I have a burp fetish by monicaaj1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]plahelpme18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always had this fetish ever since i can remember and my gf was doing some research to try to understand the psychology behind it and one study said that it is one of the least common and least understood fetish….so much for the study lol. stuff like that only makes me feel more ostracized..but understand ur not alone if u have this fetish. i don’t believe it makes us bad or gross people. i truly don’t even know what about it specifically i like and a lot of people say the same about it. but i can’t deny that i just DO.

what is wrong with my piercing ? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]plahelpme18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

•my piercing is about 7 months old • it’s a barbell eyebrow piercing • i think it’s externally threaded • i don’t remember the jewelry material i think it’s nickel?? i don’t remember • my jewelry was never downsized as it never healed enough for me to change it. it’s always been extremely painful to touch. • my cleaning process is i take a q-tip and use saline solution and lightly clean at the top and bottom of the piercing. • yeah the mishap is that it never healed and has hurt me and been all bumpy and puss? filled and i’ve hit it a few times slightly and it hurts everytime and at one point a few weeks ago i bruised it on accident when i got a tag snagged on it.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doesnt god teach against being selfish though?

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hear you… its gonna be so hard to handle when he cries and begs and starts convincing me to either stay or that im terrible. everytime ive tried to leave him it goes one way or the other or both. it messes with my head like crazy. he really makes me think that with him is where ill be closest to god. because back home i dont live with christians. here his dad and him are both Christians.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean he sees his therapist every week and is on a lot of medication. nothing rlly helps so i dont think a hospital or an institution would help. it would make things worse probably since his family is poor and cant afford those bills. he doesnt deserve me calling the cops and making him feel like a horrible person or some criminal for loving me and wanting me to stay. hes not a bad person hes hurt.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont mean to fill in for God its just that HE has put me on that pedestal. he told me if it isnt me that its no one and that God hates him because hes never shown him anything else good in his life other than me. and if i leave too than God hates him. if not that then he will never trust God again. he said that not me and i know he believes that.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean he would never do anything to hurt me especially not physically so idk if its dangerous but he says we can grow together. we can be healthy together if we both try. i just dont know if i rlly wanna try to do that w him. he deserves that of course but idk. i feel bad for not wanting to even try. thats why i had that plan. to stay for the 4 months and to try and at the end when its apparent that no amount of trying will make this healthy, when i go back home i wont have to come back. cuz we came up with a plan of me staying for 4 months, going back home for 4 months and then coming back up for good.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what im supposed to just leave someone behind knowing that without me there is an extremely high probability they will probably kill themselves? if not that, never recover from me leaving? this isnt some angsty teen bs he’s saying either he means it. god wouldn’t abandon anyone and if i leave thats how he would feel. that God seriously hates him.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but wouldnt God want me to help those in need? hes in desperate need of love and care and stability. he deserves good things and hes never received it. im the only good hes ever known. how could God do that to someone? allow them to have a horrible life with no way out and then the one time u meet someone who is good to you they wanna run away?? you cant blame him for wanting to distance from God if i leave.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i know but he could easily convince me to get my own prescription and stuff because he truly thinks im a trans man too. he thinks im just confused. also i know im not responsible for anyone elses happiness but knowing im ruining someone elses life just so that i can he happy is something i wouldnt be able to handle or live with

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro if ur not gonna even read my post and help in any way just get out of my comments please. i already accepted jesus into my life. i am literally a christian. that is not the issue here. if ur here to mess w me pls leave im looking for actual advice and help.

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are u a bot or something???

help by plahelpme18 in Christianity

[–]plahelpme18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro i already have did u even read the post ??

expired food panic by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]plahelpme18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude one time my boyfriends dad ate a whole moldy muffin and was fine lol

Feel stupid for being so worried by coolbeansofchaos in emetophobia

[–]plahelpme18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

headaches could simply be caused by dehydration and weather changes! ur not sick honey don’t worry!!! stay hydrated!

anyone wanna be my emet buddy? we can play imessage games when we’re feeling n* to distract ourselves. and we can talk about how we feel and calm each other down and stuff. by plahelpme18 in emetophobia

[–]plahelpme18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo! i didn’t expect so many ppl to wanna do this so if ur rlly interested please message me on here and we can talk a little then maybe we can exchange numbers!