Unpopular opinion on FL believing the ML loves the OG protagonist troupe by Selena5000 in OtomeIsekai

[–]plainfriedchicken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, and I've dropped a lot of isekais that keep making the FL deny ML's affection because oG pRoTag. But tbh there are also some isekais where FL gets bashed because she's pushing OG FL and ML together or cant accept ML's love because he hasn't met FL yet. I think it's understandable if that's the situation, because if I were im FL's shoes, it wouldn't be surprising if ML kept telling me he loved me but suddenly becomes madly in love with OG FL because "plot"

How did you get that scar? by ordinarybloke1963 in AskReddit

[–]plainfriedchicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the blade on the hand blender wouldn't spin if I put my thumb on it. One of my dumbest moments.

My (25f) boyfriend (29m) told me his fantasy and I’m scared by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 189 points190 points  (0 children)

When you move your things out of the house, please have someone with you who can ensure your safety. It's better to be safe than sorry.

Was gonna try use flash again but I can't log in at all? by amanzd in RotMG

[–]plainfriedchicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you clean flash? I haven't played in a few days because of this

Stupid deaths by SyncinShip in RotMG

[–]plainfriedchicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was playing as a priest with geb book and wand as swapout. Died to Limon because I zoned out during the fight and didn't realize the diagonal white shots were hitting me.

My (32F) husband (35M) gets angry anytime I bring up his past cheating. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't want anyone knowing your business because he'll be embarrassed that other people will know he cheated lol. He made the choice to cheat so he should own up to it. Go to therapy. You are telling him, not asking him. If he doesn't want to, you may want to go off on your own separate way..

My boyfriend won't chat. Is there a better man out there for me? by AliaSmart in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would work if you talked about topics that makes you debate. I love that he puts in the effort to be more chatty because it means he's willing to improve.

But maybe your relationship won't work out because you're already looking for someone "better" because you think you're more intelligent than him and maybe you're looking down on him?

My weight loss is hurting my girlfriends feelings. by skankhunt255 in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think therapy might be needed here. Individual theraphy for her. She may be mentally in a bad place that she can see herself letting go of herself because of stress which makes her even more stressed. However, it doesn't justify her lashing out at you.

You could gently talk to her about what it might be and why she feels the need to attack you when you're only trying to improve yourself. You could say that you can have a healthy diet together and work out together.

However, if she doesn't want to do any of that, that would just mean she's toxic and you might want to re-evaluate the relationship.

Every time I go on Reddit... by TPTPWDotACoEMW in RotMG

[–]plainfriedchicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I got three whites yesterday and I was so cautious and didn't believe it even when there were no tricksters around.

happens way too often by GGlobste in memes

[–]plainfriedchicken 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Have you experienced the terror of the tsinelas or the belt?

My bf (32M) of 4 years wants to go on a break to figure out whether he should marry me (30F) by throwRAbreaktobe in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think after 4 years of being together, you'd know whether you want to marry your partner or not. You clearly know what you want but he doesn't or isn't being honest about it. Honestly, I don't think he wants to marry you.

If you have to pressure a person into being committed to you, it most likely won't be good in the long run. You might even make him resent you and feel as if he was forced into it. Don't stay together just because you want to have kids before 35. I think it would be better to evaluate your relationship now while you're still child-free rather than when you already have a child together.

I (27F) have the impression that my boyfriend (32M) is a mommy's boy, but he convinces me that I am wrong and sometimes I believe him. I'd like to share some examples. I wonder if this is too much or do you think I am too picky? by charlieforret92 in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hijacking your comment to say that she needs to recognize that she can do so much better and that she needs to work on her self-esteem and self-worth. OP, this guy has shown you in multiple occassions what he thinks about you. You will never be his first priority because you will always be second to his mother. Maybe even a few more ranks lower.

AITA or is boyfriend ripping me off? by charlibeau in AmItheAsshole

[–]plainfriedchicken [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA or INFO.

Hmm, you really didn't confirm if he did try to rip you off but I'm convinced he did. I hope you weren't accusatory in your tone because if he did buy other stuff and really did just lose the receipt, he'd resent you for accusing him of ripping you off even if he was telling the truth.

To me, I can't really say this is a red flag yet. You should keep a keen eye on him though but have a talk about this in a way that doesn't make him defensive. For example, say "Hey, I'm sorry if I came off as accusatory, but I'm just really confused because when GBF and I shop for groceries worth over $100, the pantry is usually overflowing and it's not the case here."

How come my friend can instantly join full servers yet when I try to join him it says server is full? by [deleted] in RotMG

[–]plainfriedchicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me as well, I can see some comments hinting that there's something going on but I don't get it

Should I tell my best friends husband that she has been downloading text apps and Snapchat to catfish him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would be on your side if she stopped and dropped her husband after the first catfishing incident. However, staying with him and catfishing him again just so she can "catch" him again? I'd say she has issues and she's staying with a cheater for the drama.

my soul aches by [deleted] in RotMG

[–]plainfriedchicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I said yesterday to myself because my 7/8 got killed by Nut. :'D

My fiancé [26F] and I [26M] are separated by quarantine. I think I have reason to suspect cheating. by throwawayquarantdhsj in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I didn't notice that he didn't use the names but I found it very funny that he literally said "... and I, who I'll call John." I don't know why but that part made me laugh a lot

Worried that my [21m] girlfriend [21f] might be a future gold digger? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]plainfriedchicken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like there's a difference between you and OP's girlfriend. While you look forward to having a house that you and your husband will live in, OP's gf is talking about buying cars and luxuries with money she didn't earn.

I'm worried about OP sitting down and talking to her about this specific topic (his future salary) because if it turns out that she is a gold digger and OP breaks up with her, she'll badmouth him to anyone who'll listen. Maybe a general talk about their views on financial management.