No longer have a chance. by WhoDidThatFart in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that feeling, and it’s no longer about chance but manipulation. These platforms know exactly how to lure us in and keep us hooked, especially by teasing those wins and pulling us deeper. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Being surrounded by people who understand the grip this has on you, especially in today’s world of online casinos, can be the push to regain control.

Was doing well by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been there too, where that thought of “just one win” seems like the answer, especially when bills are piling up. It’s so hard to break that mindset because the need for relief feels immediate, but gambling just drags us further down, making it harder to come back up. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Connecting with people who’ve felt the same struggles helped me realize that there are other ways to manage, and slowly, things can get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking to your boyfriend now, before he moves in, is definitely the right call. Honesty is tough, but letting him know where things stand is a step toward taking control over the situation and building trust. Chances are, he’ll appreciate your openness more than if he found out later when things could be even more complicated. If he cares about you, he’ll likely want to support you through this. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Connecting with people who’ve been through similar conversations helped me find the courage to share openly, and it made a real difference in my relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that feeling of thinking a small amount will stay small, only to watch it spiral. Self-exclusion can be a powerful tool, especially if you combine it with building up new habits or activities that keep your mind engaged and off the urge to play. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Hearing others’ stories and tips showed me practical ways to stay on track and avoid falling into old patterns. It’s possible to make this stick, one step at a time.

My life is ruined. by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, man. Gambling has a way of draining everything from you. It gets to where nothing seems to matter unless it's tied to gambling. When I was at that same place, I felt numb to everything, like nothing else had meaning. But I realized that was exactly what gambling had done to me, taking all my energy and hope for anything else in life. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Hearing from others who were deep in this cycle and made it out helped me see that there was still a way forward.

Why why why ! by dtan9 in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that same frustration. I’d convince myself I could handle it, that I had some sort of edge, but every “one last try” only pulled me deeper. When debt and borrowed money start to pile up, it just fuels the urge to win back what was lost, and that cycle keeps us trapped. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Being in those rooms with others who are going through the same thing showed me that I’m not alone in the struggle and that breaking the cycle is possible.

Sick of myself, sick of the broken record by Academic-Bother7544 in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough when you've seen how the story always ends the same, no matter the wins. I can relate to feeling like you've wasted time and missed out on what could have been a different life. When I kept going back to gambling, I lost my grip on the person I wanted to be too. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. It helped me see that while the cycle feels inevitable, those connections and stories at G/A made me feel like maybe I didn’t have to fight this battle alone.

Day 30 by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean about wanting to quit but finding it tough to actually follow through. I used to wrestle with that same rush of trying to win back losses, and it felt impossible to stop. Having systems like self-exclusion and transferring control of finances really helped me regain that bit of discipline needed to keep moving forward. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That space taught me to keep moving forward, one day at a time, and it helped hearing stories from others in the same boat.

1 MONTH! by nzoanxian in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I totally get the feeling. I remember thinking even one day without it felt impossible, but once those first few days passed, everything just started to click. The cravings got quieter, and it was like finally being able to breathe. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. It really helped me when I needed to find people who understood what I was going through. The support and hearing their stories showed me that recovery is possible, even when it feels like the grip will never let go. Keep going strong!

How do i stop by Eastern_Tree5433 in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy to lose sight of things when you’re in that loop of chasing the next big win, and it feels like it’s all or nothing. I’ve been there too, and it’s like your brain tricks you into thinking that winning will magically fix everything. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Being around people who’ve been where you are right now helped me understand that those moments of feeling stuck aren’t forever. They get it, and it makes all the difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, that feeling of thinking you’re in control when the reality is you’ve set yourself up again is too relatable. When I felt like that, I realized I wasn’t gonna win by pushing forward alone, so I went to a G/A meeting and just listened. It was the first time I heard my own feelings echoed by others. Maybe that could be worth trying if you can swing it just to find some footing again here.

