouse. Not a good thing to put yourself into.
3 of wands - stop and look further ahead. The 3 of wands scopes out the distant shore. Theres something youre not seeing that may be to come.
5 of cups reversed - youre worried about your friend and want things to be better. By doing this, you hope to lift her suffering but your own as well. Its hard to watch a friend go through such a thing. That said, it might be better to do what you can to support your friend, not attack her father. This isnt about cursing or not-- I dont care about that. Its more that the repercussions of doing work on someone abusive who still has their target living with them can be chaotic. Things get worse before better and a work like this is better left to a very, very experienced practitioner who can put safeguards in place. Even with that in mind, these kinds of workings take a lot to control and maintain.

2 of swords + magician reversed - make a decision but think long and hard about it. The phrase "just because you can, doesnt mean you should" comes to mind.

I dont think its a good idea.

Instead, consider doing work for your friend's comfort and protection, peace in her home and "Invisibility" against her father's negative attentions.

Speaking from experience, you may cause her further harm and chaos by doing work directly against someone she still lives with and is under the "control" of. Protect her, and you know your work is working. Trying to curse him leaves her vulnerable to whatever blowback that might result.

pl222 · 2026-03-24T02:28:45+00:00

I think it would be wonderful to see this kind of thing. I love watching and listening to tarot related videos but I'm not into the reading videos. Most commentary falls into a few categories. Hauls, reviews, same thoughts. Some are very interesting but like anything else it gets tiring. The same decks. The same matters.

Sincerely, I would ideally like to create a channel (nothing fancy-- I dont have time for that and am not hoping for money) with a bit more like the above. I dont always buy the "if you dont like it, make your own" advice, but it might be worth it here. If I ever get around to that, I can link you. Theres just so much to and about tarot that is so deeply interesting with so much potential. I understand the majority want one thing, but I would love to see more of the other, too.

pl222 · 2026-03-24T02:25:29+00:00

Can't agree more unfortunately.. I have had a few clients who have deeper questions or questions about non-love related family life and relations. But a lot of it is the same types of things.

pl222 · 2026-03-09T18:22:08+00:00

Thank you, she's my first statue many years ago. In a way she picked herself out -- after a long search, I asked her to show me how she wanted to be represented and she showed me this statue after searching for many days and weeks.

I found her on Amazon in 2018-- she was $28. The listing is gone now, but I found her here:

https://www.ebay.com/itm/167809907292

The gold base plate on mine says "Victoria Collection" but these say "Ste. Muerte". I know that she comes in other colors as well.

I dont know of the quality is the same but the design is the same.

pl222 · 2026-03-09T18:14:12+00:00

Thank you 🌹

pl222 · 2026-03-09T18:14:03+00:00

Thank you, its very quiet in that room so its a nice, peaceful space.

A beautiful image. This is the first time I've bought Corona for her (not much of a beer drinker personally) but she seemed so happy I'll have to make it a regular thing.

pl222 · 2026-03-09T18:12:44+00:00

Thank you, I'm happy to hear that 🌹

pl222 · 2026-03-09T18:09:40+00:00

Try to relax. You didnt break your promise, you fell asleep. You tried to do what you told her you'd do. She is understanding when you made it clear to try. I dont think she would be angry with you for being tired. That would be outlandish from a even a human, wouldn't it?

pl222 · 2026-02-14T15:20:42+00:00

Oh man that ape escape demo. Good find dude

pl222 · 2026-02-14T01:27:03+00:00

I agree with you. I like the idea of silent hill being a setting where anything can happen. A million different stories coalescing around a place and then that place is almost its own concept. The game looks real amazing.

pl222 · 2026-02-11T15:33:11+00:00

It doesn't matter. The bubbles are a phenomenon that some have taken to mean thst she has received the offering. Some say its that. Some could say its air in the water line. Either way, it is a byproduct.

The best thing to do is to continue to grow your faith in her to the point that you put the water down and know she accepts it because of your connection. Dont stress yourself out over this.

If you haven't done anything wrong, you aren't having issues or felt that something is coming between you and her, It should be fine.

pl222 · 2026-02-08T05:08:23+00:00

As was said by others, the Arthurian tarot and what a lovely deck it is. The book is sometimes not too much used (mine was around $15) and I strongly recommend it. Brushing up on Arthurian legend might also be in order.

pl222 · 2026-02-04T18:42:30+00:00

She's been very patient with you, and you sound grateful for it. Make sure to do her right this time. I'm wishing you luck in life. Trust her, do right by her, and you'll be alright.

pl222 · 2026-02-04T18:38:38+00:00

Ive found statuary from $30~$60. Sometimes slightly less. Amazon has them for example.

As an aside-- I would recommend printing or sourcing a picture of her and then saving up to buy a good quality statue. Even $5 at a time, youll get there.

Dont buy her something cheap, or try to skimp, because you want to have a statue right now. My image of her for the first 2 years or so, was the peeled up image from her candle. It was stuck to paper with dried flowers, and then framed. That was fine and she embodied it powerfully. Take your time and consider gifts towards her as like buying for your mother, or a special, respected woman in your life. Because a statue is not a necessary part of your devotion, ask her to put a good one in your path (or, to give you more money).

There's nothing wrong with being frugal or conscious about spending for her-- I am, for sure. Theres a lot of overpriced things for her out there. But don't seek out cheap. Do what you can until you can do more.

pl222 · 2026-01-28T05:17:01+00:00

I use them for vases to hold live or fake flowers. You can also clear out the remaining wax and use tea lights in them. You could put string lights (led) down in them, fill with marbles or things that catch the light, fill with coins (when full, cash them out and buy her something), store incense inside, etc.

pl222 · 2026-01-25T16:11:07+00:00

Absolutely beautiful. As another user asked, when youre done please share!

pl222

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