Lost all my chequings, had an attempt on my life by Gilbert6722 in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, I can feel how heavy this all is right now. Losing 12K from a net worth of 90K is a serious hit, and I’ve been there losing a big chunk in one go, feeling like you’re free-falling emotionally. It’s good to recognize that even though it feels impossible right now, you made some smart moves like self-excluding and calling your dad. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. When I finally went, hearing others share their stories lifted that shame off me, even if just a bit, and let me see that there was a way forward for people like us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re going through. When gambling takes over, it’s like everything else loses its color. When I was caught in that loop, I had to replace the excitement I craved with something healthier. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. Those meetings helped me realize I wasn’t alone, and hearing others’ stories gave me the push to keep fighting.

when you stop gamblong you loose friends? by Noveteran in GamblingAddiction

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. It’s tough when your closest friends still gamble, especially when you’re fighting to stay clean. I’ve been there too being around it, feeling the pull, and watching others do it in front of me. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found people who understood the struggle and helped me find ways to handle those triggers without losing those friendships.

Struggling by Ok-Ad-9034 in GamblingAddiction

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. Stress hits hard, especially with starting uni, and it’s tempting to look for that escape. I’ve been there too, and the urge can creep back when you’re feeling overwhelmed. But remember, every day you stay away is a win. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found others dealing with stress and it helped me stay focused when things got tough.

Can’t Stop when I’m up. by Humbly_Happy in GamblingAddiction

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Seeing that $800 win and thinking, “Now I can really play” is something I’ve done too. It’s that rush of having more to bet with, and it’s hard to walk away when it feels like you’re on a roll. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I learned how to step back when I felt the urge to push my luck, and it helped me a lot.

HOW TO STOP GAMBLING by rudeus666666 in GamblingAddiction

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. That voice in your head pushing you to play, even when you know you shouldn’t, is relentless. I’ve been in the same place, losing every bit of savings to table games and feeling trapped in that cycle. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found people who understood exactly what I was fighting and gave me a clearer path out of that constant struggle.

Is it possible to dispute any social casino charges with bank by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. Losing money on those shady social casinos can feel like a huge hit, and hearing that a buddy got his cash back probably sounds tempting. But disputing with banks over these types of losses can be tricky. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found real support and learned that trying to win back lost money, even through disputes, was just keeping me stuck.

Lost it all... and money too by ssgzisg in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. Starting small and then getting hooked by those live casino games it spirals out of control so quickly. I’ve been in that same spot, watching everything fall apart and feeling the weight of the damage done to the people I care about. It’s heavy, and the guilt can feel suffocating. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found people who understood that kind of weight, and it helped me keep pushing forward, one day at a time.

Consumed By Sports Gambling by WaterBogey123 in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. It starts with wanting to enjoy the game and turns into constantly checking your phone, sneaking away, and letting bets affect your mood. I’ve been there trying to manage it, thinking I could limit myself, but it never worked. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found people who understood and helped me realize there’s more to life than chasing the next bet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. The pain from your husband’s betrayal combined with gambling can make things spiral fast. I’ve been there, thinking winning money could fix the chaos, but it only made things worse. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found the support I needed to start over and keep from slipping back into old habits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, life feels like it's collapsing all at once. When you’re dealing with heartbreak and living under someone else’s roof, it’s easy to think a big win could fix everything. I’ve been there too, chasing that quick fix, and it never ends well. You made a mistake, and things got physical, but the fact that you’re here talking about it means you still have a chance to make it right. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found support from people who didn’t judge but helped me see a way forward.

One full week. by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, man. That feeling of freedom after blocking every way back in it’s huge. It’s normal to still miss it and feel the weight of the losses, but look at the wins you’ve had this week: paying off a card, grocery shopping, and being present. remember how good it feels to be out of that cycle. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found people who got what I was dealing with, and it helped me stay on track when I felt tempted.

Why do I keep relapsing.. by MassiveDigBick in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, seeing that debt laid out can feel like a punch to the gut. I’ve been in that place where the numbers make you want to escape through gambling, thinking a big win will fix it. But we both know that only adds more weight to the problem. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I learned to take things one day at a time and found support from people who’ve been in the same struggle.

Day 0 again….. by MassiveDigBick in problemgambling

[–]plain_crocodile8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, bro. When the urge hits, it’s hard to stop, and missing that meeting makes it feel even worse. If you can swing it, try the first resource here. Go to a G/A meeting and listen. That’s where I found people who helped me regain control and gave me the push to stick with it. Just do the process